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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Do you practice and believe in the art of seduction?
How do you do it, do you approach the mind first or use suggestive physical movements if in company?

Online, do you use the power of suggestion, to entice, induce and attract the mind of the person you are speaking with?
Obvious flirting aside, can you use the power of suggestion and seduction to raise the temperature of the discussions you are having?
Do you think there's no place for seduction and enticing, using the mind - in swinging.

Or is there a place for using the mind and using suggestive comments to connect and reach out to the person(s) you are speaking with?

Do you, if you are engaged in such talks find it attractive and a turn on.. or a turn off?
Does none of it work at all for you and it has to be a physical thing? ie can't be bothered with all that fuss and just want to get down and dirty?

:) x
 
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BlancoGoGo

BlancoGoGo

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Everyone's different, of course. But I (GG) thrive on the seduction, the build up. Seduction, suggestion? Little ol' me? How do I do it......get over to that there Twitter! (I've enticed a couple over there already....)
Yes, all of that, if you can't flirt, tease, pique my interest, we might not get too far....
A definite turn on.
"Hey!" a definite turn OFF!
 
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louise1970

Lips_Pearls said:
Do you practice and believe in the art of seduction?
How do you do it, do you approach the mind first or use suggestive physical movements if in company?

Online, do you use the power of suggestion, to entice, induce and attract the mind of the person you are speaking with?
Obvious flirting aside, can you use the power of suggestion and seduction to raise the temperature of the discussions you are having?
Do you think there's no place for seduction and enticing, using the mind - in swinging.

Or is there a place for using the mind and using suggestive comments to connect and reach out to the person(s) you are speaking with?

Do you, if you are engaged in such talks find it attractive and a turn on.. or a turn off?
Does none of it work at all for you and it has to be a physical thing? ie can't be bothered with all that fuss and just want to get down and dirty?

:) x
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Can you give this novice some tips :X3:
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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BlancoGoGo said:
Everyone's different, of course. But I (GG) thrive on the seduction, the build up. Seduction, suggestion? Little ol' me? How do I do it......get over to that there Twitter! (I've enticed a couple over there already....)
Yes, all of that, if you can't flirt, tease, pique my interest, we might not get too far....
A definite turn on.
"Hey!" a definite turn OFF!
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Agreed. It takes effort, doing the right things. Saying the right things.. but honestly and genuinely, else the person you are speaking with/to, will know it's false and half hearted.
As you say, we are all different, but I personally and can say we both do, find seduction a huge turn on and definitely the way to get things going.

The messages that are empty felt, do nothing. You know the type I mean too.. as you say; "hey!" and so on...
louise1970 said:
Can you give this novice some tips :X3:
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Oh most definitely.. But I think you're very capable? ;) x

VoluptuousVixen said:
I'm about as seductive as a hippo.
I find it a huge turn on with the right people, online or off line, but tend not to go there.
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It can be a fine line, but when done correctly and with the right people, it can definitely be a significant turn on and build up..

x
 
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Miss-Sexy-Legs

Miss-Sexy-Legs

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Online as to be seduction of the mind first as you get to know the person(s) sometimes enticing pictures help but getting inside their head so to speak helps in the art of seduction , but in meeting its the flirting slight teasing of the body which works best ive found althou having a gsh seems to ease the tentions of first meetings
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Miss-Sexy-Legs said:
Online as to be seduction of the mind first as you get to know the person(s) sometimes enticing pictures help but getting inside their head so to speak helps in the art of seduction , but in meeting its the flirting slight teasing of the body which works best ive found althou having a gsh seems to ease the tentions of first meetings
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Oh definitely. GSH seriously helps, especially with nerves. And yes, the mind first is definitely something that works here. x
 
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Cheeky_Demon

Cheeky_Demon

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Yes I use suggestive language, eye contact, subtle physical movements (when in vanilla world). On-line... I'm more of a cheeky tease. I'm more the boy who sat behind you at school and pulled your pony tail (Christ how relevant that is now... If only I knew then) because he fancied you but didn't know how to say it. But I get there in the end.

