Red flags?

Red flags for me are, if they aren’t Photo verified and are making up every excuse as to why not, Yet making you a list of demands

sthwalescpl said:

So, you settle down for a session on SS, and go through some profiles to see if anyone floats your boat.

Are there any words or phrases that immediately make you click the "next" button?
One big one for us, when reading a profile with a bi-curious fem, is something along the lines of "its HIS fantasy to see me with another woman"... fail, if it sounds like its more for him than for her that she is trying playing with a woman for the first time, then we tend to move on, if she's not doing it for her, then its a "no" from us.

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I get that entirely. Vanessa definitely is sexually attracted to other women but she just hasn't found one in all this time. Not by any pushing from me, it's just the way it is. I'm bisexual and will freely say that I have had sex with many men and women. V is pickier and needs the right woman to give her encouragement to get down and dirty but that is all up to her and not for my titillation unless invited of course.
The usual red flags online are "send me pictures" or "hit me up on.... some social media site" then you just know you are usually talking to some bloke that wants to wank and doesn't have the brains to work out that there are hundreds of free porn sites out there for that.

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Wanting to meet somewhere private straightaway. Never a good sign!

Genuine…
Oh and a whole list of demands…

When they ask my age ... it’s on my profile so shows they haven’t read it.
( it’s 49 by the way ?)

livvye123 said:

When they ask my age ... it’s on my profile so shows they haven’t read it.
( it’s 49 by the way ?)

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your age?
How old are you ???

I think for us the not getting photo verified is a big no no.. but also profiles with no information and no media.. I know our media doesn't have face pics but we have met quite a few people from here at socials and we will send face to anyone that wants them through the messages.. Then you get the one line messages saying nice tits wanna meet.. Another definite red flag.. I spent a lot of time filling our profile page and info.. I have even updated it with all the new experiences we have had.. W.. ??

Biggest red flags for me are,
1. Weird rules for contacting them, like having to put a certain word or number in a message title.
2. Weird numbers, punctuation in the middle of screen name or having a weird name.
3. Anyone that too much one thing (this is more a red flag in relation to kink stuff).
4. Profiles that feel more like a dating profile.
5. Ohhhh and of course pages that are just filled with close-ups of cocks and or pussies.