Help!

Jaynerobert · 6 January 2020

help!

Need some calming words or advice for tonight please gorgeous people!

I am feeling SO nervous which is an uncomfortable and absolutely not normal feeling for me. I’m the sort of person who can launch into a job interview or public speaking without any qualms ... but it seems going on our first couple meet is pulling at every bit of my confidence and self belief.

I don’t want to cancel but I need a boost or your advice to keep me from losing my nerve completely.

J x

Deleted member 11852 · 6 January 2020

Jaynerobert said:
help!

Need some calming words or advice for tonight please gorgeous people!

I am feeling SO nervous which is an uncomfortable and absolutely not normal feeling for me. I’m the sort of person who can launch into a job interview or public speaking without any qualms ... but it seems going on our first couple meet is pulling at every bit of my confidence and self belief.

I don’t want to cancel but I need a boost or your advice to keep me from losing my nerve completely.

J x

I always get incredibly nervous before our meets. Go into it with an open mind. Have a drink, chat, relax. The rest will come naturally, just be yourself huni.
Think of it as a night out with hopefully some extra added fun, you will be fine xxx M

Deleted member 6127 · 6 January 2020

Your in control of the situation. If you don’t want to go any further than a drink it’s your choice. If they pressure you walk away.

Your a lovely couple starting out on your new journey. It’s there for enjoyment and should not cause any stress. Go with the attitude it’s fun. If you don’t connect than there’s plenty of other days.

Enjoy xxxx :0)) T

Jaynerobert · 6 January 2020

Thank you both. x

sthwalescpl · 6 January 2020

Its completely natural to be nervous, we still get butterflys when we go to a first meet with someone new, so relax.
Remember you dont have to do anything you aren't sure of, so take your time, chat, get to know them and take it at your own pace.

Colin · 6 January 2020

Hope everything was to your liking and didnt spoil your evening and both couples had a great time ?

Pearls · 7 January 2020

Jaynerobert said:
help!

Need some calming words or advice for tonight please gorgeous people!

I am feeling SO nervous which is an uncomfortable and absolutely not normal feeling for me. I’m the sort of person who can launch into a job interview or public speaking without any qualms ... but it seems going on our first couple meet is pulling at every bit of my confidence and self belief.

I don’t want to cancel but I need a boost or your advice to keep me from losing my nerve completely.

J x

How did it go both?
Being a new couple to the scene don’t forget we have the verification system in place which shows who you’ve met ???

Pearls · 7 January 2020

Pearls said:
How did it go both?
Being a new couple to the scene don’t forget we have the verification system in place which shows who you’ve met ???

And did your nerves hold out alright

Jaynerobert · 7 January 2020

Thanks all who calmed the nerves and/or stroked my ego a little bit to get me back in that confident place that was needed. I went all guns blazing dressed far too much to kill and R looked super hot, he wasn’t that nervous and I ended up feeling great when we got there and rang the bell and they seemed to like us.

There were some serious lessons learned regarding not judging a book by its online cover (not assuming that all are open and honest where age and pics are concerned - no-one from here I hasten to add!) and that maybe it would have been a brighter idea for us to insist on meeting in a pub for a drink rather than naively going to their house!!! (I know, someone quickly tell us what other mistakes we ‘might’ make before we do! - we are both quite impetuous and clearly got carried away!)

I won’t be that level of nervous when we go on our next couple meet ... I’m over that!

Thanks again. You’re all gorgeous and total stars. J x

Pearls · 7 January 2020

Jaynerobert said:
Thanks all who calmed the nerves and/or stroked my ego a little bit to get me back in that confident place that was needed. I went all guns blazing dressed far too much to kill and R looked super hot, he wasn’t that nervous and I ended up feeling great when we got there and rang the bell and they seemed to like us.

There were some serious lessons learned regarding not judging a book by its online cover (not assuming that all are open and honest where age and pics are concerned - no-one from here I hasten to add!) and that maybe it would have been a brighter idea for us to insist on meeting in a pub for a drink rather than naively going to their house!!! (I know, someone quickly tell us what other mistakes we ‘might’ make before we do! - we are both quite impetuous and clearly got carried away!)

I won’t be that level of nervous when we go on our next couple meet ... I’m over that!

Thanks again. You’re all gorgeous and total stars. J x

Oh my mistake sorry guys, I thought it was someone from here with the thread. Ignore what I said about our verification system and me thinking you were new to this. I do apologise

Jaynerobert · 7 January 2020

Pearls said:
Oh my mistake sorry guys, I thought it was someone from here with the thread. Ignore what I said about our verification system and me thinking you were new to this. I do apologise

We are new to it all. First ever experience at the beginning of December. We tend to go at life together all guns blazing so might seem like we aren’t new ... but hence the rookie errors! ?

Pearls · 7 January 2020

Jaynerobert said:
We are new to it all. First ever experience at the beginning of December. We tend to go at life together all guns blazing so might seem like we aren’t new ... but hence the rookie errors! ?

I’m sure you’ll get there both. We’ve all been there ???

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