Im Plonking This Here..

[meet_the_fockers]

This seems to be where most hang out.

Single Gents..... Respect and attitude..
We are infact .. lucky to have some lovely respectful single guys here... We pride ourselves in this fact...
I have had a couple of complaints today..
From infact single gents.. annoyed that some other members (single gents) may infact be spoiling it.. for them..


First thing to understand. You might want to be a swinger. Take the view that you are an honored guest and behave accordingly.

Be a gentleman and a respectful guy. Just because someome likes sex, doesn't mean they appreciate, suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important. Dont throw your toys out of your pram.. If you are turned down or arent in agreement over whats been said!!
Dont sulk.. you just look ridiculous.. and very unattractive..Read all rules and profiles this will help you on how to get ahead in the game.
There are some single males who just don't get it!
Dont be to forward when approaching couples and ladies..
RESPECT.. is everything
Treat others well, Manners and respect go along way. Read and learn from respected members of the site. Listen..

 

[Deleted member 2610]

Excellent. Every SG should read this, but more importantly learn and follow it.

For myself I've learnt a lot being here and more than pleased that I've been accepted into this site. I've still got a lot to learn and with the help of you good people plan to carry on my journey.

My advice for SG - treat everyone with respect, never be rude or offensive and keep the cock pictures private until asked.

Thank you x :0))

 

[MP386]

Excellent. Every SG should read this, but more importantly learn and follow it.

For myself I've learnt a lot being here and more than pleased that I've been accepted into this site. I've still got a lot to learn and with the help of you good people plan to carry on my journey.

My advice for SG - treat everyone with respect, never be rude or offensive and keep the cock pictures private until asked.

Thank you x :0))

I think you have hit the nail on the head ... Sound advice ..

Everyone I have come across has been kind and accepting just takes thinking with what's between your ears before you hit the send button ...

 

[Deleted member 3411]

It's a true that even if not necessarily what you want to hear that as a single guy you are not a swinger. You are however involved in the Swinging scene if you play with couples. Couldn't agree more with everything above and in the past 7 years I've been involved I tried my best to always be respectable, respectful and show good manners. In doing so I've had lots of fun. Finally now with Linda in my life I am now a swinger and although we haven't decided what we want out of this I do know that we don't want some rude pushy Guy using foul language and sending us dick pics.
Incidently would everybody you agree that single women are also not swingers?

 

[Therapon]

Excellent and I think everyone should read it, not just the SG's. A lot applies to anyone.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

This seems to be where most hang out.

Single Gents..... Respect and attitude..
We are infact .. lucky to have some lovely respectful single guys here... We pride ourselves in this fact...
I have had a couple of complaints today..
From infact single gents.. annoyed that some other members (single gents) may infact be spoiling it.. for them..


First thing to understand. You might want to be a swinger. Take the view that we are an honored guest and behave accordingly.

Be a gentleman and a respectful guy. Just because someome likes sex, doesn't mean they appreciate, suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important. Dont throw your toys out of your pram.. If you are turned down or arent in agreement over whats been said!!
Dont sulk.. you just look ridiculous.. and very unattractive..Read all rules and profiles this will help you on how to treat members.
There are some single males who just don't get it!
Dont be to forward when approaching couples and ladies..
RESPECT.. is everything
Treat others well, Manners and respect go along way. Read and learn from respected members of the site. Listen..

I have edited this... to perhaps closer reflect todays complaints.. xx

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

I agree there are a minority who still dont understand the fundamentals of this site. If they cant abide by the ethos of the site after all this time then maybe they need to rethink whether this is for them.
I think that the line between this being a swingers site......dating site......sex site get very blury for some. Come on guys its not difficult. Dont spoil this for those genuine respectable fellas because we do have them here. Learn and change or re assess your intentions. Xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I agree there are a minority who still dont understand the fundamentals of this site. If they cant abide by the ethos of the site after all this time then maybe they need to rethink whether this is for them.
I think that the line between this being a swingers site......dating site......sex site get very blury for some. Come on guys its not difficult. Dont spoil this for those genuine respectable fellas because we do have them here. Learn and change or re assess your intentions. Xx

indeed x

 

[Deleted member 2610]

I agree there are a minority who still dont understand the fundamentals of this site. If they cant abide by the ethos of the site after all this time then maybe they need to rethink whether this is for them.
I think that the line between this being a swingers site......dating site......sex site get very blury for some. Come on guys its not difficult. Dont spoil this for those genuine respectable fellas because we do have them here. Learn and change or re assess your intentions. Xx

X

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

It's a true that even if not necessarily what you want to hear that as a single guy you are not a swinger. You are however involved in the Swinging scene if you play with couples. Couldn't agree more with everything above and in the past 7 years I've been involved I tried my best to always be respectable, respectful and show good manners. In doing so I've had lots of fun. Finally now with Linda in my life I am now a swinger and although we haven't decided what we want out of this I do know that we don't want some rude pushy Guy using foul language and sending us dick pics.
Incidently would everybody you agree that single women are also not swingers?

