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MP386

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Ok this is something that would generally be applied to blokes but something got me thinking....does this apply to women too ?
I can say that before I started swinging that I had only ever had sex with 1 person , now the nature of swinging is that it can be one meet move to the next .... some are repeated or become regular meetings ....
Now as a single bloke here I’ve always wanted to find someone I could see on a more regular basis as friends with benefits...hasn’t happened probably never will ....
so would you consider me a “ notch on the bed post “ type of bloke ? Since being here I’ve met numerous lovely people, hopefully there will be more ...
Just one of my random thoughts of the day ..... are we all “notch’s “ Male or Female ... ?
 
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Ok this is something that would generally be applied to blokes but something got me thinking....does this apply to women too ?
I can say that before I started swinging that I had only ever had sex with 1 person , now the nature of swinging is that it can be one meet move to the next .... some are repeated or become regular meetings ....
Now as a single bloke here I’ve always wanted to find someone I could see on a more regular basis as friends with benefits...hasn’t happened probably never will ....
so would you consider me a “ notch on the bed post “ type of bloke ? Since being here I’ve met numerous lovely people, hopefully there will be more ...
Just one of my random thoughts of the day ..... are we all “notch’s “ Male or Female ... ?
I would never class anyone as a “ notch on the bedpost”. I would also like to think that I would never be classed as one either.
xxxx M
 
MP386

MOTM

9 November 2015
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I would never class anyone as a “ notch on the bedpost”. I would also like to think that I would never be classed as one either.
xxxx M
Me neither but there are people who just want to have sex with as many as possible....sure even in swinging people actively meet but never have any intention of doing it again or being friends or socialising ...
 
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Good thread
There are people who have a list in mind and simply go through them to make sure they have tried everyone out. I would say it’s more trophy hunting and yes we’ve met a few.
Yes, where is that little red book or black one lol x
 
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This is my feeling on what your thread speaks
It is strange how some people join a swinging site and might look and think or say he or she or they have slept with loads of people but hold it against them because they have.
I struggle with that because swinging site means, you can swing as many times as you want and should not be judged by it at all.
 
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It is strange how some people join a swinging site and might look and think or say he or she or they have slept with loads of people but hold it against them because they have.
I struggle with that because swinging site means, you can swing as many times as you want and should not be judged by it at all.
I am going to quote what is written on here x

So what is a swingers site? Put bluntly a swingers site is a site where members join with other like minded people for sex, yes a swingers site is a sex site. If you are a couple, a single female or a single male all swingers are looking for that fun meet. You may be looking for a MFM, an FFM, a MMFF or an MF, it doesn’t make any difference because you are looking for like minded sexy people to fulfil that desire and here at Social Swinging we provide a secure site to help you find that meet.

Social Swinging is here to help you meet those people. It may not have as many members as some of the bigger sites but then it doesn’t have all those fake profiles you find elsewhere. Join any large site and you will soon find that the couple you are talking to is really a single person. Join any large site and for couples and single females especially you will be buried in requests for sexy photo’s, chats and meets. Single guys also have problems, read all those profiles that say “single guys don’t apply, if we want you we will find you”, a poor reflection on those site.

At Social Swinging things are different, it provides a safer swinging site where the staff actively seek to weed out the fakes before they join and if any slip through they are banned when found. Nor does the site tolerate any forms of abuse, bullying or racism. It is a community driven swingers site where all members can have their say knowing that if needed the staff will intervene if things get out of hand.

Social Swinging is also a free swingers site with the exception that you do need to pay a small monthly charge if you want to view the Galleries. The rest of the site is free. So what do you get, you get a profile, you get access to the Forums, to Chat and Video chat. You can contact the staff if you have a problem and the staff will get involved to help you and if you want to pay £3.99 per month you also get to view the Galleries. Members can also create their own private albums where you can add those raunchy pics and videos and set the security so only those you want can view your media.

What doesn’t Social Swinging have, well you cannot hide your profile. Why should a member be able to view everyone else’s profiles but hide their own, the site and members believe this is unfair and therefore it isn’t possible, unless there are genuine reasons, to do so.

So yes, Social Swinging is a swingers site with a difference. Don’t believe us, well try us and then make up your own mind
 
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Ok this is something that would generally be applied to blokes but something got me thinking....does this apply to women too ?
I can say that before I started swinging that I had only ever had sex with 1 person , now the nature of swinging is that it can be one meet move to the next .... some are repeated or become regular meetings ....
Now as a single bloke here I’ve always wanted to find someone I could see on a more regular basis as friends with benefits...hasn’t happened probably never will ....
so would you consider me a “ notch on the bed post “ type of bloke ? Since being here I’ve met numerous lovely people, hopefully there will be more ...
Just one of my random thoughts of the day ..... are we all “notch’s “ Male or Female ... ?

None of us on here are Notches on bedpost
You can have as many sexual partners as you want no one here is dictating to you if you slept with one and then went on to the other none of us here are here to judge anyone
your sex life is yours and unique to you and how you want to spend it and what you do in your private life is nothing to do with any of us just enjoy what life you chose
everyone comes with respect for each other
enjoy your swinging lifestyle x like we all do
 
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None of us on here are Notches on bedpost
You can have as many sexual partners as you want no one here is dictating to you if you slept with one and then went on to the other none of us here are here to judge anyone
your sex life is yours and unique to you and how you want to spend it and what you do in your private life is nothing to do with any of us just enjoy what life you chose
everyone comes with respect for each other
enjoy your swinging lifestyle x like we all do
 
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Deleted member 16044

Ok this is something that would generally be applied to blokes but something got me thinking....does this apply to women too ?
I can say that before I started swinging that I had only ever had sex with 1 person , now the nature of swinging is that it can be one meet move to the next .... some are repeated or become regular meetings ....
Now as a single bloke here I’ve always wanted to find someone I could see on a more regular basis as friends with benefits...hasn’t happened probably never will ....
so would you consider me a “ notch on the bed post “ type of bloke ? Since being here I’ve met numerous lovely people, hopefully there will be more ...
Just one of my random thoughts of the day ..... are we all “notch’s “ Male or Female ... ?

being a carpenter did you mean this kind of notch on a post x