Escorts

[The_Bibas]

No not the car...

I know it has been discussed before and in fact we allowed them on here for a while.. And probably some are still here...

Is it a good idea to allow them?

Personally... There is definitely a gap.. Lol.. In the market.. And lots of single men desperate to be part of something..


Is it so outrageous that we have to say no?
Thoughts on a postcard...

XxxBibaxxX

 

[DiamondJoe]

No. It brings the tone down and what's the point in paying for something I can get for free?

 

[Therapon]

Yes if an individual can afford it then why not, they provide a service for those who want it. All the usual caveats re safety apply.

 

[The_Bibas]

Yes if an individual can afford it then why not, they provide a service for those who want it. All the usual caveats re safety apply.

I do agree mouse.. Plus the site can charge them a monthly fee..
I understand what @DiamondJoe says but not everyone is as cock sure as he portrays.. Others struggle..
Some people I know very well work for babe station and charge for cam shows.. Is it not all part of the evolution...
We pay to go to private events and suchlike... Is it so greatly removed... Does that bring the tone down.. Gangbang parties etc seem to be ever more popular and charge a fee...
Is that not a form of escorting.....

XxxBibaxxX

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Hmmm.
I thinkso, but i think the numbers should most definately be controlled.
So long as its not in peoples faces.
Having said that, its not a free advertising site.
Although we advertise ourselves for free, events/club events parties.
On the whole im unsure on this one..
Would users be happy with Escorts floating about, doubt it.. also theres a minority that perhaps would.
Xxx

 

[Cheekychap70]

I'm not in favour. This is a swinging site not a knocking shop. If anyone feels the need to contact an escort then I guess there are plenty of opportunities on the internet already. Google is a magical tool.

 

[Deleted member 3657]

If escorts were here as part of the community, not necessarily to meet anyone, but to chat to "normal" (term used lightly) folk and be around like minded people and as long as they don't use it a tool to gain custom then I don't see the issue. Some escorts started off swinging so why push them away just because they get paid for sex? Like I said, as long as it's not used for purposes that other popular escort sites offer then I say let them in as long as they abide by the rules.

 

[emyr]

from a personal point of view i have never used an escort and i never intend too either and i have never visited any ladies of the night that hang around on street corners either so the answer for me would b no i dont wanna see escorts on here

 

[The_Bibas]

Hmmm.
I thinkso, but i think the numbers should most definately be controlled.
So long as its not in peoples faces.
Having said that, its not a free advertising site.
Although we advertise ourselves for free, events/club events parties.
On the whole im unsure on this one..
Would users be happy with Escorts floating about, doubt it.. also theres a minority that perhaps would.
Xxx

They always pop up from time to time..
I know we have all had run ins in the past with a few but I do think that there is a place for them.. But I agree that there must be a subscription and a limit..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[The_Bibas]

from a personal point of view i have never used an escort and i never intend too either and i have never visited any ladies of the night that hang around on street corners either so the answer for me would b no i dont wanna see escorts on here

But you pay to go to a sex club and other events?
XxxBibaxxX

 

[DiamondJoe]

I had sex with a prostitute once. It was back in the day when I was flush and didn't quite know what to do with my money - happy days... I was curious, more than anything, and spent a most entertaining couple of hours in their company. Must have been good, I remember tipping.

They contacted me again about a year later but although I'd enjoyed it, I'd done it and wasn't moved to do it again.

As I say, why pay for something you can get for free?

 

[Deleted member 3657]

Is it different to having profiles here that promote gang bang parties? They're actually advertising using a free site. Are paid to attend gang bang parties swingers? So why would someone who's job involves getting paid for sex and not use this site to advertise be ostracized? They're not a sub class person. Aren't we meant to be an inclusive community? Why should someone be kicked out because of a profession?
If a guy joined, but was a car salesman, he would be accepted as long as he didn't use the site as Autotrader.
They need to follow the rules of the site and we shouldn't be prejudice.

 

[The_Bibas]

If escorts were here as part of the community, not necessarily to meet anyone, but to chat to "normal" (term used lightly) folk and be around like minded people and as long as they don't use it a tool to gain custom then I don't see the issue. Some escorts started off swinging so why push them away just because they get paid for sex? Like I said, as long as it's not used for purposes that other popular escort sites offer then I say let them in as long as they abide by the rules.

