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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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I spoke to someone here recently about how he had been treated at an event, I had suggested a thread that I’d been thinking about for some time which he had said for me to do, so here goes.

I mentioned somewhere else that I had only apart from one guy had only issues with guys from couples, we’ve been to many events and tbh the single guys have been amazing.

So what is it?
Why do guys get such bad press and why are all guys tarred with the same brush across the scene.

Why do guys get ignored for being polite even if they know you don’t want to meet but just being polite!

Not all comments and posts are bad, yes some deserve to be ignored or reported but not all so why do nice guys with nice comments get ignored but the couples and single ladies always get a reaction?

Is it a case of “another one” for you?

To our gents here.
How do you feel when it comes down to it about how you are treated, that could be regarding
Clubs
Sites
Socials
Etc.

Over to you and please be honest, you’re amongst friends after all.
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Honestly sometimes it feels like being a second class citizen .... but there are those that are always good and welcoming ...
Clubs ,been down this road many times ....single blokes are the “cash cows “ entice them in have their pants down ..... also excluded on weekends? As if we don’t have a life that means Fridays are a non starter ...
Sites this is the one and only one that really welcomes us and again single blokes paying makes revenue... it’s simple economics from what I can see ...
Socials ... well as I have organised the next one we will see how that pans out ,
but the main draw in this lifestyle will always be single women... be that couples or men a large proportion will be chasing the same thing ...
have to say not everyone does it I recently received messages from a couple whose preferences are not single men but they we good enough to chat to me..,
Blokes get bad press in this lifestyle yes some are complete cocks ... but others of us just want no different to couples and single ladies a fun time ,not endless grief just because we happen to be Male ...
There are people in this lifestyle that accept and welcome us because it’s what they are searching for ... to them I can only say thank you ... :tiphat:
The ladies will always get the comments... if you look here that proves that point .. looks at the gallery where are the comments ,the votes for MOTM it’s the ladies ,I’d probably guess 99% are blokes commenting... ladies tend not to I guess they are all shy ☺️
If I think of anything else I’ll come back:rofl:
Waits for incoming ???
 
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Pearls

MOTM

Pearls

18 July 2015
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MP386 said:
Honestly sometimes it feels like being a second class citizen .... but there are those that are always good and welcoming ...
Clubs ,been down this road many times ....single blokes are the “cash cows “ entice them in have their pants down ..... also excluded on weekends? As if we don’t have a life that means Fridays are a non starter ...
Sites this is the one and only one that really welcomes us and again single blokes paying makes revenue... it’s simple economics from what I can see ...
Socials ... well as I have organised the next one we will see how that pans out ,
but the main draw in this lifestyle will always be single women... be that couples or men a large proportion will be chasing the same thing ...
have to say not everyone does it I recently received messages from a couple whose preferences are not single men but they we good enough to chat to me..,
Blokes get bad press in this lifestyle yes some are complete cocks ... but others of us just want no different to couples and single ladies a fun time ,not endless grief just because we happen to be Male ...
There are people in this lifestyle that accept and welcome us because it’s what they are searching for ... to them I can only say thank you ... :tiphat:
The ladies will always get the comments... if you look here that proves that point .. looks at the gallery where are the comments ,the votes for MOTM it’s the ladies ,I’d probably guess 99% are blokes commenting... ladies tend not to I guess they are all shy ☺
If I think of anything else I’ll come back:rofl:
Waits for incoming ???
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Just to add as you’ve mentioned not all guys are plonkas. We have met women in this scene that are complete bitches, say hello to them and they look you up and down as if you’re shit and walk off. Met a few of those. One lady couldn’t even look at me at an event last year when I introduced myself, she gave that dreaded disgust expression and walked away. Swings in roundabouts I guess.
 
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MP386

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MP386

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Pearls said:
Just to add as you’ve mentioned not all guys are plonkas. We have met women in this scene that are complete bitches, say hello to them and they look you up and down as if you’re shit and walk off. Met a few of those. One lady couldn’t even look at me at an event last year when I introduced myself, she gave that dreaded disgust expression and walked away. Swings in roundabouts I guess.
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I guess it works both ways ,your always get those that think they are a cut above .... That includes the blokes you know the ones .... six pack ,hung like a donkey... think they should service everyone’s needs ...
 
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MP386

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MP386

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Problem is in this lifestyle I find is that single blokes have to be nice all the time , can’t actually say what you always want to for fear of being banned...i guess it’s all part of the politically correct world we live in ,you read something and think no ,bite your tongue it’s just not worth it , yet others can say as they see it without that fear of :alert:..
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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MP386 said:
Problem is in this lifestyle I find is that single blokes have to be nice all the time , can’t actually say what you always want to for fear of being banned...i guess it’s all part of the politically correct world we live in ,you read something and think no ,bite your tongue it’s just not worth it , yet others can say as they see it without that fear of :alert:..
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Not here. We would rather everyone speak their mind. We wouldn’t ban you for freedom of speech unless it was something that required a ban, not many people get to a ban unless they are found out to be fake or worse. ??
 
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MP386

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MP386

9 November 2015
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Pearls said:
Some clubs we’ve noticed have introduced throuple with weekend entry. Is it fair to only have one denomination being Ffm.
I thought it was a brilliant idea and it should be more welcoming with more clubs but what about Mmf scenarios.
Is it done for genuine reasons?
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Weekend entry (pardon the pun :D) is generally only females and couples so is that actually anything different ?
MMF doesn’t suit clubs ... means letting the riff raff in .... you know those pesky cock wielding plonkers ...:palm:
 
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Dangerous690

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MP386 said:
Honestly sometimes it feels like being a second class citizen .... but there are those that are always good and welcoming ...
Clubs ,been down this road many times ....single blokes are the “cash cows “ entice them in have their pants down ..... also excluded on weekends? As if we don’t have a life that means Fridays are a non starter ...
Sites this is the one and only one that really welcomes us and again single blokes paying makes revenue... it’s simple economics from what I can see ...
Socials ... well as I have organised the next one we will see how that pans out ,
but the main draw in this lifestyle will always be single women... be that couples or men a large proportion will be chasing the same thing ...
have to say not everyone does it I recently received messages from a couple whose preferences are not single men but they we good enough to chat to me..,
Blokes get bad press in this lifestyle yes some are complete cocks ... but others of us just want no different to couples and single ladies a fun time ,not endless grief just because we happen to be Male ...
There are people in this lifestyle that accept and welcome us because it’s what they are searching for ... to them I can only say thank you ... :tiphat:
The ladies will always get the comments... if you look here that proves that point .. looks at the gallery where are the comments ,the votes for MOTM it’s the ladies ,I’d probably guess 99% are blokes commenting... ladies tend not to I guess they are all shy ☺
If I think of anything else I’ll come back:rofl:
Waits for incoming ???
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I agree with MP386??It’s like being an outcast sometimes? I’ve questioned myself wether to interact on threads or just be quiet.it can be like I’m lower class too?
 
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Pearls said:
Just to add as you’ve mentioned not all guys are plonkas. We have met women in this scene that are complete bitches, say hello to them and they look you up and down as if you’re shit and walk off. Met a few of those. One lady couldn’t even look at me at an event last year when I introduced myself, she gave that dreaded disgust expression and walked away. Swings in roundabouts I guess.
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lets not all assume this that and the other here
spread some love amongst us x x x
 
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