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28 February 2018
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Hi all looking for some excellent advice and information from you sexy people xx
My name is darkangelazreal or Da for short. I'm in a very committed marriage for the past 11 years. We both are into a lot of kinky stuffs, and one of the things we are trying to do is a threesome. I have been trying to sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to websites baiting us in with 'lots of girl/guys' now I have joined lots but they are just asking for money all the time to sent likes or look at pics. Me and my husband just want to show a 'unicorn' (I heard them being referred to I do not mean to offend) just what a sweet night they will have. But I find ourselves staring at nothing. We have been looking for the past six months (in total roughly two years on off). Apart from the common thing I get told which is post pics and your get people/likes/tickets whatever. But me and my husband have two lives as such...we have our respectful "outside" and then the downright dirty kinky side behind closed doors....

Could anyone shed light on why this is happening or any idea what to do, or even join us lol? Be honest as you can. I can take it ;p
 
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Hello both, firstly welcome to the site ,now down to the nitty gritty so to speak , firstly some information and media will help you and others get to know you more secondly this is a rather unique site no-one on here is pushy , or demanding ,we all offer advice and help where needed xx
 

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Hi all looking for some excellent advice and information from you sexy people xx
My name is darkangelazreal or Da for short. I'm in a very committed marriage for the past 11 years. We both are into a lot of kinky stuffs, and one of the things we are trying to do is a threesome. I have been trying to sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to websites baiting us in with 'lots of girl/guys' now I have joined lots but they are just asking for money all the time to sent likes or look at pics. Me and my husband just want to show a 'unicorn' (I heard them being referred to I do not mean to offend) just what a sweet night they will have. But I find ourselves staring at nothing. We have been looking for the past six months (in total roughly two years on off). Apart from the common thing I get told which is post pics and your get people/likes/tickets whatever. But me and my husband have two lives as such...we have our respectful "outside" and then the downright dirty kinky side behind closed doors....

Could anyone shed light on why this is happening or any idea what to do, or even join us lol? Be honest as you can. I can take it ;p
Hello both, firstly welcome to the site ,now down to the nitty gritty so to speak , firstly some information and media will help you and others get to know you more secondly this is a rather unique site no-one on here is pushy , or demanding ,we all offer advice and help where needed xx
You definitely need to sort your account and profile out. Do that and then am sure the community will come forward x
 
28 February 2018
28
88
37
City
Walsall
Hello both, firstly welcome to the site ,now down to the nitty gritty so to speak , firstly some information and media will help you and others get to know you more secondly this is a rather unique site no-one on here is pushy , or demanding ,we all offer advice and help where needed xx
You definitely need to sort your account and profile out. Do that and then am sure the community will come forward x

Hey guys Sorry for late reply ~ fixing of phones and net and such... thank you for your Replies, and how warm they were!
I just expected a load of well pay money here and pay monies there! has i have had from other places! Thank you for being so welcoming, all I have to ask now is What do I say about my self and hubby? What is deemed not enough info or too Much?
 
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Hey guys Sorry for late reply ~ fixing of phones and net and such... thank you for your Replies, and how warm they were!
I just expected a load of well pay money here and pay monies there! has i have had from other places! Thank you for being so welcoming, all I have to ask now is What do I say about my self and hubby? What is deemed not enough info or too Much?
You are welcome both.
I would consider adding things that you enjoy and what you are hoping to find from being on here. :) But obviously, please ensure you don't add any personal details or personal information.
Perhaps just add likes, dislikes, what you're seeking and hoping to ascertain from the site and members.. anything you feel is relevant really. :)
 
28 February 2018
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Walsall
You are welcome both.
I would consider adding things that you enjoy and what you are hoping to find from being on here. :) But obviously, please ensure you don't add any personal details or personal information.
Perhaps just add likes, dislikes, what you're seeking and hoping to ascertain from the site and members.. anything you feel is relevant really. :)

Okay then Watch this space and here goes! ^_^ :D
 
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Hi all looking for some excellent advice and information from you sexy people xx
My name is darkangelazreal or Da for short. I'm in a very committed marriage for the past 11 years. We both are into a lot of kinky stuffs, and one of the things we are trying to do is a threesome. I have been trying to sort the wheat from the chaff when it comes to websites baiting us in with 'lots of girl/guys' now I have joined lots but they are just asking for money all the time to sent likes or look at pics. Me and my husband just want to show a 'unicorn' (I heard them being referred to I do not mean to offend) just what a sweet night they will have. But I find ourselves staring at nothing. We have been looking for the past six months (in total roughly two years on off). Apart from the common thing I get told which is post pics and your get people/likes/tickets whatever. But me and my husband have two lives as such...we have our respectful "outside" and then the downright dirty kinky side behind closed doors....

Could anyone shed light on why this is happening or any idea what to do, or even join us lol? Be honest as you can. I can take it ;p


Hello you two. Welcome to the site. So far you have only had replies from the staff, so as a member I'm going to give you a couple of tips (y).

Most members will be waiting for you to complete the 'photo verification' process before replying to the thread. The simple reason is because we want to know that you are a real couple and not a fake account.
Once you've done this simple 'photo verification' more people will respond to your thread.

I absolutely understand your concerns about paid sites. Here you can have a free membership for as long as you like (it has it's limitations but it's a good trial). Then you can decide if you wish to purchase the upgraded membership at a later date of your choosing.

A good place to start chatting is in these forums and any Private Messages you may receive will be from genuine members and not fake/computer generated accounts that you might find elsewhere.

You've wrote a good starting profile. All you need to do next is add some pics and most importantly complete that 'photo verification'.

Good luck and hope to see you around on the site :)

B x
 
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Hello both and welcome to ss, It will really help you if you PV as like @Baldricknkaz have said it does show people here you are a genuine couple. Just had a read through your profile and enjoyed reading it too. Da your very cute pity you don't want to meet a couple I'm sure we could have some fun ;):). Anyway hope you have a lot of fun on the site everyone is here to help if you are stuck and we are all a friendly bunch :D

V&N xxx