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First club visit? Are you unsure? What to expect.

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i should probably add, that whilst my experience was quite 'raunchy', there were a number of singles and couples just chatting, wandering around observing, and actually only played together in a private room - but it did give them the opportunity to see what it was all about, and noone at any point was trying to pressure anyone into anything.
 
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Superb, thankyou. Was recently invited to go to a club with a like minded colleague and his wife, but I personally met the invite with a mixture of excitement and fear. This post has moved the bar more towards the excitement end of the scale and quashed lot of preconceptions. Thanks again.
 
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Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx
 
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Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx
you will definitely like it.

having now been to my second club, it was very different in layout, but exactly the same in atmosphere - lots of people just sitting round chatting, but opportunities to play 'if you wanted to'.

definitely my new favourite hobby.
 
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Oh hello you
 
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and if you are lucky, you might even get to meet these two @Pearls @meet_the_fockers
i did and have never looked back
 
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and if you are lucky, you might even get to meet these two @Pearls @meet_the_fockers
i did and have never looked back
Im not sure whether thats a good thing i was throwing myself around in a towel.. thinking i was the best dancer since legs n co..
pearls was strutting around half naked srveying the talent. @RobbieFutuo sat was a lot quieter until of course @Admin rocked up in a kilt
 
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Your most welcome im so glad you found it useful... They are on the whole lovely places. Try it youll never look back. Hey whats to loose dont like it leave, but you will. Xx

Is it ok to go on my own with my friend and his wife, or is it poor etiquette not taking a partner. Will I look out of place. I'm
Would it be acceptable for me to go with my friend and his wife without my wife, or would that be bad etiquette? My wife is yet to be convinced so this is kind of secretive at the moment and more of a research and reconnaissance exercise. I don't want to feel out of place by not taking a partner or looking like a single guy that's chancing his arm to get laid
 
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Fantastic evening and amazing club. You can really be yourself..
Kilt had to be done.
Lots of dancing going on aye
 
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i went as a single guy. the clubs usually make very clear which nights single males are welcome (make sure you check in advance), and on those nights, you will definitely not look out of place
 
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Oooo clubs have specific rules re entry..
ok some nights are couples only.. some nights as a couple you can take a "playmate" be it male or female.. its a sticky erm no pun area.. you would have to DEFINATELY check the clubs website re.. entry requirements whats on and when.
Ideally ring the club beforehand.. if you let me know which club you intend visiting i can check for you. If i cant i know a man who can. Ok just private message me..
 
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i went as a single guy. the clubs usually make very clear which nights single males are welcome (make sure you check in advance), and on those nights, you will definitely not look out of place
on both occasions, the lady in a couple indicated to me she would like me to join her - being a single male suited them both very well. my advice would be to not 'act' like someone who just wants to get laid, but just socialise as if you would on a normal night out where you are meeting new people. Im very new to this but have learnt that generally, the more experienced swingers, or those women clearly intrested, will let you know, if you seem like a decent guy.
I suspect, if i was an arrogant sod, women would steer very clear.

Be nice, be respectful, and you will have a nice evening.
 

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This!
 
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Smart and yummy... bonus
 
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