What do you enjoy watching IRL but not in porn?

Finding porn I actually like is difficult,some is just to cheesy, I do prefer more amateur ordinary people posting their stuff ...
There is some BDSM things that are a turn on but nothing extreme .... things like prolapse porn I find quite disturbing ... but I guess it’s horses for courses ,we all like what we like .....
Not having a partner does makes watching something that doesn’t happen often but I do enjoy watching people having fun .... better if you can join in obviously...