Sooo............

Our first time only a couple of weeks ago. We went to a club expecting just to watch but ended up in a room with three other couples, soft swap, loads of naughty fun. Went back the following weekend for more which was a completely different experience with two very different encounters ... we had some clear rules between us on night one but now after night two we only have one and are already feeling go with the flow’ - let us know how you get on! xx

Jaynerobert said:

we had some clear rules between us on night one but now after night two we only have one and are already feeling go with the flow’

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Heh… I suspect that many many people will empathise with that!

Glad you’re enjoying throwing away the rules…

Callie said:

As I'm a newbie and have never done anything like this, tell me about your first time? ?

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So my first time was after chatting with a fantastic couple from here .... unfortunately not now active on site ... we met at a hotel had dinner , chatted and flirted before going back to my room ......
Have to admit I was a little nervous but they soon passed at her first touch and how she made me feel ..... that night was my first threesome ....
Always remember that night and the start of my swinging journey... x

Callie said:

As I'm a newbie and have never done anything like this, tell me about your first time? ?

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First non-vanilla? Happened long before I entered this lifestyle.

But first experience in this lifestyle? Well, I ind of stumbled into the scene, via some online chat rooms, and then got invited to one club as part of a group of six, everyone else being regulars in the scene… which didn’t go well for any of us (we all just felt uncomfortable, including the more experienced)…

We went on to another place that they knew well… and that place was lovely. friendly, nice people. Didn’t play that time, nor the next.

But after a couple of times, when I felt more ‘at home’… Yes. I got chatting with someone there, who made her… wishes plain, and nature took its course.

Our first threesome was decades ago and amazing. It has been recounted on here a few times. And Ry being mostly a lesbian has had many girlfriends over the years who have joined us. Our first club experience was a bit too full on and we ran away back to the hotel, female friend in tow. Our second club visit was soo much better being the SS birthday bash in Xstasia. And we have met many amazing people here and had some thrilling times. Even recently ended up involved in a foursome escapade with a female acquaintance and one of the lucky single guys from here. They have all been fun and exciting. Set your boundaries, talk openly and honestly with others about what you want to experience , relax and go with the flow. We all enjoy life and sex so make the most of it with no judgements. Xx G

Callie said:

You're brave wish I had someone to brave it with x

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You will not be short of offers here. Xx G
Pick us for a threesome. Lol.

Your first dip into the lifestyle will be nervous, eye opening, roller coaster but in the end you make the decisions and the rules on what takes place.

Take your time enjoy the experience. There are plenty of people here to give advice. Xxxx :0)) T&C

Callie said:

You're brave wish I had someone to brave it with x

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My advice! Take your time go at your own pace, everything is your choice you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do!

There are plenty of people here willing to help guide you on your journey & it is your journey! Nobody else’s so chat to people go to socials & if you feel uncomfortable be honest with people you’re with, in this lifestyle communication is key!

As for my first time it was incredible & has continually got better!

Tiger xx

Callie said:

As I'm a newbie and have never done anything like this, tell me about your first time? ?

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Hello how you. I am new to this and would love to know what you’d get up to