For The Love Of S S

[louise1970]

Right here goes if you don't get a mention there are too many members that make the site what it is and be here for a week...So here goes before joining the site a was on another site that basically was not a site for me so I left.Ss site had a lot of plus for me as yes it a swinging site but the social was a plus too.I would like to the thank the team that have made the site what it is sorry if i leave anyone out not meant @Admin @Pearls @meet_the_fockers @meandlis @SexyTatts @Miss-Sexy-Legs @Therapon n more without you the site wouldn't be the success it is and learned first hand they watch over you check you ok and your not just another member your community part of the big family..
..I have attended quite a few socials and met a lot of lovely couples single males n females too.I also had personal meets some that have exceeded my expectations n some that haven't but made some life long friends along the way.....finally there are quite a mix of lovely couples single males n single ladies like myself.You won't get on with everyone but I can clearly say I have got chatting too had a laugh chat banter n plenty of giggles too thankyou you all for been you real say it how it is but been genuine and caring at same time may Ss continue to strive and be the site out there too

 

[louise1970]

That's was the most I have written in month but every word is genuine sincere n meant from the heart x

 

[Deleted member 1030]

That's was the most I have written in month but every word is genuine sincere n meant from the heart x

It was definitely worth waiting for. Thank you @louise1970 :mwah:

 

[Emmal]

I love being invited to have my say @Miss-Sexy-Legs
I really like the friendliness of this site , there's no pressure or expectations on anyone. I like that you can have a serious conversation on some posts and then others complete laughter.
I like that I can say what I want and not be judged for it, I'm not as confident as some on here with getting my personality out but I like the fact that there is respect between everyone.
I've made a couple of friends on here and hope to make some more.

Ps I like the pictures...

 

[Deleted member 7954]

Ok what do i love about SS........well firstly the members. There are some truly beautiful and genuine people here who i am honoured to call a friend.
I love the laughs and the banter and the sense of community that you get here.
I love the way the site works. Its easy to use and navigate. I know how hard @Admin and @Pearls have had to work and the sacrifices they have made so we can have this garden if eden"

 

[Deleted member 7954]

Well they should be proud of what theyve accomplished. The way the site is run and managed and the safety measures in place to protect members is second to none and it takes the worry out of being here.
Lastly the staff who volunteer their time and sanity to help keep the site running smoothly. Ive been a staff member and know just how hard it can be at times but also how rewarding it can be.
So yep...thats my war n peace bit lol. Muffet over n out lol xxxxxx

 

[Steed99]

In this wonderful swinging lifestyle we all enjoy, there are 2 distinctive parts that don't automatically relate to each other. Just because we enjoy socialising with others doesn't often mean we are looking to take things further. The social aspect can sometimes be the early part of a club visit with people we may never see again but Social Swinging has brought a wide selection of likeminded people together where we can interact in a fun and friendly way and make friendships that would never happen otherwise.

Everyone here respects everyone else, is able to provide a listening ear and advice when needed, is able to smile with friendly banter, is able to comment on what is happening in other's lives, and with many, continue those friendships year in, year out.

Obviously none of this would be possible without the initial idea and continued hard work from @Admin and @Pearls together with the vast amount of time the rest of the staff team (past and present) spend to keep things going. Well done everyone and long may Social Swinging continue.

 

[Brumcouple2013]

We love the site for many reasons, which I will try and list.
This site is run by real people, who you can meet and talk too, not people who hide behind a name and watch the bank balance grow. The site is controlled fairly with thought towards all members. Everyone here is friendly, helpful and having such a varied mix of people help get an informed opinion on many different subjects.
Most of all everyone here is like us, sexy, sex made, dirty minded, have a great sense of humour and know how to be respectful while doing the above

