How Often Do You Swing?

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17 March 2017
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So how often do you swing, weekly monthly? Do you fully swap or soft swap?

Do you prefer to go to a meet like the VA or meet up privately?
:rolleyes::X3:
Well as a newbee we have only played at VA in couples room, Not easy to get meets I dont think. Currently we have soft swooped kind of. I wouldn't know how to do meet its a difficult one! soft is cosy!
 
30 March 2017
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As much as possible but never as much as I would like......;)

if I'm swinging alone I'm open to what ever the couple or single lady would like just happy to oblige ;)

Swinging as a couple........ will get back to you on that one:whistle:
 
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The reason for posting was mainly to find out if people prefer to meet at a club or in a more private environment, plus I'm just a wee bit nosey! :lol::)
 
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Not worked up enough for an average yet :lol:;)

I liked going to the VA, but to socialise. The idea of things being a tad more private is preferable - i wouldn't rule more public out but if i did it would be the exception rather than the norm. I've not bern to any private parties, are they like a middle ground privacy wise? (or maybe privacy matters less the more you know those around you).

Ask me both these things again in a year :X3::X3:
I missed you guys.

In truth I just love to play. I don't have a great deal of inhibition. I just enjoy the whole experience. Sometimes people come to me or I go to them. I went a bit wild at chameleons but it wasn't too regrettable. Connection with other people that way is fun. X
 
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MickeyBlueBalls

In almost a year (excluding on very special lady - does that count being single?) a fantastic zero. But hey I still have my health. :)
 
MP386

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Up to now just the three times since I joined all have been fantastic enjoyed every minute .... :love::love:
never started this thinking it would be a regular thing but if you had my abysmal sex life ...three is absolutely amazing ...... :D
 
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peakcouple

We started as soft-swingers for a few months then moved onto full swap, and for very many years (well over 10) swung at least once a month. Now it's an average of every couple of months, twice this year in fact, with another meet planned for May. Mostly full swap home 4somes these days, we spend weekends with our best friends at their place or ours, and have evening meets with others. We go to Chams a couple of times a year.
 
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We only soft swing with couples. If we every find a single female then that's a different story.
We did like to have meets every couple of months, but haven't had a meet in nearly a year. Starting to forget what fun we have had.
 
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MickeyBlueBalls

Erm and why not :D
Complex job with complex hours mainly. Also, a bit weird really, hard to read people over the net without them being fairly forward with their intentions. In real life I have no problem, natural flow of conversation, body language, physical cues etc. At one point I had a good circle of regular couples. Not sure where else to go with this - maybe I have the reputation here of being the class clown that may dissuade people from taking me seriously. My work's very serious and extremely demanding and so my humour here's about the only place I can have a laugh and a joke and distance myself from the wrongs of the real world, not sure to be honest. :)
 
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Complex job with complex hours mainly. Also, a bit weird really, hard to read people over the net without them being fairly forward with their intentions. In real life I have no problem, natural flow of conversation, body language, physical cues etc. At one point I had a good circle of regular couples. Not sure where else to go with this - maybe I have the reputation here of being the class clown that may dissuade people from taking me seriously. My work's very serious and extremely demanding and so my humour here's about the only place I can have a laugh and a joke and distance myself from the wrongs of the real world, not sure to be honest. :)
I know of a few that would love to meet you, think you need to brush those cobwebs off and simply dive in eh ;)(y)
 
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Complex job with complex hours mainly. Also, a bit weird really, hard to read people over the net without them being fairly forward with their intentions. In real life I have no problem, natural flow of conversation, body language, physical cues etc. At one point I had a good circle of regular couples. Not sure where else to go with this - maybe I have the reputation here of being the class clown that may dissuade people from taking me seriously. My work's very serious and extremely demanding and so my humour here's about the only place I can have a laugh and a joke and distance myself from the wrongs of the real world, not sure to be honest. :)


Sense of humour counts for a lot, you have a wicked one and long may it continue! X
 
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