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Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
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Ok we are swingers and enjoy the sex/fun as well as everything else :sneaky:

For me sex was something I had to do and without going into detail, was made to feel it was a dirty deed on my behalf.

Until I met @Admin I had never felt so wanted and sexual, he has opened my mind to so many things, mainly being sex isn't just about the body but the mind, something I have never experienced, I think I am still learning every day, but am enjoying every day also, finding out more and more about myself and different, intense experiences.

What are your experiences and have you always felt confident without guidance or did it take that someone special to show you that sex is amazing with the right person and you feel you want to explore more and more every day. :love:
 
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DiamondJoe

DiamondJoe

4 July 2017
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Rimming.

I had np idea that people did that, nor that it could be so bloody amazing until I met a very nice chap some years ago.

That opened my eyes
 
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Lovernotfighter

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Lovernotfighter

3 February 2016
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Pearls said:
Ok we are swingers and enjoy the sex/fun as well as everything else :sneaky:

For me sex was something I had to do and without going into detail, was made to feel it was a dirty deed on my behalf.

Until I met @Admin I had never felt so wanted and sexual, he has opened my mind to so many things, mainly being sex isn't just about the body but the mind, something I have never experienced, I think I am still learning every day, but am enjoying every day also, finding out more and more about myself and different, intense experiences.

What are your experiences and have you always felt confident without guidance or did it take that someone special to show you that sex is amazing with the right person and you feel you want to explore more and more every day. :love:
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Always loved sex even though two virgins under candle light (well fairy lights okay) sounds much sweeter than it actually is.

It was probably the woman I was seeing in my early twenties that really allowed me to discover myself sexually she was older than I (mid-forthies) and was incredibly comfortable with her own sexuality and with the sexual liberation that came with it.

Ohhh and I will always be grateful to my most recent former girlfriend, though the sex was awkward (theirs reasons that I shall not be saying), her bi-sexuality and craving a woman's touch lead to discussion of swinging.
 
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Similar experiences to @Pearls, we'd both felt guilty pleasure about sex until we met special people, for me, G, it was a very experienced girlfriend who wasn't at all shy about it (previous girlfriends had been) and she introduced me to 69ing, trying some very different positions, anal, etc, and generally to joyful, uninhibited sex. She'd done group-sex and while we didn't do that together, her descriptions of it made me want to try it and I did with a later girlfriend. R came out of her shell when she went to uni and was introduced to recreational sex rather than sex with someone you have a crush on. As in my above experience, it was liberating and moved her boundaries, she did her first group-sex and FF sex not long after.

We'd both had very restrictive parents and had to wait until we'd left home before we could sleep with lovers all night and generally let ourselves go completely. R reacted to this when her sons started to have girlfriends by allowing them to have sex at her home, with the girls' parents approval of course, so they didn't have to use cars, parks and other peoples' houses as she (and I ) had to at that age.

We both developed into people who think sex is natural, essential, and can be ecstatic with the right person (or persons) and that wanting plenty of sex, and even sexual variety, is nothing to be ashamed about. While it's still basically the same act, everyone has their own particular way of behaving, reacting and so on and that's part of the joy of swinging as far as we're concerned. But our sex together is always the best!
 
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BoltonBiFemCpl

BoltonBiFemCpl

26 July 2016
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I S had a pretty dire sex life until I got divorced @ 24 years old. I then set out on a sex rampage trying all sorts of wonderful pleasures. Fortunately during this time I met my now wife who after courting for 6 months and having sex like good church fearing folks we went on an epic 16 hour drive during which we chatted about sex and confessed what we had done before we met and I told her all about my past thinking I could put it all behind me only to get the reaction from her of wow we have to try that together. And so the next day we joined a swinging website and the rest is history. So I guess I corrupted her as she was a good girl lol
 
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BoltonBiFemCpl said:
I S had a pretty dire sex life until I got divorced @ 24 years old. I then set out on a sex rampage trying all sorts of wonderful pleasures. Fortunately during this time I met my now wife who after courting for 6 months and having sex like good church fearing folks we went on an epic 16 hour drive during which we chatted about sex and confessed what we had done before we met and I told her all about my past thinking I could put it all behind me only to get the reaction from her of wow we have to try that together. And so the next day we joined a swinging website and the rest is history. So I guess I corrupted her as she was a good girl lol
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You have described exactly what I wish for.
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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I for one love my own sexuality and love exploring sex in many ways and forms.
For me, it's a huge part of my life but of course - goes without saying, not the be all and end all.

However, sex is an incredible thing to have and when deeply passionate between people, it can leave lasting memories and experiences to last a lifetime.
There are times where a simple kiss, touch and feel are more than adequate. Cradled and gently brought to orgasm simply by touching and feeling with hands and fingers.
Then there are times where being tied up, flogged, rampant sex - stopping, more flogging and spanking, more rampant sex and finally both orgasming together - is absolutely needed and incredibly lustful at the same time.
It's all good x
 
Pearls

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Pearls

18 July 2015
55,117
121,117
Lips_Pearls said:
I for one love my own sexuality and love exploring sex in many ways and forms.
For me, it's a huge part of my life but of course - goes without saying, not the be all and end all.

However, sex is an incredible thing to have and when deeply passionate between people, it can leave lasting memories and experiences to last a lifetime.
There are times where a simple kiss, touch and feel are more than adequate. Cradled and gently brought to orgasm simply by touching and feeling with hands and fingers.
Then there are times where being tied up, flogged, rampant sex - stopping, more flogging and spanking, more rampant sex and finally both orgasming together - is absolutely needed and incredibly lustful at the same time.
It's all good x
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:sneaky:
 
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