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Right here goes if you don't get a mention there are too many members that make the site what it is and be here for a week...So here goes before joining the site a was on another site that basically was not a site for me so I left.Ss site had a lot of plus for me as yes it a swinging site but the social was a plus too.I would like to the thank the team that have made the site what it is sorry if i leave anyone out not meant @Admin @Pearls @meet_the_fockers @meandlis @SexyTatts @Miss-Sexy-Legs @Therapon n more without you the site wouldn't be the success it is and learned first hand they watch over you check you ok and your not just another member your community part of the big family..
..I have attended quite a few socials and met a lot of lovely couples single males n females too.I also had personal meets some that have exceeded my expectations n some that haven't but made some life long friends along the way.....finally there are quite a mix of lovely couples single males n single ladies like myself.You won't get on with everyone but I can clearly say I have got chatting too had a laugh chat banter n plenty of giggles too thankyou you all for been you real say it how it is but been genuine and caring at same time may Ss continue to strive and be the site out there too

 

[emyr]

what i love about the site is that everybody is very friendly and if u have got any questions members will help and i have to admit the moderators r always on the ball and looking out for their members and will always reply this is the best site going and i am 100 per cent behind them with the pv

 

[TherLegs]

The banter and laughs in the forums and being able to chat to people. I have meet many at the socials and some have become good friends along the way. I love the mix of threads, sexy, serious and some really weird ones but it's all good fun. Being able to say what you feel or believe, within reason, without getting a torrent of abuse. It's like an extended family, lots of oddball relatives and some seriously sexy ones. Just a relaxed site where you can spend time and have fun. T.

 

[Looby&Lew]

I love the banter and the threads. I also like the fact that people genuinely care about others and are on hand if you have a problem swinging wise or otherwise and will offer their perspective. For us as relative newbies to the scene it has been an education that has smoothed the pathway to making some great friendships and having fun in a relaxed and non judgemental way. The site is well managed and its members protection is paramount to the owners and staff and this is what makes it so successful.
I should also add that there are some amazing and sexy people in here too......xx

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Lovely to read these thoughts and coments. So varied. Xx

 

[The-Gent]

some body want me !?

 

[meet_the_fockers]

some body want me !?

Wake UP! BOO!!

 

[No longer with us]

Here goes...
Firstly I sometimes forget it's a swinging site, for me it is mainly about the fun, banter, flirting and a lot of people watching
We have made some amazing friends who are for life not just for swinging
It's like one huge family, all looking out for each other, knowing when someone is having a bad day we help cheer them up and vice versa
There are some huge personalities and not everyone is going to click but on the whole I think @Admin and @Pearls have created a wonderful world in which we can all escape
The media is not too bad either

 

[Deleted member 6127]

Why...because it's an absolutely fantastic site
It's been put in place by a wonderful couple @Admin and @Pearls, who have tirelessly devoted their time and money to create an environment that we can enjoy, relax and feel safe. We do not really appreciate how much work they put into it and how stressful it can be making sure we are safe. They put up with a lot that people just do not see and never complain just do it for all of us.
Sometimes we as members need to think about our posts and comments made. At the other end are people with feelings....respect at all times. Remember that a wrong word or comment can cause so many problems and this is a place to enjoy not whine and complain as we are all here to enjoy...
Also the staff here do a lot that goes unseen to stop some of the crap getting through and upsetting people and do this as volunteers for us.
Since I've been on SS a great deal has changed in my life and without it I'd not have met so many great people. Yes it's a swinging site and that's why we came in the beginning but I soon found out that you can make so many friends, have great banter with them, enjoy their company, have fantastic sexy and naughty times with them and importantly be friends.

For me I've had a complete life changing experience thanks to being on SS and would not have met a truly amazing, gorgeous, beautiful lady without it xxx

In essence is a great place to enjoy and we have a responsibility to keep it that way....
May it continue and make more friends along the why :0)) xxxx T

Ops...do love the gallery ...

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Why...because it's an absolutely fantastic site
It's been put in place by a wonderful couple @Admin and @Pearls, who have tirelessly devoted their time and money to create an environment that we can enjoy, relax and feel safe. We do not really appreciate how much work they put into it and how stressful it can be making sure we are safe. They put up with a lot that people just do not see and never complain just do it for all of us.
Sometimes we as members need to think about our posts and comments made. At the other end are people with feelings....respect at all times. Remember that a wrong word or comment can cause so many problems and this is a place to enjoy not whine and complain as we are all here to enjoy...
Also the staff here do a lot that goes unseen to stop some of the crap getting through and upsetting people and do this as volunteers for us.
Since I've been on SS a great deal has changed in my life and without it I'd not have met so many great people. Yes it's a swinging site and that's why we came in the beginning but I soon found out that you can make so many friends, have great banter with them, enjoy their company, have fantastic sexy and naughty times with them and importantly be friends.

