You have to remember something too;
1, Single ladies in this lifestyle have the nickname (not condemning or condoning) 'unicorn' for a reason.
2, It's not a dating site.
3, we're still relatively new in the whole game. At two-and-a-half years old, in terms of swinging sites we're still a baby..
These things take years of work and effort to build up.
We're doing it, and we're making all the right noises. But it also means it's a longer process for all concerned.
The community itself can help drive more members up by advertising us to their friends, their friends' friends and within club environments as mentioned here;
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