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[Pearls]

Swinger couples
These couples claim to be swingers and are on the relevant sites but they also open accounts on Adultworld and advertise meets as a couple and charge a few hundred pounds for the pleasure.

Is this swinging? NO...
I think this is appalling and giving genuine swinging couples a bad name, all they are doing is spoiling it for us. What are your thoughts on this?

If escorting then advertise as an escort and not a swinger...

 

[Admin]

Yes it's annoying and isn't that soliciting?
Two words that irk me about this online;
Amazon Wishlist.

 

[K1nkyJJ]

Definitely not swinging!

 

[Pearls]

Definitely not swinging!

 

[Deleted member 1402]

I joined A last year wanting to Cam but never got into it. There were loads of couples I saw on there that were on other swingers sites.
If it's kept separate then it's fine. But if you're charging on swingers sites too, they ought to be banned.

 

[Scrunchy&Muffet]

I think its disgusting and like prostitution. Swingers arent in this to make money. Its for enjoyment. Its a lifestyle a life choice. They should be banned if discovered. Just my thoughts xx

 

[Lovernotfighter]

It shows the lengths people will go to for quick money. Sadly it puts them and everyone else in a bad light because they are advertising they service's in the wrong places.

But may they not as bad as the men with cameras doing the whole "I'm a photographer, look at all my pictures honestly I didn't steal from the internet" as a way of getting in to womens knickers.

 

[Pearls]

Thing is I know a lot of escorts that are friends, they work bloody hard and I have full respect but swinging is not escorting and people are using it to gain money, it is so wrong on so many levels, you are either a swinger or an escort xx

 

[Wheels5885]

Swinger couples
These couples claim to be swingers and are on the relevant sites but they also open accounts on Adultworld and advertise meets as a couple and charge a few hundred pounds for the pleasure.

Is this swinging? NO...
I think this is appalling and giving genuine swinging couples a bad name, all they are doing is spoiling it for us. What are your thoughts on this?

If escorting then advertise as an escort and not a swinger...

In my view people can do as they wish if they want to swing then swing. if they want to make money from it all power to them its their choice.

People can live a swinger lifestyle and make money doing as they wish. Remembering its personal choice.

The difficulty being is as long as they do not advertise for business on swinging sites and instead use the relevant and appropriate sites to do so.

One couple should not give all couples a bad name such as one single male should not give all single males a bad name.

 

[Pearls]

In my view people can do as they wish if they want to swing then swing. if they want to make money from it all power to them its their choice.

People can live a swinger lifestyle and make money doing as they wish. Remembering its personal choice.

The difficulty being is as long as they do not advertise for business on swinging sites and instead use the relevant and appropriate sites to do so.

One couple should not give all couples a bad name such as one single male should not give all single males a bad name.

Sorry disagree this is swinging, you do not charge people.... End of. This is a life style and if you want to charge then advertise as an escort but don't use swinging and give a bad name to it, sorry but it is wrong on many levels and even putting genuine hard working escorts out of business x

 

[Therapon]

I have nothing against anyone wanting to be an escort or making money from the sex industry, after all it pays the bills and who am I to judge how others live their lives, however if they do charge then I'd class them as escorts, certainly not swingers.

 

[Pearls]

I have nothing against anyone wanting to be an escort or making money from the sex industry, after all it pays the bills and who am I to judge how others live their lives, however if they do charge then I'd class them as escorts, certainly not swingers.

Exactly my point hun, no need to use swinging and give it a bad name, people are going to think we all charge xx

 

[Pearls]

Some of us wouldn't make much money!!!...but it does strike me as odd that anyone who would want to pay for the experience would be looking on this sort of site? Surely there are many more appropriate places!

Yes there are and that is what Adult work was designed for really xx

 

[Deleted member 3411]

I wonder if any couples have contacted another couple and arrange something only to find out at the meet or at the last moment the both of them are escorts and they're expecting the other couple to pay?
I'm in total agreement, swingers do not charge, we are swingers they are escorts. One of my reasons for being in this lifestyle is because I only enjoy sexual sensual fun with someone who wants it from me, an escort or Pro only wants my money and that for me spoils the whole point. And anyways how would it look if I felt I was having to pay someone to play with Linda what woild that saying about a Linda's appeal?!!

 

[Pearls]

I wonder if any couples have contacted another couple and arrange something only to find out at the meet or at the last moment the both of them are escorts and they're expecting the other couple to pay?
I'm in total agreement, swingers do not charge, we are swingers they are escorts. One of my reasons for being in this lifestyle is because I only enjoy sexual sensual fun with someone who wants it from me, an escort or Pro only wants my money and that for me spoils the whole point. And anyways how would it look if I felt I was having to pay someone to play with Linda what woild that saying about a Linda's appeal?!!

