For All Club & Swinging Newbies Attending Our Birthday Party...

[Admin]

Hello Sexy Peeps,
Are you attending our 2nd birthday party next week at the VA and are completely new to this lifestyle? Never stepped foot into a swingers club before?
If so, do you have any questions you would like to ask?
Do you have any worries you'd like to discuss?

If you've never been to a swinging club before, do you have concerns, expectations, worries, or are you nervous about even getting to the door and opening it?
Do you know what to expect or have an idea as to what to expect?

Use this thread, specifically for anyone new to this, to discuss things before next week.
If you have worries or concerns, by all means chat here and see what others think and what advice others can offer you.

I know there are a lot of people attending next week who are completely new to this lifestyle let alone even attending a swinging club for the first time, so if you have concerns or questions or worries, let's talk about them and discuss preconceptions you may have and anything on your mind.

Two things;
1, Remember NO means NO. Every time, without question.
2, The only silly question, is the one you didn't ask.

x

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I can look after our newbies..

 

[Deleted member 1030]

I can look after our newbies..

I think that's what @Admin is worried about. That's why he started the thread

 

[MP386]

Anyone want to hold my hand ...
Will be my first visit ....
Room is booked at VA ...

 

[Phoenixcouplexx]

I can look after our newbies..

God help the poor souls. Are you trying to get them finger printed too?
We shall make sure all the shy people are included so no one feels left out :innocent:

 

[Phoenixcouplexx]

I'm a newbie, will you look after me?

Only if the police haven't already got your fingerprints lol

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I'm a newbie, will you look after me?

Of course my dear.. pay no mind to the nasty ladies and gentlemen. X

 

[meet_the_fockers]

God help the poor souls. Are you trying to get them finger printed too?
We shall make sure all the shy people are included so no one feels left out :innocent:

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I think that's what @Admin is worried about. That's why he started the thread

I dont like you anymore!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I shall be over there >>>> i shall find some new freinds.

 

[BlancoGoGo]

Is this a serious thread, for nervous newcomers? (We've all been there)

Or is it going to be spammed by 'staff', again?

 

[Never_say_Never]

We'll be there as newbies although I think all my questions have already been answered over the last couple of weeks. I've asked loads of questions and I've trawled through threads.
Thank you to all you wonderful people who have responded to my questions, you've helped a great deal.
The threads have proved really useful too as they are written by real people who have been there and bought the tee-shirt so to speak. xx
:mwah:

 

[meet_the_fockers]

 

[meet_the_fockers]

We'll be there as newbies although I think all my questions have already been answered over the last couple of weeks. I've asked loads of questions and I've trawled through threads.
Thank you to all you wonderful people who have responded to my questions, you've helped a great deal.
The threads have proved really useful too as they are written by real people who have been there and bought the tee-shirt so to speak. xx
:mwah:

You are most welcome.. we look forward to seeing you. X

 

[Deleted member 3657]

I can look after our newbies..

Mrs MTF is the perfect person to lo......... pwahahahaha I can't keep a straight face...

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Mrs MTF is the perfect person to lo......... pwahahahaha I can't keep a straight face...

You trying to get me into twubble i has to shush.. ommmm

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

If you look at this on the whole we are all newbies so to speak, alot of us have never met in person only the persona we present on here , so we will all be nervous in our own ways of meeting eachother , yes some of us have attended clubs before and also whilst on here, but I for one look at each club attended as a new experiance to learn from others of the swing scene xx mwah

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Anyone want to hold my hand ...
Will be my first visit ....
Room is booked at VA ...

Ill hold your hand mp really looking forward to finally having the chance to say hello to you in person xx

 

[MP386]

Ill hold your hand mp really looking forward to finally having the chance to say hello to you in person xx

Thank you ... will be nice to meet you too..xx

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

Thank you ... will be nice to meet you too..xx

Well we have been here together a long time now hunni it will be my honour xx

 

[MP386]

Well we have been here together a long time now hunni it will be my honour xx

It's the longest I have been anywhere so must be the all the lovely people here ...

 

[Miss-Sexy-Legs]

It's the longest I have been anywhere so must be the all the lovely people here ...

But of course its the best site by a mile fun and friendly, hands on help day and half the night to answer anyones questions if it is needed xx

 

[Brumcouple2013]

While we have been on the scene a few years and visit our local club regularly, it's our first time visiting VA. so yes we are a little nervous.
New surrounding and new faces, going to the last social at Chams will be an help but still excited at meeting new people

 

[Tigress]

Going to a club for the first time can be daunting. It's a whole new mindset. My advice... Take your time, never feel any pressure and enjoy the experience.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok all joking aside
As legs says up there.. we have been here a long time.. we get to see your different, personalities.. traits ect.
Its good to coax nervous newbies.. out of the shadows, so to speak onto threads.. with a little fun, and light hearted banter.

The main thing to remember, you will be amongst freinds.. people you interact with daily.
It is no different to a normal party.. theres a large a bar area where you can chat mingle.. the staff myself included.. will be around and available to quell any fears, doubts, like last year, just as we are are on here.
I and i know the rest of the team.. are looking forward immensley to meeting you all... Nothing better than saying OMG its you .. hellooooooo ... once youve been there an hour your nerve's will be a thing of the past..
Now lets get ready for a party!! xxx