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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

17 August 2021
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For those who dont know me, I'm in the US trying to find a club i can go to. They are all very restrictive concerning looks, body type, age and most ban single males altogether.

I found a club that is a few hours away by car that allows single males but reading the rules has left me confused and I'm just wondering if this sounds normal.

"Single males are allowed if you have credentials, well-behaved and well-dressed."

"If you come as a couple you must stay together as a couple".

"Men are not allowed to wander the club by themselves".

credentials? To prove I'm male or to prove I'm single? Well behaved?
Men are not allowed to wander the club. Am I supposed to just stand in a corner and try to get a women's attention to get her to come to me, since I cant wander over to talk to her?

Also, they have several locations. One is a hotel and club so you could get a room while at the club or just stay in the hotel and not visit the club. they said " bring your own chair if you want to sit by the pool".

If you were visiting the US, would you want to visit this club?
 
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Tbh this is pretty similar to the rules at some clubs here, I’ve looked at the venue and it seems like there are a few areas where you can mingle, therefore giving the opportunity to get socialising with people which is key to getting some fun. It’s not guaranteed that this will happen and the same old thing is,men pay through the roof which most think due to this they’re going to get sex. Equality definitely goes out the window in this scene, especially when I see prices of £100 v £0 male v female.
I think the rules are pretty bang on, doesn’t mean I agree but I also know the idiots that ruin it for genuine guys, making clubs put these rules in place.
 
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Colin

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Ymichael14 said:
Am I supposed to just stand in a corner and try to get a women's attention to get her to come to me, since I cant wander over to talk to her?
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In that sort of club you have to stand in a corner or lean against a corner pillar and as a lone female passes you wave your dick at them and if there interested they will come over .1 tip i will give you The helicopter wave works best ;) lol
 
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Ymichael14

Ymichael14

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Pearls said:
Tbh this is pretty similar to the rules at some clubs here, I’ve looked at the venue and it seems like there are a few areas where you can mingle, therefore giving the opportunity to get socialising with people which is key to getting some fun. It’s not guaranteed that this will happen and the same old thing is,men pay through the roof which most think due to this they’re going to get sex. Equality definitely goes out the window in this scene, especially when I see prices of £100 v £0 male v female.
I think the rules are pretty bang on, doesn’t mean I agree but I also know the idiots that ruin it for genuine guys, making clubs put these rules in place.
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I understand the need for rules for single guys because i understand single guys.
I understand charging single guys 100 X more then single women because it discourages some men and encourages more women.
Most women are not going to a place with a ratio of 100 men to 1 woman.
It is also business. You have more men then can fit into the club and men are willing to pay more so you make money on the single men.
And since i have only found 3 clubs in the entire US that will allow any single males in, those three clubs must be overrun by single men and they have to turn most away due to overcrowding .
And I have yet to find one social in all of the US.
But this sounds too restictive. I feel like im going to be corralled in an area roped off with crime scene tape and the couples will throw their fruit from their drinks at me as the walk by. Like the old stocks in the center of the village.

I signed up for their email newsletter.
Maybe there will be more information in it .
 
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Pearls

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Ymichael14 said:
I understand the need for rules for single guys because i understand single guys.
I understand charging single guys 100 X more then single women because it discourages some men and encourages more women.
Most women are not going to a place with a ratio of 100 men to 1 woman.
It is also business. You have more men then can fit into the club and men are willing to pay more so you make money on the single men.
And since i have only found 3 clubs in the entire US that will allow any single males in, those three clubs must be overrun by single men and they have to turn most away due to overcrowding .
And I have yet to find one social in all of the US.
But this sounds too restictive. I feel like im going to be corralled in an area roped off with crime scene tape and the couples will throw their fruit from their drinks at me as the walk by. Like the old stocks in the center of the village.

I signed up for their email newsletter.
Maybe there will be more information in it .
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See what they see and go from there ??
 
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