Hardened Swingers

Yorkshirecpl said:

What's your definition of a hardened swinger?

We asked because someone used the term to describe us made us chuckle as we don't consider ourselves hardened anything

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Not keen on the phrase but I guess it serves purpose/meaning and is universally recognised.
IMHO hardened swingers would be those who have been in the lifestyle for an incredibly long time, go to as many events/parties as possible and are the ones who do definitely make notches on bedposts.

Ourselves for example, 15+ years we've been involved in this but are very select with who we get involved with, so it's not like we racked up a history. Time may make us 'hardened swingers' in this context, but play wise - definitely not!

Yorkshirecpl said:

And if we are going to be anything we want to be super swingers

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Now I must admit, this made me chuckle

None of us may wish to be labelled "hardened" swingers (and I personally have a looooong way to go before I can even take my stabilisers off )

BUT I think we'd all (well the men anyway) be content to be known as...............

Antogs xx