I suppose if you're saying single guys aren't then the same would have to apply to single women.
Although singles do have a very valid & relevant place within the swinging scene I suppose the core of swinging is couples

 

[meet_the_fockers]

I suppose if you're saying single guys aren't then the same would have to apply to single women.
Although singles do have a very valid & relevant place within the swinging scene I suppose the core of swinging is couples

Yes all singles of course have a definate part to play..
My main argument re SOME single guys is attitude and respect...
I guess on the whole its pretty rare.. for a single female to start a conversation with.. hey heres a pic of my cu*t i'm horny wanna lick it. x

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

Yes al singles of course have a definate part to play..
My main argument re SOME single guys is attitude and respect...
I guess on the whole its pretty rare.. for a single female to start a conversation with.. hey heres a pic of my cu*t i'm horny wanna lick it. x

This is true, although (not on this site may I add) some single girls can be just as rude in their own way (as can some couples), but they don't complain about the price of going to clubs

 

[meet_the_fockers]

This is true, although (not on this site may I add) some single girls can be just as rude in their own way (as can some couples), but they don't complain about the price of going to clubs

Lol spanner.
Yes as i said, on the whole. Chance would be a fine thing

 

[Deleted member 1402]

I suppose if you're saying single guys aren't then the same would have to apply to single women.
Although singles do have a very valid & relevant place within the swinging scene I suppose the core of swinging is couples

Last time I'm talking to you in the early hours! Humppph!

 

[Deleted member 2610]

Yes all singles of course have a definate part to play..
My main argument re SOME single guys is attitude and respect...
I guess on the whole its pretty rare.. for a single female to start a conversation with.. hey heres a pic of my cu*t i'm horny wanna lick it. x

Chokes on coffee x

 

[Deleted member 2610]

This is true, although (not on this site may I add) some single girls can be just as rude in their own way (as can some couples), but they don't complain about the price of going to clubs

I think that rudeness is also ignoring a hello, a comment made etc. It takes seconds to say thanks for the hello but ....etc that can then end potentially further inappropriate comments made, which should in any case not be said.
Always treat people as how you'd like to be treated x

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Chokes on coffee x

 

[Therapon]

I think what they have to remember is that even if someone is polite in threads etc to them if they do not meet that persons requirements then not to bombard them, constant oh hi sexy and being sleazy isnt welcome

Just a reminder. As we say if anyone has any problems on the site then report it. Quite simply if you don't tell us we can't sort issues out.

 

[Pearls]

Just a reminder. As we say if anyone has any problems on the site then report it. Quite simply if you don't tell us we can't sort issues out.

 

[Siupforfun]

I think that rudeness is also ignoring a hello, a comment made etc. It takes seconds to say thanks for the hello but ....etc that can then end potentially further inappropriate comments made, which should in any case not be said.
Always treat people as how you'd like to be treated x

So very true Mr Tatts.

 

[Bump-n-Grind]

Last time I'm talking to you in the early hours! Humppph!

Aren't you part of a couple but play alone as well .
In all seriousness I was only answering a previous post that suggested that single guys aren't swingers & if so are single girls?
My point is that either both are or both aren't, personally we just enjoy socialising & playing with good people that we like, be it a couple or a single girl or guy. I'm not trying to create a swinging heirachy, but where would we be without car keys & a bowl .
You on chat later @VoluptuousVixen

 

[Deleted member 3289]

This seems to be where most hang out.

Single Gents..... Respect and attitude..
We are infact .. lucky to have some lovely respectful single guys here... We pride ourselves in this fact...
I have had a couple of complaints today..
From infact single gents.. annoyed that some other members (single gents) may infact be spoiling it.. for them..


First thing to understand. You might want to be a swinger. Take the view that you are an honored guest and behave accordingly.

Be a gentleman and a respectful guy. Just because someome likes sex, doesn't mean they appreciate, suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important. Dont throw your toys out of your pram.. If you are turned down or arent in agreement over whats been said!!
Dont sulk.. you just look ridiculous.. and very unattractive..Read all rules and profiles this will help you on how to get ahead in the game.
There are some single males who just don't get it!
Dont be to forward when approaching couples and ladies..
RESPECT.. is everything
Treat others well, Manners and respect go along way. Read and learn from respected members of the site. Listen..

