What If Someone Found Out That You Were Swingers.

[Deleted member 11852]

So what would you do if say a family member or friends found out that you were swingers..
I know if any of my family found out then they would probably look at me in disbelief and as for our kids well that's something completely different..
Our daughter seems to think we're past it and often says.. Sex my mum and dad don't do that bearing in mind that she's in her thirties..
So as far as she is concerned we don't have sex with each other let alone anyone else..
So How would you deal with it. I know there's a lot of you who probably wouldn't be that worried..
Over to you sexy lot.. W...

 

[AutumnH]

I'd explain that I have friends who I work with, friends who I go out with and friends who I have sex with

Scenario is slightly different for me, but that's my explanation.

 

[Deleted member 10361]

My family would be shocked, my friends not lol, I have one girlfriend who I told and this was back when I was single and going on meets alone, I used to tell her where I was going incase of any problems.

 

[SteveandDebs]

If people ask us how we met we usually say "in an internet chatroom" which is true. If they want more detail we usually tell them. If they are shocked they shouldn't have asked.

 

[Pearls]

I don’t know how our family would react if honest, probably disown us

 

[fincon]

So what would you do if say a family member or friends found out that you were swingers..
I know if any of my family found out then they would probably look at me in disbelief and as for our kids well that's something completely different..
Our daughter seems to think we're past it and often says.. Sex my mum and dad don't do that bearing in mind that she's in her thirties..
So as far as she is concerned we don't have sex with each other let alone anyone else..
So How would you deal with it. I know there's a lot of you who probably wouldn't be that worried..
Over to you sexy lot.. W...

Ah, fortunately (take my word for it), I’m not in contact with any of my family, apart from my ex-wife and son.

As far as the ex-wife goes, although we’re on good terms, we never discuss our private lives at all in any way.

And my now adult lad? He’d be utterly and completely convinced it was a setup, a gag. Since his mum and I split up, he’s never seen me have a partner, let alone anything else. So he’s fairly sure I’m just not interested in any of that.

 

[MP386]

Sure they’d be shocked and surprised I’d even had sex ..... but I’m old enough to make my own decisions what I want to do .... and in fairness I don’t criticise their choices so I wouldn’t expect them to criticise mine .... I’m at an age where a life partner is probably never going to happen so having some fun before I check out is why I’m here ....

 

[Pearls]

Sure they’d be shocked and surprised I’d even had sex ..... but I’m old enough to make my own decisions what I want to do .... and in fairness I don’t criticise their choices so I wouldn’t expect them to criticise mine .... I’m at an age where a life partner is probably never going to happen so having some fun before I check out is why I’m here ....

You’re never to old to find someone special it’ll happen in a blink of an eye. Apparently Tesco on a Thursday night is good to grab a good catch

 

[MP386]

You’re never to old to find someone special it’ll happen in a blink of an eye. Apparently Tesco on a Thursday night is good to grab a good catch

That’s it then ..... I go to the wrong supermarket on the wrong days ...

 

[Deleted member 11852]

You’re never to old to find someone special it’ll happen in a blink of an eye. Apparently Tesco on a Thursday night is good to grab a good catch

This is true after all I met Mrs h over 20 years ago when I was delivering milk to where she worked..W..

 

[Pearls]

That’s it then ..... I go to the wrong supermarket on the wrong days ...

Lidl on Thursday too

 

[MP386]

Lidl on Thursday too

I don’t use that one either no wonder no ones snapped us this old out of date ,clearance sale ...left on the shelf ...slightly crusty .. you get the picture

 

[Deleted member 10361]

Lidl on Thursday too

Yeah don’t bother with Morrison’s we’ve been today, not only were there no decent looking people they hardly had any meat, pizza for Sunday dinner

 

[Lovernotfighter]

You’re never to old to find someone special it’ll happen in a blink of an eye. Apparently Tesco on a Thursday night is good to grab a good catch

I once had a date (well almost a date) in a Tesco cafe and I seem to remember that it was a Thursday night.

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Lidl on Thursday too

You’d know. You pulled in Aldi’s once remember. She was a hottie too! Xx

red car. Shame about the phone number. We should go again on that day to see if she returns

 

[Pearls]

I don’t use that one either no wonder no ones snapped us this old out of date ,clearance sale ...left on the shelf ...slightly crusty .. you get the picture

Oh I knows!
You’re an M&S shopper ain’t ya

 

[Pearls]

You’d know. You pulled in Aldi’s once remember. She was a hottie too! Xx

red car. Shame about the phone number. We should go again on that day to see if she returns

Cute

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Cute

The both of you would have been together, yes. xxx

 

[Pearls]

The both of you would have been together, yes. xxx

Dirty man xx

 

[Lips_Pearls]

Dirty man xx

Xxx











you love it. Xx

 

[MP386]

Oh I knows!
You’re an M&S shopper ain’t ya

I’m not that posh although they do a nice piece of fillet steak

 

[Pearls]

I’m not that posh although they do a nice piece of fillet steak

I wouldn’t know.
Us welsh are poor you know

 

[MP386]

I wouldn’t know.
Us welsh are poor you know

Yeah right ...... like all those Welshy ones flying around the world watching egg chasers ...... they all poor too

 

[Pearls]

Yeah right ...... like all those Welshy ones flying around the world watching egg chasers ...... they all poor too

We buy with sheep here

 

[MP386]

We buy with sheep here

Amongst other things with sheep
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