- Keep talking and don't have any private worries or secrets.
- Talk after every meet/club visit/whatever, when together alone, and say what we liked and didn't like about our experiences.
- Separate play is OK as long as we ask beforehand, or if not possible, (such as a one-night-stand when one of us is away from home) then tell as soon as we'e back together.
- No anal or facials for her, no pain (apart from bum slapping
), no watersports, no scat.
- Condoms until we're VERY good friends.
And finally - keep talking!