When/how do you trying new things?

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25 January 2020
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Are you someone who knows what they like and like what they know, or are you someone who goes I want to try this I want to try that.

What's your motivation to do that if you do.

For me since 2017 I've said fuck it and I'm going to explore a new aspect of myself and each year including this year I'm looking at new things and opening up to different aspects of myself.
2017 was rubber, 2018 was comfortable enough with my body and rubber to atttend events, 2019 was chastity, 2020 was a complete bust so god knows, 2021 cross dressing/feminine/sissy - but I don't think I would have had 2020 been a normal year, but got stuff last week, thankfully fits and it's great so why not explore.


My reason for exploring is quite dark, I've learnt life is fleeting, if I look at some if my immediate family my grandma died at 53, her sister at 47, her brother at 36, my mum at 52 my uncle at 48. When he died I thought fuck what if I don't make it past 53 and though there are exceptions one of my grandma's sisters was 64 the other 70, my grandad 72 my dad still here. My cousin my grandma's nephew only got to 41. This has given me an attitude of fuck it I'm gunna try it and see. Though trying and seeing can still be nerve-wracking, from others perceived reactions.

TLTR: So as I said above do you look to try new things and if so why?
 
Pearls

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Sorry to hear about your family rubber. As for the question, if something popped in my head that made me go oooooo then I’d certainly give it a go, obviously it would have to tickle my fancy but yes for sure. I remember well a gent here who loved rubber and he looked amazing dressed more feminine ?
 
Skippy01

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Skippy01

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I read it all ?.You have an amazing approach in life!!
I would get bored if I didn't try new things every so often.I sometimes read things,and think yes I want to try that!.Some things I wouldn't or couldn't do though.Rubber for one,because I would just look like a tyre.
Experimenting and trying new things with long term friends is what helps build my confidence, and through that, I have found things that I absolutely love,and some things that I would never try again x
 
25 January 2020
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589
City
Manchester
Sorry to hear about your family rubber. As for the question, if something popped in my head that made me go oooooo then I’d certainly give it a go, obviously it would have to tickle my fancy but yes for sure. I remember well a gent here who loved rubber and he looked amazing dressed more feminine ?
Thanks you, suppose it did change my outlook and made me want to approach new stuff.
 

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25 January 2020
229
589
City
Manchester
I read it all ?.You have an amazing approach in life!!
I would get bored if I didn't try new things every so often.I sometimes read things,and think yes I want to try that!.Some things I wouldn't or couldn't do though.Rubber for one,because I would just look like a tyre.
Experimenting and trying new things with long term friends is what helps build my confidence, and through that, I have found things that I absolutely love,and some things that I would never try again x
I'm not a slim guy and I thought the same, but I went for made to measure and it works, but yeah it is a big commitment and cost, have commissioned a replica rubber Man City footie kit will get the design details through and being measured up for it next week that will cost a bit.
 
25 January 2020
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Yes, I do like to try different things, as long as it been discussed and consensual, then yes absolutely!
Well this is more me going, fuck it I want to try that for me. So I will. That was the angle I was going what you wanted obviously if that did involve someone else then of course you're right you would it would be discussed and consensual, definitely.