Single blokes in clubs?

[TallBloke]

I’m a single bloke.

In anyone’s experience, how difficult/socially awkward is it for a single guy to visit one of the clubs? Say, Chameleons for example?

Are they viewed with suspicion? Do they sit on the edge of events until someone takes pity on them or throws Ice cubes at them until they leave

I’m trying to assess whether it’s worth giving it a go when covid blows over, as I don’t want to be the single bloke making couples feel uncomfortable, sat in the corner like an oddster not knowing what to do.

Do people approach you, or you them?

I would love to spend an evening with a couple (or two ?), but I realise single blokes are bottom of the pile.

What is the best way forward?

Thanks.

 

[Pearls]

Single blokes are not bottom of the pile ?? Apart from the idiots at clubs what I have seen is couples doing the approaching and I know guys from here who have had brilliant nights at clubs so I’m sure they can give the best advice and couples that have met guys there. X

 

[TallBloke]

Nice. Nothing worse than turning up somewhere and being
as welcome as root canal surgery.

Initial attempts at DMing couples on here have not yielded results so far, though I haven’t been lewd or boorish. Boring, maybe ?, but not obnoxious in any way.

You get many idiots causing trouble in clubs?

 

[Mr and Mrs Marmite]

I used to attend a club on my own... i enjoyed it as I was not actually looking for sex... just loved the atmosphere and the flirting with others in a safe environment.

I loved it soo much I eventually took the lovely wife with me... now we both enjoy the social side of clubs and the clientele there.

If going by yourself, the only advice i can give is... DON'T be a dick!

Be friendly, join in the chat and never expect anything more than a bit of flirting at the bar.

Clubs can be great... or they can be your worst nightmare, it all depends on how you take to the scene ?

 

[Tiger]

Being a single bloke myself, I’d say the best thing to do is make yourself known, put yourself out there!

Chat and get involved in the forums join the quiz on the weekends, people, couples need to get to know you first!

This isn’t a wham bam thank you mam site, if you put the work in believe me, you’ll be rewarded tenfold.

 

[TallBloke]

nice. Good to know it’s not a long shot getting involved in this as it looks like a great lifestyle and life is to be lived, as they say.

I was starting to get a little dispirited, and was wondering if I had fallen foul of some unknown code of conduct

And no, I’m not big on being a dick to people, and as a fairly affable bloke I’m hoping that Stands me in good stead.

Is there a recommended club for beginners? I like the look of chameleons and th idea of wandering about in a towel sounds perfect ?.

 

[Deleted member 11852]

We have met quite a few single guys from here..both socially and for fun..i think the main reason people are not interacting much at the moment is definitely to do with COVID and nothing personal against yourself..as for clubs we have only ever been to 1..xtasia,,we have been there twice with the site..clubs are not really for us we prefer the privacy of a hotel room..we like to have a drink in the bar and relax before having some naughty fun in the room..like everyone says if your active on the site join in with threads people will get to know you..W..??

 

[Pearls]

@mrclouse you’ve had some good times at clubs, could you share some experience ???