So a few months back i was over a friends house where i had been invited to a bbq.. almost as soon as i had arrived i felt the sexual tension coming my direction from his wife.. she is a hot olive skinned brunette with piercing green eyes, after i had got comfortable and had 1 or 2 drinks the wife walked over to me and asked me if i would be spending the night in there bed casually i was taken by surprise and before i could respond to her one of our mutual friends declined on my behalf which seemed odd as he stated how i was not into swinging. Now i would like to im not sure how to approach her or them about my desires