Subconsciously I do always attempt to seduce the mind first. Make people feel comfortable and keep it light, with an air of humour. But that's just me in life too. I didn't know I did it until a friend pointed it out many moons back. She always said I was a smooth talker, but with devilish intent!!

My god, seduction is so fulfilling. So much fun. So rewarding.. for all parties! It comes hand in hand with playful flirting in my book.

But... and this is key, for me... it has to be done with intent. Intent to actually seduce, not just flirt. Intent to actually walk off holding her hand*, knowing you're about to undress the target of all your attention. It can't be seduction just for the sake of it.

Striking a connection (again I am talking about me here) is so important. Getting to know her/them. Making sure you get on well with the male half of a couple as well as the female half is crucial. I need to feel like I could meet him in the pub for a few beers on our own. Not just be there because you think his wife is hot!

I love being seduced too. It's the biggest compliment and a very welcome surprise when a lady takes that initiative. I am a bit slow to realise at times though.

Anyway, I'm dangerously close to waffling on, but you get where I am coming from.
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

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Lips_Pearls said:
Do you practice and believe in the art of seduction?
How do you do it, do you approach the mind first or use suggestive physical movements if in company?

Online, do you use the power of suggestion, to entice, induce and attract the mind of the person you are speaking with?
Obvious flirting aside, can you use the power of suggestion and seduction to raise the temperature of the discussions you are having?
Do you think there's no place for seduction and enticing, using the mind - in swinging.

Or is there a place for using the mind and using suggestive comments to connect and reach out to the person(s) you are speaking with?

Do you, if you are engaged in such talks find it attractive and a turn on.. or a turn off?
Does none of it work at all for you and it has to be a physical thing? ie can't be bothered with all that fuss and just want to get down and dirty?

:) x
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What would be your seduction technique :sneaky:xxx
 
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meet_the_fockers

Oh interesting question.
It totally depends on my mood.. tiredness mainly..
I can and do flirt.. im terrible for it.
Seduce hmm.. im unsure about that..
I tend to laugh people into bed.. if possible..
I do subtle inuendos, and am very capable, of letting someone know if i am interested. I love the chase. I dont do dirty chat.. i dont want to, and dont find it appealing.. the only thing i will do, if a meet is immenent, is discuss do's and don'ts anything they would particulary like, any fantasies theyd like to, act out tick off etc..
No disrespect, but if trying to converse with someone, is like pulling teeth.. its just not going to work, no matter how beautiful they are...
I suppose i do seduce.. with my mind.. i have a wicked imagination.. Seduction definately starts with the mind...
Seduce the mind.. and the rest will follow.
But try and seduce me.. and i will run a mile..
I guess i like being in charge. ;) x
In the flesh? Im a massive seducer.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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meet_the_fockers said:
I suppose i do seduce.. with my mind.. i have a wicked imagination.. Seduction definately starts with the mind...
Seduce the mind.. and the rest will follow.
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And that's exactly where seducing someone comes into play. It's all about the mind and enticing that person into feeling sexually aroused, or wanted, lusted after.. by you when talking.
Word play, old romantic/new romantic words, not sexting etc.
mind that can play a part too, but low level. x
 
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Personally I like to play with the mind first. Some may have noticed here I start wth a funny flirtatious comment. I like to take my time, judge the response. Every now and then a serious flirtatious comment. Catch the attention. Create a little intrigue.
In person, the same except with body language. Eye contact. I look how she breathes, try and sense a quickening breath. Learn her body movement. I will lean in............ The rest is my secret.
 
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meet_the_fockers

Kwaka_Rider said:
Personally I like to play with the mind first. Some may have noticed here I start wth a funny flirtatious comment. I like to take my time, judge the response. Every now and then a serious flirtatious comment. Catch the attention. Create a little intrigue.
In person, the same except with body language. Eye contact. I look how she breathes, try and sense a quickening breath. Learn her body movement. I will lean in............ The rest is my secret.
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Ows yer moped boyo! ;)
 
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