But organised events where the girls get paid is ok?
Is a fine line... How many of you play with yourselves to pics and videos.. Or talk dirty in cam...
Or is it a matter of if it is free its OK..
I am in a controversial mood today granted but I am not hearing anything that explains why it is ok to pay to go to a sex venue where there is no guarantee or to pay for something that is..

XxxBibaxxX

 

[Cheekychap70]

But you pay to go to a sex club and other events?
XxxBibaxxX

You pay to go in yes but this NEVER guarantees you sex. The swinging scene is and should be so much more than that.

 

[The_Bibas]

Would I be kicked off the site tomorrow if I offered to lick lollipops for money?
Just because I do it for free and choose my lollipops am I really that much different..
Shirley Temple or surely tempted?
XxxBibaxxX

 

[DiamondJoe]

That said, I've spent a fair amount of time in the company of whores, they're generally rather lovely. Difficult lives, almost without exception - but then I was dealing with working girls, street sex workers.

My favourite was a woman called Annie, who was a bit older than the others, a smack addict and pretty chaotic. But she was fun and I'd look the other way when she raided our kitchen for toiletries.

One Friday afternoon she came in with an eviction notice and saying she'd gone back to her flat to discover it had been boarded up. I was like, Annie!!! This doesn't happen overnight! There must have been warnings!

So I started the process to refer her to a hostel for working girls. And this 17-page referral form came through.

I sighed and started on Q.1.

How do you spend your days? I ask.

"A-whorin' and a-scorin'!" she says triumphantly.

You're not taking this seriously, Annie, I says.

"Ok then, errm, listening to music, reading and taking long walks," she shoots back with a smile...

 

[Deleted member 3657]

But organised events where the girls get paid is ok?

Sorry I wasn't clear. It's no different. I don't think they should be advertising. I know if 2 profiles now (one joined today) that's purely pay to fuck parties. That's not being part of the community. Same for escorts who join soley for advertising to pay for sex, no. But join, join in, become an active member then yes.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Sorry I wasn't clear. It's no different. I don't think they should be advertising. I know if 2 profiles now (one joined today) that's purely pay to fuck parties. That's not being part of the community. Same for escorts who join soley for advertising to pay for sex, no. But join, join in, become an active member then yes.

You do raise a fair point - is it right to make money out of sex?

You might compare this practice to clubs tho'

 

[The_Bibas]

Sorry I wasn't clear. It's no different. I don't think they should be advertising. I know if 2 profiles now (one joined today) that's purely pay to fuck parties. That's not being part of the community. Same for escorts who join soley for advertising to pay for sex, no. But join, join in, become an active member then yes.

I agree
It would help site revenues too..
XxxBibaxxX

 

[Deleted member 3657]

You pay to go in yes but this NEVER guarantees you sex. The swinging scene is and should be so much more than that.

Swinger clubs, no there's nevet a guarantee. There are clubs where it is guaranteed and expected. Unless you go to watch it as live porn.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Swinger clubs, no there's nevet a guarantee. There are clubs where it is guaranteed and expected. Unless you go to watch it as live porn.

This is why I'm not sold on clubs - the odds are not stacked 95% in my favour

 

[meet_the_fockers]

Its a huge subject.
Where do we draw the line.
I agree with kwaks.. in one respect yes join, for personal use, for business use, I am unsure.
Yes we pay to go to sex clubs/swinging clubs we very rarely have sex with people there.. its more of a social thing.
To use and pay for an escort is different, you are of course paying for their services.
I have known of one escort, whom we have met socially. She uses/used swinging sites for her own pleasure only, no money is exchanged. Must admit though, she didnt have the grace to tell her meets what she did for a living wrong?? I dunno... x

 

[Cheekychap70]

This is why I'm not sold on clubs - the odds are not stacked 95% in my favour

That is exactly what I'm trying to say. No real swinger should ever go to a club thinking they are going to get laid. It's totally the wrong mindset. Go and chat and enjoy yourself socially and if anything comes of that it's a bonus.

 

[Deleted member 3657]

You do raise a fair point - is it right to make money out of sex?

Probably a whole different debate and seems controversial by some of the comments raised. But keeping in line with thread, aren't swinging clubs making money from the prospect of sex? Isn't it why the majority of people go? Aside from the social elements obviously.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Probably a whole different debate and seems controversial by some of the comments raised. But keeping in line with thread, aren't swinging clubs making money from the prospect of sex? Isn't it why the majority of people go? Aside from the social elements obviously.

Aye. At a club you're paying for a (supposedly) safe, conducive and permissive environment where your might get laid. You're not actually paying for sex