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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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As we all know sending that first message is the first step to getting to know people but... When we read profiles and information a lot of people state "do not message with just hi" :confused:

Yes we like to see something in our box that interests us and attracts us to give a reply but how do you send that first message of interest without just saying, hi, how are you?

So a little bit of fun and education for us all:whistle:

If you have one person that you have spotted and want to send that first message to, who would it be and what would that message read ;)

So I shall kick start this off and I shall pick, I shall of course leave the fun to you and this is just an example :sneaky:

Good morning @Lips_Pearls
I see that lips and pearls make a great combination - we all know what kinds of pearls make the most fun, but what about the lips? Do the lips ever get to nibble pearls? :sneaky::pxxxxx
 
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Lovernotfighter

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Lovernotfighter

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Ahh first messages are something I struggle with most just saying hi how are you is more than a bit crap but seeming like you have read they profile over and over again then crafted the prefect hello message is a creepy or creeps me out on the few times it has happened to me.

They are a few people I want to say hi but aren't sure how and then they are those I haven't spoken to (privately atleast) for a while and should but come over all nervous when I think about it.

So for saying hi to some new
Good morning @Kittyk84 you have wonderful "spikey" eyes amazing lips that I'm sure can do wonderful things (yes I am trying to flirt and yes I'm doing it badly I know).

And for getting back in touch (sort of)
Happy (slightly belated) birthday @TheBrunetteandtheSexToy
Sending you big virtual birthday hugs and kisses, shame I can't give to a special present ;)
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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Lovernotfighter said:
Ahh first messages are something I struggle with most just saying hi how are you is more than a bit crap but seeming like you have read they profile over and over again then crafted the prefect hello message is a creepy or creeps me out on the few times it has happened to me.

They are a few people I want to say hi but aren't sure how and then they are those I haven't spoken to (privately atleast) for a while and should but come over all nervous when I think about it.

So for saying hi to some new
Good morning @Kittyk84 you have wonderful "spikey" eyes amazing lips that I'm sure can do wonderful things (yes I am trying to flirt and yes I'm doing it badly I know).

And for getting back in touch (sort of)
Happy (slightly belated) birthday @TheBrunetteandtheSexToy
Sending you big virtual birthday hugs and kisses, shame I can't give to a special present ;)
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I like you're style Mr Fighter ;)
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

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Lovernotfighter said:
Ahh first messages are something I struggle with most just saying hi how are you is more than a bit crap but seeming like you have read they profile over and over again then crafted the prefect hello message is a creepy or creeps me out on the few times it has happened to me.

They are a few people I want to say hi but aren't sure how and then they are those I haven't spoken to (privately atleast) for a while and should but come over all nervous when I think about it.

So for saying hi to some new
Good morning @Kittyk84 you have wonderful "spikey" eyes amazing lips that I'm sure can do wonderful things (yes I am trying to flirt and yes I'm doing it badly I know).

And for getting back in touch (sort of)
Happy (slightly belated) birthday @TheBrunetteandtheSexToy
Sending you big virtual birthday hugs and kisses, shame I can't give to a special present ;)
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Ah an honest and good approach surely? :)
Scrunchy&Muffet said:
Ok here goes

@Marcus Hi, ive been perving i mean looking at your photos recently and couldnt help.but notice the watermelon. It reminded me of my favourite film...."i carried a watermelon" lol . I must say your black and white pic would make a rather stunning avatar. Xx
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Oooh veryy smooth.. Hustler ;) x
Miss-Sexy-Legs said:
Yikes I normally get hi great avi cos thats all they can see lol
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hehe this is true! :D x

Hmm, well I think it would be...
Hello Miss @Kittyk84
Well being Kitty, I could go for something that I know could get an instant (possible) block..
And say - Hello Kitty, being a kitty kat, would love to hear your pussy purr..
But that could get a block :D

So it would be something along the lines of..
Hello Kitty,
After viewing your profile and purr-using your images for some time now, and we have to say how very attractive you are! Some photos definitely getting us hot under the collar!
It's taken us a little time to contact you, we would love to chat to you more and would for you to get back to us.
We're both intelligent, well spoken, polite.. but can both be a little slutty in the bedroom as and when needed.
You have a secretarial look which can be hugely beneficial when in or out of the bedroom and we all need our own PA don't we..
fancy being ours? ;) x
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

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Lips_Pearls said:
Ah an honest and good approach surely? :)

Oooh veryy smooth.. Hustler ;) x

hehe this is true! :D x

Hmm, well I think it would be...
Hello Miss @Kittyk84
Well being Kitty, I could go for something that I know could get an instant (possible) block..
And say - Hello Kitty, being a kitty kat, would love to hear your pussy purr..
But that could get a block :D

So it would be something along the lines of..
Hello Kitty,
After viewing your profile and purr-using your images for some time now, and we have to say how very attractive you are! Some photos definitely getting us hot under the collar!
It's taken us a little time to contact you, we would love to chat to you more and would for you to get back to us.
We're both intelligent, well spoken, polite.. but can both be a little slutty in the bedroom as and when needed.
You have a secretarial look which can be hugely beneficial when in our out of the bedroom and we all need our own PA don't we..
fancy being ours? ;) x
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Smooth Mr A :whistle::sneaky:
 
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Miss-Sexy-Legs

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Lips_Pearls said:
Ah an honest and good approach surely? :)

Oooh veryy smooth.. Hustler ;) x

hehe this is true! :D x

Hmm, well I think it would be...
Hello Miss @Kittyk84
Well being Kitty, I could go for something that I know could get an instant (possible) block..
And say - Hello Kitty, being a kitty kat, would love to hear your pussy purr..
But that could get a block :D

So it would be something along the lines of..
Hello Kitty,
After viewing your profile and purr-using your images for some time now, and we have to say how very attractive you are! Some photos definitely getting us hot under the collar!
It's taken us a little time to contact you, we would love to chat to you more and would for you to get back to us.
We're both intelligent, well spoken, polite.. but can both be a little slutty in the bedroom as and when needed.
You have a secretarial look which can be hugely beneficial when in or out of the bedroom and we all need our own PA don't we..
fancy being ours? ;) x
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Omg dont reveal your fantasy too much ya tart:rofl::rofl:
 
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