Need for Verification

[Kwaka_Rider]

I am all for getting verified on here, and other sites because otherwise how the fuck do you know who you are talking to.

There are so many fucking cunts who pretend to be women thinking they'll get more chance of chatting with other women or couples and actually damages sites like Social Swinging and others for genuine people, who after being duped or ignored thinking they're talking to a woman and stops genuine guys making any effort (MP excluded from that obviously ?)

But this is a big reason why verification is vital.

David Wilson: Sex offender who posed as girls online jailed for 25 years

David Wilson blackmailed boys into sending him indecent images of themselves, siblings and friends.

www.bbc.com

 

[MP386]

I agree verification is an important and integral part of this site , so you can be pretty sure who has a badge is genuine ( that word ) and an appropriate age for the site ... there will be Albert Arsehole who try it on but here they are weeded out quite quickly...
The case you have shown is more to do with child grooming,not swinging,those types will do anything to get their jollies and don’t care who’s lives they destroy, all you can hope is when inside he gets what he deserves..
I’m not sure what I’m excluded from but when people join I will always give them the benefit of the doubt to see or try to encourage them to stay and get involved, which with single women on here is something that doesn’t seem to happen often, I do wonder if they are frightened off by to much attention or not enough ?
For most it’s a big step joining sites like these so a little time to become acclimatised to how things works , then once they are happy verification would be the next step ...

 

[Pearls]

I am all for getting verified on here, and other sites because otherwise how the fuck do you know who you are talking to.

There are so many fucking cunts who pretend to be women thinking they'll get more chance of chatting with other women or couples and actually damages sites like Social Swinging and others for genuine people, who after being duped or ignored thinking they're talking to a woman and stops genuine guys making any effort (MP excluded from that obviously ?)

But this is a big reason why verification is vital.

David Wilson: Sex offender who posed as girls online jailed for 25 years

David Wilson blackmailed boys into sending him indecent images of themselves, siblings and friends.

www.bbc.com

I fully agree but one other point which has to be taken seriously, if people have doubts about accounts then they have to come forward, I hear so many times that people don’t want to mention who they think is fake yet what would happen if some poor sod met up with this account and something went very wrong like you’ve mentioned.
People have to report and not just ignore purely because they want to get some kind of kick in messaging..
I shall give a perfect example.
A guy I won’t name was actively chatting to a fake account, he would not report this account until I put some pressure on and for good reason, when the content was eventually reported this guy was getting his kicks by talking about incest and young people. Going along with it because he was simply getting filthy chat. He didn’t care about the content, he just wanted to get off and clearly wasn’t concerned on how. So don’t be a dick and report!

 

[MP386]

The lady that joined today , from the profile I have no idea if they are genuine or fake but she asked why she wasn’t being messaged by blokes , we all know how other places work as soon as a female joins they are bombarded with messages, so I guess SS seemed strange , I’ve read the posts and seen this thread , I think she was here 26 mins and reading some of the posts I’d probably have done the off to .... when someone joins give them a little time to prove themselves, I’m sure we all remember joining the site and how we were treated .... would I still be here if I’d had similar messages.... ? sure there are some wish they had sent them to me ????

 

[Skippy01]

The lady that joined today , from the profile I have no idea if they are genuine or fake but she asked why she wasn’t being messaged by blokes , we all know how other places work as soon as a female joins they are bombarded with messages, so I guess SS seemed strange , I’ve read the posts and seen this thread , I think she was here 26 mins and reading some of the posts I’d probably have done the off to .... when someone joins give them a little time to prove themselves, I’m sure we all remember joining the site and how we were treated .... would I still be here if I’d had similar messages.... ? sure there are some wish they had sent them to me ????

Lady or not.If you join a site,you show respect and manners instead of demanding something straight away with no effort.x

 

[MP386]

Lady or not.If you join a site,you show respect and manners instead of demanding something straight away with no effort.x

True but some come from other places with other places expectations...where they don’t really have to put any effort in to get the attention...

 

[Skippy01]

True but some come from other places with other places expectations...where they don’t really have to put any effort in to get the attention...