I know of a couple who met a guy in a hotel and once there they said pay us £100 and you can play with my wife.... What was the lad to do.. He paid and left a very bad verification, using single guys again x

 

[Lovernotfighter]

I know of a couple who met a guy in a hotel and once there they said pay us £100 and you can play with my wife.... What was the lad to do.. He paid and left a very bad verification, using single guys again x

Yup us single guys do tend to get the short straw in such things

 

[Deleted member 1402]

Yes recently saw this "wish list" thing when I googled a swinger after reading some comments that made me question if they were for real, I was amazed at what was on the list and my personal conclusion is that they are an escort, I believe as swingers you would not charge, maybe if you were sharing a hotel then you may share the cost but that's about it.

That's all I ever do, share hotel costs. I won't even accept money for fuel when I give people a lift!

 

[ravencade]

Charge bloody hell loads of us would have gone bust by now...lol

 

[Adam]

Yes it's annoying and isn't that soliciting?
Two words that irk me about this online;
Amazon Wishlist.

This Amazon wishlist thing does my head in! The number of girls who post things even on Facebook with their pics saying here is my wishlist...but then whats wrong with these men? Why are these men perpetuating the problem? These girls are posting the odd picture and a wish list and these guys are buying things for these girls...I mean what do the guys think will happen? If they buy something for the girl off their list the girl will have sex with them, or do something for them in real world??? No chance, and yet these guys keep buying this stuff!!!???

Craziness!!!

 

[Admin]

This Amazon wishlist thing does my head in! The number of girls who post things even on Facebook with their pics saying here is my wishlist...but then whats wrong with these men? Why are these men perpetuating the problem? These girls are posting the odd picture and a wish list and these guys are buying things for these girls...I mean what do the guys think will happen? If they buy something for the girl off their list the girl will have sex with them, or do something for them in real world??? No chance, and yet these guys keep buying this stuff!!!???

Craziness!!!

Craziness!!!

Agreed it is... It's just shocking behaviour and the men fall for it and buy all these things!

 

[meet_the_fockers]

This Amazon wishlist thing does my head in! The number of girls who post things even on Facebook with their pics saying here is my wishlist...but then whats wrong with these men? Why are these men perpetuating the problem? These girls are posting the odd picture and a wish list and these guys are buying things for these girls...I mean what do the guys think will happen? If they buy something for the girl off their list the girl will have sex with them, or do something for them in real world??? No chance, and yet these guys keep buying this stuff!!!???

Craziness!!!

I shall pen my list..

 

[Adam]

I shall pen my list..

LOL! Oh dear x

 

[The-A-Team]

Yes, we too have seen this trend growing, and it badly detracts from the true principles of swinging, as most of us on here know it. Plus in the long term gives the lifestyle a very bad name. Swinging is about sharing oneself and their partner, if appropriate with others in the same frame of mind, and by full mutual agreement, and not for any other gain than pure pleasure. The only time for us, that a cost has entered into any equation, is going half's on a hotel or food on initial meets. And tbh, that should be the worst senario of any costs Involved. Its a shame, and very disappointing to see this growing trend.

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Yes, we too have seen this trend growing, and it badly detracts from the true principles of swinging, as most of us on here know it. Plus in the long term gives the lifestyle a very bad name. Swinging is about sharing oneself and their partner, if appropriate with others in the same frame of mind, and by full mutual agreement, and not for any other gain than pure pleasure. The only time for us, that a cost has entered into any equation, is going half's on a hotel or food on initial meets. And tbh, that should be the worst senario of any costs Involved. Its a shame, and very disappointing to see this growing trend.

I completely agree with you..
Ok i'll pick you up off the floor now
In all fairness, note im sayin SOME men can be very fickle.. I actually think its sad..
I'm not really sure who is the worst.. the women who are reaping the benefits..
Or the men who are being so stupid..

 

[Adam]

I completely agree with you..
Ok i'll pick you up off the floor now
In all fairness, note im sayin SOME men can be very fickle.. I actually think its sad..
I'm not really sure who is the worst.. the women who are reaping the benefits..
Or the men who are being so stupid..

EXACTLY! Both as bas as each other! I know a girl who has benefited off the stupidity of men in this way for over a year - She sells her really old tatty underwear to them, while getting 'gifts' which can cost hundreds of pounds from men she doesn't even know (including sexy lingerie) which she then wears out and enjoys with her boyfriend! They both laugh about things privately, but then...the men keep buying and she keeps selling.