Would you ever .....

MP386 said:

Take a chance and meet someone that does not really meet your usual preferences.... such as older , younger , single ,couple....
are you set in your preference no deviation ...
is it more about the person and personality
I’ve had beer this may make no sense

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Yes. 100%. We’re very open to have a liaison with someone based on them and their approach, their preferences and their outlook etc.
The only line we would draw with age based as in early to mid 20s etc.
We’ve met several single ladies (our preference) and enjoyed, we’ve met the odd couple - was a couple who brought all of this into our lives anyway, and we’d consider the right gent. I won’t go into specifics of what we’re open to with gents, but we would based on several things.
So yes, very open for several avenues.

MP386 said:

Take a chance and meet someone that does not really meet your usual preferences.... such as older , younger , single ,couple....
are you set in your preference no deviation ...
is it more about the person and personality
I’ve had beer this may make no sense

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I’ve got some hard no-no’s but other than those, had preferences that were only ‘preferences’. There were exceptions to those. But never to the hard no-no’s.

My age limits, for example, may have expended over the years but I still do have some firm age limits.

Definitely, the problem with having to list preferences is that they don't allow for the exception that proves the rule. This is why we feel socials are a better way of meeting people. Who else here has ended up having a great time with people that on the face of it didn't match their preferences at all?

Yes, I think this is where a social meet first help my only real preference is an age one x

Since we have been in this lifestyle we have found we don’t really have particularly preferences ...if we’re chatting with people and there’s a connection there then I think we decide-to take it further or not from that...as long as there’s some kind of attraction there and it is mutual then that’s really all that matters for us..you could have certain preferences in place then start chatting and flirting and get on really well..would you then stop at arranging a meet because they don’t suit you’re preferences....W..

As long as there’s mutual attraction then in for the penny ??? xxxx :0)) T&C

Yup, its more about the person, rather than a set of artificial precepts, we have gone outside of what we generally look for on quite a few occasions.