Pimps

[Therapon]

On the back of the drugs thread what about pimps and they people they control, usually, but not always, girls.

Should these people be a part of the swingers community or are they part of the community already.
Would you be happy to have sex with someone who you know is being pimped out.
And what about the less obvious pimping, where the pimp will provide the drugs to get the girl high so that she doesn't really know what is happening so that he/she can use them to get sex for themselves.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

This is definitely a new one to me..i didn't even realise pimps we're involved in the swinging lifestyle..I thought the whole idea was consensual adults having fun..if it's the case where there are pimps involved and you have sex with let's just say a single lady for argument sake..how would the pimp get paid for the said lady having sex with you..my understanding of pimps is they use these women as basically a cash cow..or have I read this completely wrong..I know they use the women for sex themselves and drugs do play a big part in that but I always thought these pimps we're only interested in the girls making money for them..W..

 

[Therapon]

This is definitely a new one to me..i didn't even realise pimps we're involved in the swinging lifestyle..I thought the whole idea was consensual adults having fun..if it's the case where there are pimps involved and you have sex with let's just say a single lady for argument sake..how would the pimp get paid for the said lady having sex with you..my understanding of pimps is they use these women as basically a cash cow..or have I read this completely wrong..I know they use the women for sex themselves and drugs do play a big part in that but I always thought these pimps we're only interested in the girls making money for them..W..

Yes I agree with you but I was using the word pimps more as a generalisation, as I said there are less obvious ways to pimp.

They can use girls to lure others, maybe a single female or a couple, so that they get sex themselves with the SF or the female of the couple. It may not be a strict definition of pimping but then it's still using another persons sex for their own gain, whatever that may be.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

I think in this lifestyle there is definitely more security as a couple.. As a single female you are definitely more vulnerable to this sort of situation.. W..

 

[Dangerous690]

I think in this lifestyle there is definitely more security as a couple.. As a single female you are definitely more vulnerable to this sort of situation.. W..

Yes I agree with that statement being on here as Single female has risks.?Being a Single man?we encounter many difficulties too,

 

[Lips_Pearls]

On the back of the drugs thread what about pimps and they people they control, usually, but not always, girls.

Should these people be a part of the swingers community or are they part of the community already.
Would you be happy to have sex with someone who you know is being pimped out.
And what about the less obvious pimping, where the pimp will provide the drugs to get the girl high so that she doesn't really know what is happening so that he/she can use them to get sex for themselves.

Great thread. ?
This is something that is indeed quite prevalent.
I’m all for ladies in the sex industry as long as it’s done in such a way that they’re protected.
However, in this lifestyle it opens up opportunities for pimps to push their girls. Usually with drugs involved too as you rightly pointed out.
As for the less obvious pimping. You yourself have seen this in clubs with us there too... it’s not a pleasant experience or sight to witness. But it happens.
I think clubs have a responsibility to act on that type of situation.

Would I be happy having sex with someone who does this professionally? Hmmm I know a lot of swingers usually test the waters with a call out girl etc. But would I? I don’t know. Maybe. My concern would always be for her welfare though as I’m simply that way.
Should they be part of the scene? Have they got a place? Yes absolutely.
All I would want to be in place though is that they made it clear why they’re involved and what for.
I have no problem with it at all from a personally speaking point of view. ?