And I'm not plonking this anywhere...unless you get on your knees and plead me to...

All wise words from Matron @meet_the_fockers -shame they have to be said

 

[Chellsterfem]

It's a true that even if not necessarily what you want to hear that as a single guy you are not a swinger. You are however involved in the Swinging scene if you play with couples. Couldn't agree more with everything above and in the past 7 years I've been involved I tried my best to always be respectable, respectful and show good manners. In doing so I've had lots of fun. Finally now with Linda in my life I am now a swinger and although we haven't decided what we want out of this I do know that we don't want some rude pushy Guy using foul language and sending us dick pics.
Incidently would everybody you agree that single women are also not swingers?

Very good post. Ahhhh the are swingers swingers debate. Love it lol. Well person ally I started swinging in my early 20's (what I hear you cry - so long ago! lol) and then had a big break. I have always met with couples and since my early years I think swinging has 'evolved' to include singles. Not all singles - those that 'get' and 'understand' the scene. Be it single men or women. How would alot of those lovely 3sums take place without them?
So yes i think singles are part of the scene, but not the 'fancy a fuk' brigade. Similarly, not all couples are swingers. Some don't get it and see it as a last ditch attempt to save a failing relationship. Wrong!!!
So swinging is a lifestyle. An attitude. A way of life. Learn about it - understand it and be part of it. You will never look back

 

[Chellsterfem]

This seems to be where most hang out.

Single Gents..... Respect and attitude..
We are infact .. lucky to have some lovely respectful single guys here... We pride ourselves in this fact...
I have had a couple of complaints today..
From infact single gents.. annoyed that some other members (single gents) may infact be spoiling it.. for them..


First thing to understand. You might want to be a swinger. Take the view that you are an honored guest and behave accordingly.

Be a gentleman and a respectful guy. Just because someome likes sex, doesn't mean they appreciate, suggestive remarks. Good manners and social skills are more important. Dont throw your toys out of your pram.. If you are turned down or arent in agreement over whats been said!!
Dont sulk.. you just look ridiculous.. and very unattractive..Read all rules and profiles this will help you on how to get ahead in the game.
There are some single males who just don't get it!
Dont be to forward when approaching couples and ladies..
RESPECT.. is everything
Treat others well, Manners and respect go along way. Read and learn from respected members of the site. Listen..

Ok guys I'll help you out. People on the scene talk - alot. We talk about mundane stuff like going to Asda, exciting stuff like our next holiday and useful stuff about what people to avoid or who is worth meeting. Now respectful, polite, hot single men, who understand swinging, will ALWAYS be in demand and successful. Why?? Well if I receive a polite message from a great guy and meet up, he may not be for me but boy do I have lots of friends who I talk to .....and he just might get on with that gorgeous single fem who I know that's going to a party, or the hot couple who's looking for a great guy for a gang bang. So we talk.....and we pass stuff on .....and that goes for the negative stuff too. So that quick shitty message that you may have sent will do alot of damage .....quickly.
Be polite, be respectful. Think about your messages. Build up your network of seinging buddies. Just because we are on a swinging site does not mean we are easy and gagging for it. That effort that you put in will come back tenfold.
And believe me - the first guy who I meet for a quick coffee all those years ago, who wasn't for me but was respectful and genuine, boy is he having the time of his life now! And rightly so.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Ok guys I'll help you out. People on the scene talk - alot. We talk about mundane stuff like going to Asda, exciting stuff like our next holiday and useful stuff about what people to avoid or who is worth meeting. Now respectful, polite, hot single men, who understand swinging, will ALWAYS be in demand and successful. Why?? Well if I receive a polite message from a great guy and meet up, he may not be for me but boy do I have lots of friends who I talk to .....and he just might get on with that gorgeous single fem who I know that's going to a party, or the hot couple who's looking for a great guy for a gang bang. So we talk.....and we pass stuff on .....and that goes for the negative stuff too. So that quick shitty message that you may have sent will do alot of damage .....quickly.
Be polite, be respectful. Think about your messages. Build up your network of seinging buddies. Just because we are on a swinging site does not mean we are easy and gagging for it. That effort that you put in will come back tenfold.
And believe me - the first guy who I meet for a quick coffee all those years ago, who wasn't for me but was respectful and genuine, boy is he having the time of his life now! And rightly so.

Nice one chel, thankyou as always the nail on the head is hit. wise words. X