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15 September 2014
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Okay Sexy Peeps,
We have threads about terms used in swinging, and likes/dislikes of certain things such as being clean shaven or full growth etc..
But what about terms/phrases used in swinging that you don't like?

For instance.. I cannot stand the term 'play' as in play meets. "We met Jack & Jill yesterday" - "Oh yeah, was it a play meet or a social meet"
I despise it, yet it's universally recognised so yeah I kind of get that, but generally I don't like the phrase - play.
I also don't like the phrase OR the meaning of 'Take one for the team'..
"Yeah she was not very attractive so I took one for the team" ... really??

Any phrases or terms you are not particularly keen on in this lifestyle?
Do tell.. ;)
 

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Lifestyle - yes you might be involved in swinging but it's only one aspect of your activities.
Ahh but the term lifestyle is apt for swinging. It's a chosen lifestyle not 'scene' as it's commonly called. ;)
People class it as a lifestyle choice.? Hope that makes sense.

I'm not differentiating on your opinion, just pointing out why it's called "the lifestyle" , in case you didn't know what or why it is termed that. :)
 
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'Taking one for the team' is, indeed an awful term and an awful concept. However, it has become (for reasons I can't go into on a public forum ;)) a bit of an in-joke among our circle. So, if you ever hear us say it, we are being tongue-in-cheek. Honest. :)
 

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Unfortunately being newbies to the scene and starting on the wrong site/foot we have a list of hates but I really can't stand fuck buddy.
Hate it with a passion.
I accept the word play because with Biba its all a game.
As for abbreviations we are still coming to terms with them and they do bug us. Pure laziness, yet we have started using them.
Without exception however we hate the phrase do you do anal.. In an initial chat
Stephen
Hmm yeah I hear ya! 'Do you do anal' what a way to start..
 
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just for fun, how about coming up with some new terms for those you have said you dont like?

Id love to hear alternatives for that bottom eating one :rofl:
 
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