Firstly id be open about being on a swinging site hun, lies only cause heartbreak , if she decides she ,d like to have a nosey introduce her to the site and go from there , just do not force your fantacies on her
Ask yourself if this is your fantasy,
Is it a fantasy you both share,
If it is shared by you both then communicate and see if she wants to turn it into reality, if not then game over ??
Ask yourself if this is your fantasy,
Is it a fantasy you both share,
If it is shared by you both then communicate and see if she wants to turn it into reality, if not then game over ??
Pose a question, put on a film that has girls kissing and as the scene plays out, ask in a playful way if she's ever thought of it, or that you think she'd look so hot kissing another girl. Guage her reaction, is there a coy smile??? Or a "fuck off!!!" And that may help.
But @Pearls is right, being here without her knowledge could and possibly would cause problems, just be open and honest and if your relationship is strong then you'll be able to discuss it.