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Totally agree - We decided quite a long time back that we would just go for what we want to do. We wanna be that old couple grinning in that old folks home about what we did. Not sat thinking i wish i had done this or that when younger

I have so many things that I wish I had done or done differently so I totally agree with everything you said

SteLinda said:

There is a thought that near if not all of us have had somewhere down the line. We sat looking at a picture, a film, or hearing first hand a story about swinging. Friends or even relations who have had fun with others, or porn with threesome or moresomes and had THAT thought. Do we or don't we try that?
Well recently I've seen a number of people I know lose life, or have their lives drastically change. Even we have had a couple of problems rear an ugly head which is why we've not been around lately.
So my advice to anyone thinking shall we is... well not go for it, more get advice, ask serious questions, but don't let worries such as what will the neighbours think or what if..... etc. Life is short and you never know what will happen next. Never find yourself regretting years later that now you can't you didn't take that opportunity.
Ste.

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I think that knowing how short life is and how quickly it can be taken away from you, we have to have a get out there and live it attitude.
Life is so short and can be gone so quickly, we all need to enjoy life and live it to the full as best we can. In all ways shapes and forms. Swinging can make some of the best and sexiest memories that we can do.
Imagine life when old & wrinkly, sat at your retirement cottage or home, talking to your OH about some of the naughty things we got up to.
That's what I want and that's how to enjoy our lives. I want to be able to tell those nurses about the times that we had fun with other people for say 10 hours straight.
Or the time we dropped an actual light on our guests head - not once but twice!
Or even tell them the time I nodded off mid-play as it was about 7am and was shattered after almost 24hrs of no sleep and all partying.
We have one life and we all need to live it as best we can.

When we first talked about getting into this lifestyle, we had a strict, set scenario that we were not going to deviate from, which lasted about 5 minutes once we were actively participating So now we have no set plans, have no expectations, no list of things we think we should try, pretty much nothing is verboten, which for us means we can just totally enjoy our play times without any hang ups or disappointments - makes for a much more relaxing fun time.

Muse xx