Afternoon sexy peeps.
Just had an interesting conversation and it got me thinking.
'Nillas would laugh at us if we mentioned Morals within swinging and they'd say = "Your moral compass is lost so don't come knocking my door"..
So with that, it got me thinking about this and I genuinely believe that there are a set of morals within this, perhaps hidden... but they're here, certainly.
For instance, affairs. Or I should say having one within swinging.
It's bad enough in a vanilla relationship, but by God - Hell hath fury on anyone in the swinging world who has an affair!
Boundaries. There are there to be tested, sometimes pushed, but if crossed - and I mean the really true boundaries that are NO NO... then you could lose your relationship / marriage.
You could get black balled by the community for anything at all!
I vividly recall at a house party years ago, one guy had working girls with him (paid for with chems so chemsex) and was HIV, happy to tell all too and didn't care.
So, he was blackballed.
No means no.
Drinks, drugs, being out of it... thresholds... all of these are morally questionable by some to many.
Don't you think it's a fair and right statement to make that even us debauched and naughty (loosely said guys..) swingers have morals we're guided by and with?
I certainly believe so. x
Just had an interesting conversation and it got me thinking.
'Nillas would laugh at us if we mentioned Morals within swinging and they'd say = "Your moral compass is lost so don't come knocking my door"..
So with that, it got me thinking about this and I genuinely believe that there are a set of morals within this, perhaps hidden... but they're here, certainly.
For instance, affairs. Or I should say having one within swinging.
It's bad enough in a vanilla relationship, but by God - Hell hath fury on anyone in the swinging world who has an affair!
Boundaries. There are there to be tested, sometimes pushed, but if crossed - and I mean the really true boundaries that are NO NO... then you could lose your relationship / marriage.
You could get black balled by the community for anything at all!
I vividly recall at a house party years ago, one guy had working girls with him (paid for with chems so chemsex) and was HIV, happy to tell all too and didn't care.
So, he was blackballed.
No means no.
Drinks, drugs, being out of it... thresholds... all of these are morally questionable by some to many.
Don't you think it's a fair and right statement to make that even us debauched and naughty (loosely said guys..) swingers have morals we're guided by and with?
I certainly believe so. x