Then that's their fault for thinking everywhere else has the same level of expectations ? I will give everyone the benefit of the doubt,but being a woman doesn't give you the right to be exempt from common courtesy.It took me 2 minutes to work out that this site was different from the others.Because I took the time to read the site part in the forums and it clearly states the expectations of the users.Nowhere does it say tell everyone i'm a woman and you will get hundreds of messages.But "she" could be really eager and friendly ?.When she gets pic verified we'll know x

 

[Kwaka_Rider]

I agree verification is an important and integral part of this site , so you can be pretty sure who has a badge is genuine ( that word ) and an appropriate age for the site ... there will be Albert Arsehole who try it on but here they are weeded out quite quickly...
The case you have shown is more to do with child grooming,not swinging,those types will do anything to get their jollies and don’t care who’s lives they destroy, all you can hope is when inside he gets what he deserves..
I’m not sure what I’m excluded from but when people join I will always give them the benefit of the doubt to see or try to encourage them to stay and get involved, which with single women on here is something that doesn’t seem to happen often, I do wonder if they are frightened off by to much attention or not enough ?
For most it’s a big step joining sites like these so a little time to become acclimatised to how things works , then once they are happy verification would be the next step ...

I know what the story is about, I'm using it as a red flag for people pretending to be someone else, if you read the story he pretended to be a girl, that's my point.

 

[MP386]

Then that's their fault for thinking everywhere else has the same level of expectations ? I will give everyone the benefit of the doubt,but being a woman doesn't give you the right to be exempt from common courtesy.It took me 2 minutes to work out that this site was different from the others.Because I took the time to read the site part in the forums and it clearly states the expectations of the users.Nowhere does it say tell everyone i'm a woman and you will get hundreds of messages.But "she" could be really eager and friendly ?.When she gets pic verified we'll know x

I know your different ??
No one has the right but how often to people actually read anything to know how it works ?
we all know that single women are the Holy Grail that everyone chases so assuming they have come off other places not immediately being bombarded would seem strange ...
And yes hopefully she will get verified and get involved we need more ..... ?

 

[MP386]

I know what the story is about, I'm using it as a red flag for people pretending to be someone else, if you read the story he pretended to be a girl, that's my point.

I did read read it and many who do that pretend to be someone they are not ...
Yes I agree you will always get arseholes pretending to get their jollies..

 

[Kwaka_Rider]

The lady that joined today , from the profile I have no idea if they are genuine or fake but she asked why she wasn’t being messaged by blokes , we all know how other places work as soon as a female joins they are bombarded with messages, so I guess SS seemed strange , I’ve read the posts and seen this thread , I think she was here 26 mins and reading some of the posts I’d probably have done the off to .... when someone joins give them a little time to prove themselves, I’m sure we all remember joining the site and how we were treated .... would I still be here if I’d had similar messages.... ? sure there are some wish they had sent them to me ????

I posted this thread after that member had joined and after they were last online, so this didn't contribute to that.

 

[Pearls]

How do I become a photo verified member

You may have noticed some members have a green 'Photo Verified Member' status banner. This means you have been photo verified by a member of staff. It is totally confidential and only you and the staff will see the photos. This is to ensure...

socialswinging.com

 

[Pearls]

There are a couple of accounts that have viewed this thread that still aren’t verified so either get it done or change your account to a single gent and then get verified.
To all couple accounts that are single gents please remember that the photos you are using with a female in, that person is a victim and probably unaware that her poor pics are being used on sites like this which is unacceptable.
A PV takes the same time as uploading a photo here. ??

 

[Guru G]

This cunt needs to be hung

 

[Guru G]

This cunt needs to be hung

Not you Kwaks the pedo ?

 

[Kwaka_Rider]

Not you Kwaks the pedo ?

Some may argue ??

 

[Tiger]

Photo verification I believe is very important, even more so during lockdown & covid!

When we were able to have a regular monthly social you could meet people in a relaxed environment in real life & know they were genuine!

For now all we have to go on is the incredible job that the admins do to protect our safety online!

So, please everyone get a photo verification (PV) it will open up an entire new world to you if you’re genuine!

Tiger xx