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Skippy01 · 8 September 2021

Attention.Do you need it?
We all hear it in this lifestyle.You have to sell yourself.Stand out,make yourself appealing.Be liked blah blah.But does it always work?being the popular one?
It's lovely being wanted,but would you or have you ever strived to be amongst a large popular crowd?or do you not care,aslong as you are liked by 1 or 2 people?
Unrelated to anything personal ?

MaleMan · 8 September 2021

Its nice to be liked but for the right reasons, if people like me for me that's a bonus I'd always rather quality over quantity when it comes to connections. I don't think I'm selling myself, I'd want a refund if I bought me so wouldn't stick a price tag on it xD

MP386 · 8 September 2021

Skippy01 said:
Attention.Do you need it?
We all hear it in this lifestyle.You have to sell yourself.Stand out,make yourself appealing.Be liked blah blah.But does it always work?being the popular one?
It's lovely being wanted,but would you or have you ever strived to be amongst a large popular crowd?or do you not care,aslong as you are liked by 1 or 2 people?
Unrelated to anything personal ?

It’s always good to have attention,it boosts the ego knowing some one is interested in you ..
Think everyone tries to make the themselves stand out but not always easy especially for single males ,my opinion after nearly 6 years doing this ..
no one will be liked by everyone that’s no difference to anything in life ..

Deleted member 11852 · 8 September 2021

Skippy01 said:
Attention.Do you need it?
We all hear it in this lifestyle.You have to sell yourself.Stand out,make yourself appealing.Be liked blah blah.But does it always work?being the popular one?
It's lovely being wanted,but would you or have you ever strived to be amongst a large popular crowd?or do you not care,aslong as you are liked by 1 or 2 people?
Unrelated to anything personal ?

I have always been a shy person and never craved attention. I have to say since we have been on the site my confidence has grown immensely. I still don’t crave affection but I must say I am really enjoying the attention that I get on the site. I never imagined it would be as it is. xxx M

Deleted member 11852 · 8 September 2021

MaleMan said:
Its nice to be liked but for the right reasons, if people like me for me that's a bonus I'd always rather quality over quantity when it comes to connections. I don't think I'm selling myself, I'd want a refund if I bought me so wouldn't stick a price tag on it xD

If people don’t like you for who you are they are not worth knowing xxx M

Pearls · 9 September 2021

MP386 said:
It’s always good to have attention,it boosts the ego knowing some one is interested in you ..
Think everyone tries to make the themselves stand out but not always easy especially for single males ,my opinion after nearly 6 years doing this ..
no one will be liked by everyone that’s no difference to anything in life ..

The problem there with single guys is women and couples tar them all as the same and don’t give them a chance. What ever you do nothing will change. Hopefully that isn’t the case here with my preaching ?

Pearls · 9 September 2021

Skippy01 said:
Attention.Do you need it?
We all hear it in this lifestyle.You have to sell yourself.Stand out,make yourself appealing.Be liked blah blah.But does it always work?being the popular one?
It's lovely being wanted,but would you or have you ever strived to be amongst a large popular crowd?or do you not care,aslong as you are liked by 1 or 2 people?
Unrelated to anything personal ?

No one likes me anyway so no point

tricky-dicky · 9 September 2021

I've never been one too seek attention, in fact quite the opposite. At a very young age I was being dragged round various hosptials being poked and prodded by numerous doctors, I hated all the attenion, a lot of which was quite unpleaseant, So with this negative view of what happens if I draw attention to myself I would do my best to blend into the back ground, it wasn't till I reached my 30's that I became more out going. I still don't crave attention, if something I say or do gets someones attention so be it I quite happy sat in the corner watching the world go by smiling at the attention whores making total arses of themselves.

Lips_Pearls · 9 September 2021

Skippy01 said:
Attention.Do you need it?
We all hear it in this lifestyle.You have to sell yourself.Stand out,make yourself appealing.Be liked blah blah.But does it always work?being the popular one?
It's lovely being wanted,but would you or have you ever strived to be amongst a large popular crowd?or do you not care,aslong as you are liked by 1 or 2 people?
Unrelated to anything personal ?

I think you know me well enough by now to know the answer. But there's a lot of people who do enjoy the attention.
Some crave it, some are happy and enjoy just receiving some compliments etc.

The narcissistic ones are the beauts. ? x

Skippy01 · 9 September 2021

Good answers everyone ?.I was trying to be subtle and find out about all these weird cliquey chat groups everyone seems to be on atm,rather than use the actual site that is deisgned for exactly the same reason.but it backfired x

MP386 · 9 September 2021

Pearls said:
No one likes me anyway so no point

MP386 · 9 September 2021

Skippy01 said:
Good answers everyone ?.I was trying to be subtle and find out about all these weird cliquey chat groups everyone seems to be on atm,rather than use the actual site that is deisgned for exactly the same reason.but it backfired x

What do you want to know ?? Full of up there own arse types who think they are something special….and those that moderate tend to get rid of those they see as competition to their own ends … also a lot playing away without the wife knowing ! … they try to be exclusive little groups …

Skippy01 · 9 September 2021

MP386 said:
What do you want to know ?? Full of up there own arse types who think they are something special….and those that moderate tend to get rid of those they see as competition to their own ends … also a lot playing away without the wife knowing ! … they try to be exclusive little groups …

Competition amongst a group of "friends "who enjoy chatting about their days and arranging play dates together? ?.I would never have guessed it would be like that x

MyKinkyWorld · 10 September 2021

It is amazing to be liked and have attention. Who doesn't need it? But in my opinion there is a big line that can't be crossed otherwise it's not giving attention, but stalking. At the end of the day, I do love being liked!

Pearls · 10 September 2021

MyKinkyWorld said:
It is amazing to be liked and have attention. Who doesn't need it? But in my opinion there is a big line that can't be crossed otherwise it's not giving attention, but stalking. At the end of the day, I do love being liked!

There are also the ones that get a lot of attention and start using it to their advantage and make money out of it, which isn’t swinging what so ever. They just hide behind a facade ?

MyKinkyWorld · 10 September 2021

Pearls said:
There are also the ones that get a lot of attention and start using it to their advantage and make money out of it, which isn’t swinging what so ever. They just hide behind a facade ?

Yes, that is true. I didn't consider this option!

Lips_Pearls · 10 September 2021

Pearls said:
There are also the ones that get a lot of attention and start using it to their advantage and make money out of it, which isn’t swinging what so ever. They just hide behind a facade ?

I rated this as angry because these types of people, bring shame into the swinging community and just exploit it.

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