It’s too difficult

Pearls · 8 January 2020

So you’ve joined a swinging site for the first time and after a few minutes you Email us asking to close your account because you find the site too difficult.
You haven’t looked at anything, pressed any buttons but think to yourself it’s too hard. How would you know?

You have joined, added an avatar, added media, made a status, commented on other media, popped a message on other profiles, then you come to us and moan it’s too hard!

This is my opinion, if you buy a new car, would you know every button on that new car and how everything works within five minutes? No. You need to get a feel for it, press all the buttons and that can take a little time.
Is there any difference to using an online website for the first time?

If there are parts to this site that you find difficult then please let us know and maybe we can do something about it but if it’s just a case of I want to meet ASAP and can’t get anywhere without making a little effort to learn the ropes then maybe have a rethink of your approach.

We all have to make a little effort with anything new, from trying out a new game to figuring out the new fangled gadgetry with new appliances.

Please let us know though if you have made that effort and you are still having a few issues in working out some areas here and e shall take a look.

Thanks all and enjoy the site and all it has to offer you.

MP386 · 8 January 2020

Pearls said:
So you’ve joined a swinging site for the first time and after a few minutes you Email us asking to close your account because you find the site too difficult.
You haven’t looked at anything, pressed any buttons but think to yourself it’s too hard. How would you know?

You have joined, added an avatar, added media, made a status, commented on other media, popped a message on other profiles, then you come to us and moan it’s too hard!

This is my opinion, if you buy a new car, would you know every button on that new car and how everything works within five minutes? No. You need to get a feel for it, press all the buttons and that can take a little time.
Is there any difference to using an online website for the first time?

If there are parts to this site that you find difficult then please let us know and maybe we can do something about it but if it’s just a case of I want to meet ASAP and can’t get anywhere without making a little effort to learn the ropes then maybe have a rethink of your approach.

We all have to make a little effort with anything new, from trying out a new game to figuring out the new fangled gadgetry with new appliances.

Please let us know though if you have made that effort and you are still having a few issues in working out some areas here and e shall take a look.

Thanks all and enjoy the site and all it has to offer you.

It’s a bit like a woman if you only get 5 minutes your not going to find what make her work ..... take your time and explore all the nooks and crannies then your discover what joys are with in ....

Pearls · 8 January 2020

MP386 said:
It’s a bit like a woman if you only get 5 minutes your not going to find what make her work ..... take your time and explore all the nooks and crannies then your discover what joys are with in ....

That’s a good way of comparing it ??

MP386 · 8 January 2020

Pearls said:
That’s a good way of comparing it ??

Ladies are all different and so are these sites ...... so you have to explore the workings sometimes you get it wrong but boy is it good when you hit the magic spot

Deleted member 11852 · 8 January 2020

I think the main problem is people that have been on other sites and expect this one to be just another swinging site..I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with messaging someone and meeting straight away but when some of the new members join and realise this site is completely unique and members like to chat and get to know people..they just can’t be bothered..I see it a lot at night..when I’m working I often look who is online you see new members view your profile then send random messages like can we meet and sometimes more explicit..then 2 mins later you see them viewing threads how do I dele my account..W..

MP386 · 8 January 2020

Welshcouple59 said:
I think the main problem is people that have been on other sites and expect this one to be just another swinging site..I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with messaging someone and meeting straight away but when some of the new members join and realise this site is completely unique and members like to chat and get to know people..they just can’t be bothered..I see it a lot at night..when I’m working I often look who is online you see new members view your profile then send random messages like can we meet and sometimes more explicit..then 2 mins later you see them viewing threads how do I dele my account..W..

I’ve been here a while ..... probably too long for some but you do see the profile posts , obviously I don’t get the fancy a shag emails .... #singleblokesproblems .... but a lot that join thinking it’s instashag,are not interested in swinging it’s just a leg over ...
there are plenty of sites out there that offer that ...
I’m no computer whizz and I manage well enough it’s just certain people who want a quick fuck don’t like having to interact or put in the work and those looking for a quick shag while the Mrs isn’t looking .... they tend to pop up school holiday times ..
It’s not a difficult site just take a little patience..

Jaynerobert · 8 January 2020

Excuses! ‘Too difficult’ = ‘I’ve had second thoughts as it’s not findashag.com and I’m also too lazy to work out how to delete my account.’

