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Honesty

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Skippy01

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18 September 2020
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Ok …. I’m always honest about my past swinging or otherwise, if I’m asked I won’t hide what I’ve done or my experiences …
My recent past has made me think if this is the right approach …
I can't answer properly because I lied for about 13 years.When I say lied ,I actually omitted information that wasn't important x
 

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9 November 2015
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So what was the recent approach?
I met someone through a swinging site … new to swinging…. And who wanted to try it ….We formed a relationship which I believed was more than it turned out to be … I think my honesty was what made it go “Pete Tong” I told her how I felt but I’m sure she had “trust “ issues with men from past experiences,not sure how much was that was truth …. I was told on more than one occasion that being a long term swinging I couldn’t be trusted as a partner in a normal relationship …so is it best not to honest ?
 

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Skippy01

Quiz Queen 2020
18 September 2020
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In situations like that,it's best to be honest.You can't keep romantic feelings to yourself. That's when complications start,especially if the other person doesn't feel the same.
As for the stuff about being trusted as a partner,that's ridiculous.Being a swinger does not make you less trustworthy than someone who has only been in monogamous relationships x
 

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18 July 2015
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Then she was the biggest bullshitter. I know who it is and trust me she lied to me too. She’s not a swinger new to the scene, she’s a woman that gives me a bad name. She’s a slag in this scene who will tell you anything to make you feel good, a cash cow, a liar, a person who uses every advantage to her advantage. Not well! Had a hundred meets in a month whilst being ill? Don’t even think about thinking she was real or said anything to you that was. Sorry for being honest.
 

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Skippy01

Quiz Queen 2020
18 September 2020
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I'm calling bullshit on the new to swinging now.X
 
27 April 2015
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Honesty in swinging, does it pay to be honest with what you’ve done?
Honestly, from our point of view NO.... What happens between consenting adults, should completely stay with them alone, friends and family (maybe new partners til your totally sure of them) in our experience, are far too judgemental, and very quick to condemn you.
Yes, we know its a cliché but what happens in the bedroom needs to be kept away from the non swinging fraternity...... ?? Trust us ?!!!!
 

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9 November 2015
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Hello nice to see you popping back in … ??
 
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It’s always best to be honest when asked about past experiences and who I have met as the truth will always come out somehow .If you trust someone enough to have a sexual relationship with them then you should be able to trust them to be truthful with you
Coming from the site drabs to this one made me realise swingers can be nice people and so far it’s been a brilliant experience
 
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