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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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This is for the ladies and gents, after reading an article I thought I would ask you troops..

Do you worry about performing oral?
Do you wonder if you are doing it right or panic if you think you are not satisfying your partner?
Would you communicate if "you felt this is doing nothing for me?"

Personally I love to be touched gently and slowly:sneaky: and not a rampant tongue at a race!!:eek:
Of course everyone is different but it would be good to hear if you do have worries about performing oral.

Also is it something you would never consider doing?
 
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Lovernotfighter

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I worry and get a bit nervous that I am doing a bad jab as I think I have said before I'm tongue tied so infant really stick my tongue out. For communication I am okay with someone advising me as they know they body and what gets them going better than eye.
 
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Miss-Sexy-Legs

Miss-Sexy-Legs

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I love oral both giving and receiving , I do get a little nervous about am I doing it right ,is the other person enjoying what im doing to them .
I love to be told how theyre feeling and what they do and dont like about oral ,it heightens the experiance for all parties if you know your pleasing eachother
 
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Lovernotfighter

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Lovernotfighter said:
I worry and get a bit nervous that I am doing a bad jab as I think I have said before I'm tongue tied so infant really stick my tongue out. For communication I am okay with someone advising me as they know they body and what gets them going better than eye.
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I meant today do love giving it, the idea that for a time all your senses are filled with the lovers intimate area and your focused totally on their sexual pleasure is intoxicating.
 
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Tigress

I love giving oral, but get a little self conscious receiving. I'm never worried whether I'm doing it right. The results speak for themselves ;) x
 
Phoenixcouplexx

Phoenixcouplexx

28 December 2016
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We both love it!
I particularly enjoy giving, D enjoys both as much as the other.
I try to feed off the responses of the person receiving my attentions and let them guide me. The only time I struggle is when the person I am with doesn't give me any feedback either physical reactions or verbal queues. Luckily this has only really been an issue once ;)
I don't get nervous I just really want the other person to love it as much as we do and hope I can give her the pleasure I've given D in the past. As I know if I can achieve that then all will be right with the world lol
 
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Midland....

Love to give oral. There's something about the touches and movements you can do with your tongue and the reactions you can achieve from it. Something so sensual about it and intimate.
Obviously love receiving but the little extra bits turn me on so much. I have a friend who will stop and come up to kiss me with my precum on her mouth which I find a big turn on (I know that won't be everyone's cup of tea) but those little sexy additions turn a good blowjob for me in to a great one
 
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Akardyagain

I've generally found women to vary quite a lot in how much they like oral. I've been with one women who just plain didn't like it, said it did nothing for her. Then some seem to get off more on fingers than a tongue.

So if I don't seem to be getting much reaction I'd probably just ask! In as sexy a way as possible of course ; )
 
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Phoenixcouplexx

28 December 2016
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Akardyagain said:
I've generally found women to vary quite a lot in how much they like oral. I've been with one women who just plain didn't like it, said it did nothing for her. Then some seem to get off more on fingers than a tongue.

So if I don't seem to be getting much reaction I'd probably just ask! In as sexy a way as possible of course ; )
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Fingers on G-spot, tongue on clit... that's the route to heaven ;) lol
 
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Bisexually speaking....

Receiving - until I met Lisa, I could take or leave it tbh. Don't get me wrong, I've never turned down a blowy, of course... but it was just a starter, never a main course. Especially if it was just the cock - I mean, come on, there's a fine set of swingers down there too!
Lis gives incredible oral. Maybe that's the secret of marriage?

I love receiving now.

Giving - oh, by Hendrix, I love giving oral.

I love to touch with my tongue, nibble with my lips, touch, tease and tantalise. Kissing the inner thigh, brushing against the lips, running my tongue along....... savouring the scent, breathing in the intensity, feeling the feeling, surfing the wave, tasting, holding on, taking it too far...... being.. rude.. greedy.... insistent...

And... a cock? Oh, yes please! Feeling the heat, the thrust, the power, the vulnerability, the shape, oh yes, the shape.... the..... naughtiness and, again, the taste.

The trust.


Mmmm, yes.

Oral? Yeah, you could say I'm a fan ;)
 
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Pearls

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Pearls

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meandlis said:
Bisexually speaking....

Receiving - until I met Lisa, I could take or leave it tbh. Don't get me wrong, I've never turned down a blowy, of course... but it was just a starter, never a main course. Especially if it was just the cock - I mean, come on, there's a fine set of swingers down there too!
Lis gives incredible oral. Maybe that's the secret of marriage?

I love receiving now.

Giving - oh, by Hendrix, I love giving oral.

I love to touch with my tongue, nibble with my lips, touch, tease and tantalise. Kissing the inner thigh, brushing against the lips, running my tongue along....... savouring the scent, breathing in the intensity, feeling the feeling, surfing the wave, tasting, holding on, taking it too far...... being.. rude.. greedy.... insistent...

And... a cock? Oh, yes please! Feeling the heat, the thrust, the power, the vulnerability, the shape, oh yes, the shape.... the..... naughtiness and, again, the taste.

The trust.


Mmmm, yes.

Oral? Yeah, you could say I'm a fan ;)
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Brumcouple2013

Brumcouple2013

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We both love ❤️ oral sex. I first gave oral way before I had full sex in my teens. Sometimes I prefer just to have oral sex and to stop before full sex takes place. Mrs Brum is the same, and died know hie to keep a smile on a mans face.
It is tough when when you are with someone for the first time as what dies it one person doesn't do it for another. So yes I love a woman to signal what she likes or doesn't like.
 
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Cheekychap70

16 October 2015
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I love both giving and receiving but not a fan of at the same time. There's nothing better than sensing a woman wrything in ecstasy from your actions. Most of the women I know love it.

When receiving I prefer for the woman to go the no hands route. There's something that lets it down with hands on a shaft. It may work for others but not me.
 
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Max-the-3rd

love, love, love to give oral!
I find the best way is to starts slow and easy and build up the speed, pressures, maybe involve some fingers?
she will let you know if you are doing it right with hip moment and moans.x
seams to have worked for me thus far.x
 
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AutumnH

AutumnH

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Love oral, both giving and recieving.

I do sometimes doubt myself whether I'm doing it right, which can be distracting but I always communicate to the reciever if they like it or not. Communication is the key and saves alot of trouble in the future.
As a reciever, I would be honest and give gentle instruction or point them in the right direction.

But like @Max-the-3rd said; start slowly, building up speed, add a couple of fingers or a toy and away we go!
 
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Max-the-3rd

AutumnH said:
Love oral, both giving and recieving.

I do sometimes doubt myself whether I'm doing it right, which can be distracting but I always communicate to the reciever if they like it or not. Communication is the key and saves alot of trouble in the future.
As a reciever, I would be honest and give gentle instruction or point them in the right direction.

But like @Max-the-3rd said; start slowly, building up speed, add a couple of fingers or a toy and away we go!
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any time you want to practice our skills on one another I am up for it.x
 
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MickeyBlueBalls

A glass of Scotland's finest is as close as it gets for me..... :( Having said that I am somewhat of a cunning linguist and find performing on a lady better than the main event....especially if said lady is in restraints and open to as much teasing as I'll allow. However being every day really is a school day I'm certainly open to some practical tuition....any takers?? No, OK then back to the whisky it is!! P.s I also enjoy receiving but please for the love of god..no teeth and it ain't a ketchup bottle either!!! :)
 
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