I am the female half of our couple. It is my fantasy to watch my husband fuck another women and/or have some fun with another female myself. We have tried the dating site route but things got a little weird with some of the people we were speaking to so we decided to give the swinging route a go to cut out all the drama. We are planning a trip to the VA in 2 weeks to get a feel for how it all works and do a little exploring. Any tips would be great!