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I have moved this thread out of the public eye and into the "All about swinging" forum which is hidden to the public.
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Admin x
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meet_the_fockers
So what made you decide you where interested in the swinging lifestyle? X no pun just curious.Hi everyoneMe and my partner are looking into swinging and wanted to know how other people got into it, how its worked for them and what advice you could give us xxxxxx
We went to VA went in Bar before we did anything for a drink, We started talking to a couple who said we are getting changed so we went with them. Ended up in couples room several others there. and had a great turn on and play our first Time. Good
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The_Bibas
I went to a strip bar with Stephen and a few of his friends.. The stripper, called angel, took a shine to me..we didn't do anything too dirty but it was the beginning of my downfall and the beginning of Stephen's fighting credibility.. That was around 10 years ago.. We dabbled in a few outrageous things until we discovered our true calling in May 2015..
Its a difficult scene to settle in to, which comes with a lots of problems but it is addictive and very time consuming..
XxxBibaxxX
Its a difficult scene to settle in to, which comes with a lots of problems but it is addictive and very time consuming..
XxxBibaxxX
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meet_the_fockers
Maybe i should tell our experience story again, just for twinkle
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The_Bibas
OoooooooMaybe i should tell our experience story again, just for twinkle
Let me get a cup of tea first..
XxxBibaxxX
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meet_the_fockers
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The_Bibas
He is busy with work.. But I will make sure to tell him all the gore... XxxBibaxxXLol and turkey boy? He lurves hearing about my exploits
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meet_the_fockers
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The_Bibas
Ahhh and I thought you were going to dredge up your past..I aint traumatising these poor folk!!
Never mind.. I am out of dunkers anyway
XxxBibaxxX
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meet_the_fockers
My past.. hmmm.. would you like curly hair
“I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present.
If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy woman.
Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living now.”
Xxxx
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The_Bibas
I can't have curly by hair silly.. I shave..My past.. hmmm.. would you like curly hair
“I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present.
If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy woman.
Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living now.”
Xxxx
My past made me choose the direction of my future which brings me here.. My present.
All my choices are made from previous decisions and mistakes I have made and mistakes I am yet to make..
My present is still unwrapping..
Bibaphilosophy
Xxxxxxx
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meet_the_fockers
Damn right its an ever evolving journey..
Open up
right i best go n rattle some members.. 
Xxx
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peakcouple
A few weeks after we'd met we decided to try our first swinger club, so we went to La Chambre. We'd decided to have a relationship and had both admitted that our previous relationships had failed because we needed sexual variety, and swinging seemed an open way to do this. We'd both done group play and casual extramarital sex before, so the idea wasn't too unusual for either. We didn't swap with any others on that first occasion but we both felt very comfortable having sex among others doing the same. On the next visit we had our first soft-swing swap with another couple and a few visits later had our first full swap. Neither of us felt jealous, in fact we found the sight of the other with someone else exciting (and we still do!).
Swinging has been a regular event since then - after a couple of years we moved in together and married but that didn't stop our playing. it works well for us, more honest and less stressful than hidden affairs. We do it simply for pleasure, not because anything is lacking in our own relationship; our own sex is always the best. We've become good friends with some swingers but we both enjoy casual sex with strangers too.
Our only advice is communicate constantly, after each meet we discuss how we felt, what we did (especially if we were in separate rooms), how the other people performed, whether we'd like to meet them again, etc.
Swinging has been a regular event since then - after a couple of years we moved in together and married but that didn't stop our playing. it works well for us, more honest and less stressful than hidden affairs. We do it simply for pleasure, not because anything is lacking in our own relationship; our own sex is always the best. We've become good friends with some swingers but we both enjoy casual sex with strangers too.
Our only advice is communicate constantly, after each meet we discuss how we felt, what we did (especially if we were in separate rooms), how the other people performed, whether we'd like to meet them again, etc.
Long story shortened...
We originally started out a few years ago now looking for a female to help Mrs P explore her bi-side. Had some good experiences and discovered we really enjoyed fucking for fun... so here we are finding fun wherever we can lol.
We actually really like socialising with like minded people too. Places like the be festival of fun, where we can just chillout and be ourselves.
Good luck finding what you are looking for xxxxx
We originally started out a few years ago now looking for a female to help Mrs P explore her bi-side. Had some good experiences and discovered we really enjoyed fucking for fun... so here we are finding fun wherever we can lol.
We actually really like socialising with like minded people too. Places like the be festival of fun, where we can just chillout and be ourselves.
Good luck finding what you are looking for xxxxx
How are you getting on both? @CuriousJHi everyone