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10 July 2018
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Apart from the obvious - there’s no ‘click’ - yes, smelly, dirty.

But back in the day, I met people and despite hot chats before, and on the phone, when we met for a drink socially before anything else… there was just nothing there. Sometimes from her, sometimes from me, but nothing there. Adults deal with that with a ‘ah, well, such is life, want another drink?’ After all, odds are you’ll still like each other, even if you don’t fancy the other person.
 
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As stated the obvious ones, smelly, dirty. There should definitely be a connection there. As a couple we have both agreed, that even if one of us feels a connection but the other doesn’t, we will not take one for the team as they say. Xx M
 
Pearls

MOTM

18 July 2015
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Apart from the obvious - there’s no ‘click’ - yes, smelly, dirty.

But back in the day, I met people and despite hot chats before, and on the phone, when we met for a drink socially before anything else… there was just nothing there. Sometimes from her, sometimes from me, but nothing there. Adults deal with that with a ‘ah, well, such is life, want another drink?’ After all, odds are you’ll still like each other, even if you don’t fancy the other person.
Did you both mention it and have a chuckle. ;)
 
19 March 2015
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In that case stuff the meet, drink the whisky
Man after my own heart!

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What would stop it from going ahead after meeting?
For me it would be the obvious of being dirty or smelly but if I was to see grubby nails on hands and tootsies then no... :eek:

What would stop it from going ahead for you? :D
Plenty of things. Manners and rudeness being my absolute first. Anything else after that, in my opinion, would be our common sense. xx
 

Vanezza

Stud Muffin
11 May 2017
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Clean and well presented is a must and also I think it is quite different to clicking in chat to meeting in reality. I cannot have any intimate fun with anyone we both don't or one of us don't find attractive. Also I absolutely detest shortening words in text if you cannot use proper english words it is a no no.


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