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What got you into swinging ?

Guru G

17 September 2020
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What got you into swinging?

I remember when I was on holiday with an ex partner, we met another couple who were from wales too.

We made good friends with them and spent every night with them getting pissed with the entertainment, after a few nights I could tell the wife was up for abit, we were always making eye contact and one night she may aswell of been rubbing me off under the table and as you can imagine what was going through my mind she was a right cougar and I was like 21.

After that I always thought I wish her husband would've let me shagged her ? so I thought let's look into swinging as I am into older ladies anyway ?
 
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Skippy01

Quiz Queen 2020
18 September 2020
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A fair few years ago,there used to a club above a normal club in Great Yarmouth.I got nosey and decided to wander off and check it out.Not even going to lie, that I didn't run straight down stairs to take the piss with my mates.I spent about 4 days remembering a woman in a silver sequin mini dress knelt in front of a couch ,giving a man a blowjob.And there was another couple sat there watching.The next weekend I went there on my own and spent the whole night there .Took me about 6 weeks to get involved but after that I started going to different clubs watching people do different things.If I liked the look of it then I tried it myself x
 
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Tiger

8 July 2018
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For me it was something I was aware of in my early twenties, it would usually come up in Conversation with different Partners on drunken nights out, but in the sober light of day wasn’t mentioned, anyway to cut a long story short! I read an article a few years ago about this site And thought I’d give it a go! and the rest as they say is history!

Tiger xx
 
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SteveandDebs

9 January 2018
924
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Personally I was involved in the BDSM scene but got fed up with their somewhat repressed attitude to sex. I decided that what I really wanted was kinky sex rather than all the protocol stuff and started thinking about when I'd got involved with a couple when I was about 22 (I was late 30s at the time). That was the vibe I was after and I joined mingingheaven and took to the lifestyle like a duck to water

I'll let @DebsandSteve tell her reasons
 
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DebsandSteve

5 April 2020
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I got into it because I wanted to try something different. My partner then also wanted to try it. We had both previously played with a couple we knew but I was more into it than him. Eventually as Steve said myself and my X joined miningheaven. This is where I met Steve and the attraction was unreal. Eventually my previous relationship ended and myself and Steve carried on with the lifestyle as a couple. Oh and as Steve always says I'm cock happy.
 
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MP386

9 November 2015
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I’ve told this a few times my route to swinging was probably more by luck than judgment... I’ve never had any luck with women ? looking for sympathy
Anyway I buried my head in the sand for to many years and about 8-9 years ago maybe more can’t remember I’m old
I tried some dating sites ... just found the fakes and wasters so i got disheartened again, I always look at myself and wonder what’s wrong with me ? The way I look ,the way I am .... that’s a whole different issue ...
So then I tried some “Insta fuck” sites you know the seedy let’s meet and shag type ones ....did I get any one to show an interest..... NO !! ?‍
cut a long story short , around the time my Mum was dying from COPD , not good believe me .... I was trawling the web and I stumbled across a site called “Social Swinging “ ... so I clicked on signed up as you do , wasn’t sure or confident that it was for me so I left it I was going to delete the account but then one particular bad day I think I played the change a letter game or something similar.... and it’s all gone from there you get a bit of confidence when people interact with you and to my amazement people here were fantastic and so supportive.... it’s moved on a bit I’ve actually “walked the walk “ and this place and swinging is one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life ....
To those I’ve met thank you for the fantastic times and memories to those I’ve yet to meet.... can’t wait to make more memories
 
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nooby nick

4 November 2019
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I just have a open mind and a bucket list to tick off .
I'm just human and like to try things one .
So ss is the best way for me to have a open mind.
Being 50 I feel ive been holded back for 10 or 15 years .
 
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Jaynerobert

24 June 2019
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Never on my radar, not even thought about it until we got together. I was so naive to this world that I didn’t really even think of it as being something I would be considering. I knew it was a thing but not like this.


It’s a long story involving ups and downs and being on the same page and then not and then suddenly both being right there and staying there solidly for four months and having a great time ... and then bloody lockdown! So glad to be here though, we have had some great fun in the lifestyle so far and consider some we have met here to be lifelong friends. ??
 
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