I can be a bit of a defeatist with technology and one of my pet hates are hard to navigate websites but I haven’t had any problems here or found anything too difficult!

fincon · 8 January 2020

Pearls said:
So you’ve joined a swinging site for the first time and after a few minutes you Email us asking to close your account because you find the site too difficult.
You haven’t looked at anything, pressed any buttons but think to yourself it’s too hard. How would you know?

You have joined, added an avatar, added media, made a status, commented on other media, popped a message on other profiles, then you come to us and moan it’s too hard!

This is my opinion, if you buy a new car, would you know every button on that new car and how everything works within five minutes? No. You need to get a feel for it, press all the buttons and that can take a little time.
Is there any difference to using an online website for the first time?

If there are parts to this site that you find difficult then please let us know and maybe we can do something about it but if it’s just a case of I want to meet ASAP and can’t get anywhere without making a little effort to learn the ropes then maybe have a rethink of your approach.

We all have to make a little effort with anything new, from trying out a new game to figuring out the new fangled gadgetry with new appliances.

Please let us know though if you have made that effort and you are still having a few issues in working out some areas here and e shall take a look.

Thanks all and enjoy the site and all it has to offer you.

The following is, obviously, not about this site, but since you asked in general… (feel free to delete the post in its entirely if out of place.)

But the only times where I’ve joined a site in the past and within a few minutes I’ve requested deletion of my profile have been when I’ve gotten something wrong about the site. Either I made a mistake and misread something, or I was misled into thinking something else.

Maybe I missed what you could and couldn’t do without coughing up a not insubstantial monthly/weekly amount, or maybe I misunderstood how limited a free/silver membership was, and didn’t realise (again cost) how much it would be on an ongoing basis. (And no, I’m not necessarily cheap but in one case £50.00 a month? Yeah, I misread the monthly fees.)

Or I had a look around the membership… and realised there was literally no one within 50 miles of me who’d logged on within the past 3 years. Or there’s no one even close to my own age; all massively older or younger…

So, no, I think your main point is perfectly valid and sensible.

However there are times when the smartest thing to do as a brand new ‘oh, fuck, I really shouldn’t have signed up’ is just to immediately realise that and walk away before you make a damn fool of yourself to you and others.

Deleted member 120 · 12 January 2020

Pearls said:
So you’ve joined a swinging site for the first time and after a few minutes you Email us asking to close your account because you find the site too difficult.
You haven’t looked at anything, pressed any buttons but think to yourself it’s too hard. How would you know?

You have joined, added an avatar, added media, made a status, commented on other media, popped a message on other profiles, then you come to us and moan it’s too hard!

This is my opinion, if you buy a new car, would you know every button on that new car and how everything works within five minutes? No. You need to get a feel for it, press all the buttons and that can take a little time.
Is there any difference to using an online website for the first time?

If there are parts to this site that you find difficult then please let us know and maybe we can do something about it but if it’s just a case of I want to meet ASAP and can’t get anywhere without making a little effort to learn the ropes then maybe have a rethink of your approach.

We all have to make a little effort with anything new, from trying out a new game to figuring out the new fangled gadgetry with new appliances.

Please let us know though if you have made that effort and you are still having a few issues in working out some areas here and e shall take a look.

Thanks all and enjoy the site and all it has to offer you.

You're on fire M'Lady. It's not bloody hard is it! Acclimatise and you shall win.
xx

Pearls · 12 January 2020

Lips_Pearls said:
You're on fire M'Lady. It's not bloody hard is it! Acclimatise and you shall win.
xx

Peace of piddle in it Xx

TherLegs · 12 January 2020

Pearls said:
Peace of piddle in it Xx

A very quiet wee

Pearls · 12 January 2020

TherLegs said:
A very quiet wee

You dribbled again

TherLegs · 12 January 2020

Pearls said:
You dribbled again

I've spent quite a long time dribbling tonight ?

Pearls · 12 January 2020

TherLegs said:
I've spent quite a long time dribbling tonight ?

Dirty man

TherLegs · 12 January 2020

Pearls said:
Dirty man

I thought that was a prerequisite of being here, but I like dirty

Laki · 13 January 2020

New here and so far site is ???

Maybe different than others, but it fills like admin/help is available 24/7, got help even b4 asked for ???

...so how do I delete my account ???...

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