Hi- I am new here having been on the other site previously. Really happy about the amount of intelligent and interesting discussion topics available. The most noticeable difference has been that I haven’t been deluged with messages which on the other site so quickly turned abusive when not answered quickly or in the way someone wanted. I feel really safe here and have felt welcomed and never harassed- so thank you. I do visit a club - I am mostly heterosexual with a curiosity for bi- so am reasonably experienced with this lifestyle. My question is this- on a day to day, how do I look through members that I might like to meet and how will I find people in my area? Thank you for welcoming me and I look forward to further adventures.