I'm going to say this as something Mrs A Team, just mentioned has annoyed me, when new members start up conversations that you've not had much interaction with, it's not a very good introduction, when 3 or 4 lines in, they are thinking of you naked, yes we know it's a swinging site, and yes we know it's banter, relative to the Site we are on, but come on, we are people first before objects to be drooled over, and it would be nice to get to know us first. We are as big a set of flirts as anyone on here, but there is an etiquette to these things guys !!!!!