For me I've had a complete life changing experience thanks to being on SS and would not have met a truly amazing, gorgeous, beautiful lady without it xxx

In essence is a great place to enjoy and we have a responsibility to keep it that way....
May it continue and make more friends along the why :0)) xxxx T

Ops...do love the gallery ...

Mwahhh x

 

[Admin]

Lovely to see so many heartfelt and encouraging posts.... I must say.
We work so hard and so tirelessly and never ask for anything in return.
All we ever do ask of people is to just be considerate and mindful of others, treat others as you'd expect to be treated.
Aside from that, enjoy what the site has to offer...

But it's really lovely and warming to see so much positivity and appreciation for all of our hard efforts.
The staff here are completely voluntary and give us so much of their spare time, without which the site would struggle to run as it does.

We're proactive and listen to suggestions - PV being a great example of this.. We're reachable and always at hand for help if ever needed as most of you will know.
We never say no to anyone, whether it's site related or deeply personal issues.
When we put up with some of the things we do, posts like yours in this thread (to all who've replied) make us realise that it's all worth it.
Such as illustrated here;

It's been put in place by a wonderful couple @Admin and @Pearls, who have tirelessly devoted their time and money to create an environment that we can enjoy, relax and feel safe. We do not really appreciate how much work they put into it and how stressful it can be making sure we are safe. They put up with a lot that people just do not see and never complain just do it for all of us.
Sometimes we as members need to think about our posts and comments made. At the other end are people with feelings....respect at all times. Remember that a wrong word or comment can cause so many problems and this is a place to enjoy not whine and complain as we are all here to enjoy...
Also the staff here do a lot that goes unseen to stop some of the crap getting through and upsetting people and do this as volunteers for us.

Thank you everyone for the show of love for all we all do here. x

 

[Deleted member 1030]

Another thing I love about being on here; I was having a really good political discussion with someone the other night in a 1-to-1 chat; I am currently listening to Rammstein, due to conversation spotted on a profile post; I have looked into 1940s fashions and design, inspired by a member's pics; I have discovered artists, through forum discussions....... the connections and the consequent digressions you find by coming on this site are just amazing!

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Rammstein..... I wonder where you got that from?

 

[Deleted member 1030]

Rammstein..... I wonder where you got that from?

It is indeed your fault that Lis has just looked, quizzically, at my laptop and then at me, like I've gone mad

 

[Deleted member 3657]

It is indeed your fault that Lis has just looked, quizzically, at my laptop and then at me, like I've gone mad

They have some amazing songs. Very intense music.

 

[Baldrick]

What to write...... we don't know so this maybe a bit of a ramble.

Gotta start with the staff. Very intelligent, funny, witty, helpful perverts lol. Always ready to join in for a giggle and always there to lend a hand if needed. If we've ever been stuck or in need of help/advise they've been very quick to respond to messages. It shows a level of love for the site that they've built and maintain.
They even have a quiz master who thinks up 30 questions a week with a link and a red heroin connecting the answers. And he does it for his evil perverse pleasure instead of coin!

The members we've interacted with are all diamonds from all walks of life yet gel fairly easily with each other. Everybody respects each other and their boundaries.
Nobody is judgemental on one another no matter the fetish and everybody accepts people for who they are.
We are taking things at our own pace and have never felt pressured or uncomfortable to do anything else. The PV was a positive step and lets us know that everybody who stayed is genuine.

We don't have time to be on the dance floor with Facebook anymore, We're too busy sat in the SS corner with the other perverts.

Unbelievably no money has ever been asked from us for the privilege of being here. That makes us all the more willing to get involved in the fund raising events such as the slave auction.

Gonna stop rambling now.
Much love to you all
BNK
XXX

 

[Deleted member 3657]

It is indeed your fault that Lis has just looked, quizzically, at my laptop and then at me, like I've gone mad

what did you think?