What's Your Approach ?

[Sammy]

Afternoon folk

I'm interested to hear when you see someone on site that you like and you would like to get to know the better or meet them ....what's your approach?

Are you direct ?
Do you chat and see here it goes ?

Or if you are contacted is there things that put you off engaging

Sx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Afternoon folk

I'm interested to hear when you see someone on site that you like and you would like to get to know the better or meet them ....what's your approach?

Are you direct ?
Do you chat and see here it goes ?

Or if you are contacted is there things that put you off engaging

Sx

Yes.....

 

[Lovernotfighter]

Myself I try to be direct this is a swinging site after all, but me being me get all tongue tied (or finger tied as it were (actually I have a photo of my tied fingers somewhere)) and don't manage to get it out.

 

[Sammy]

Myself I try to be direct this is a swinging site after all, but me being me get all tongue tied (or finger tied as it were (actually I have a photo of my tied fingers somewhere)) and don't manage to get it out.

I've seen some of your knot work ... fab ... no wonder you get all tied

On serious note I know what you Mean

 

[mrclouse]

I guess I try to be atleast if I know they won't say no

 

[No longer with us]

I... honestly don't know. I'm still finding my feet here and have apparently misjudged on one occasion since I arrived... so I'm still figuring it out. (Hasten to add, my bad, no one else's)

Will pay careful attention to this thread to see how others do it.

 

[johndoc01]

I try to be direct but then run for the hills x

 

[mrclouse]

I try to be direct but then run for the hills x

it might work?

 

[Sammy]

I try to be direct but then run for the hills x

Lol John , most would run for hills if I approached lol

 

[johndoc01]

Lol John , most would run for hills if I approached lol

Oh my god no no no you are just fabulous babes although it might be a nice good game of hide and seek naked style in the woods Hmm Hmm thats got me thinking

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Dunno have never approached anyone yet but have been approached in a rather direct manner twice. One we met but not for us and the other we suspect was a bloke making out to be a couple. Not seen either one around since our return so guess they left the site

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Dunno have never approached anyone yet but have been approached in a rather direct manner twice. One we met but not for us and the other we suspect was a bloke making out to be a couple. Not seen either one around since our return so guess they left the site

Always open to an approach though if anyone is looking lol

 

[Sammy]

Dunno have never approached anyone yet but have been approached in a rather direct manner twice. One we met but not for us and the other we suspect was a bloke making out to be a couple. Not seen either one around since our return so guess they left the site

Sometimes it can be difficult
Hopefully PV will illuminate that experiences
Sx

 

[DiamondJoe]

Straight in through the windows with stun grenades

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Sometimes it can be difficult
Hopefully PV will illuminate that experiences
Sx

I doubt it will do that but it might eliminate it xx

 

[Sammy]

I doubt it will do that but it might eliminate it xx

Dam predictive text lol

 

[Sammy]

Straight in through the windows with stun grenades

Does it usually work

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Dam predictive text lol

Thought so but it was very illuminating to read

 

[Sammy]

Thought so but it was very illuminating to read

Note to me re read before posting dohhhhh

 

[DiamondJoe]

Does it usually work

I approach it a bit like fishing with dynamite

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Note to me re read before posting dohhhhh

Do it myself all the time especially when on my phone

 

[Sammy]

Do it myself all the time especially when on my phone

Yep I blame the phone lol

 

[mrclouse]

Predictive text is a total bastard

 

[meet_the_fockers]

You can generally get a feel for someone..
I tend to jump in with my size nines..
Lifes to short to fanny about..
They say no.. theres another 86 bus along shortly..
Im a direct kinda gal..
Dont ask dont get.
Dont ask always wonder...

 

[mrclouse]

But yea putting yourself out there can be hard, specially if you do like someone but even though getting rejected is possible should try it anyway (*says the guy who plays it way too safe*)