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candm
So is the straight to the point approach or the beat around the bush policy the best way ???
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We have found making friends the most comfortable way for us. Prefer to know people a bit so the jump in and arrange a meet isn't our thing but then we are new to swinging too and haven't yet met anybody from here, tho that will change soon at a social in 2 weeks. Do what is comfortable for you and never be afraid to ask questions is my only advice so far.
Oh and on here always be honest never offend and have fun!
N xxx
Oh and on here always be honest never offend and have fun!
N xxx
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candm
Thanks that's good advise xWe have found making friends the most comfortable way for us. Prefer to know people a bit so the jump in and arrange a meet isn't our thing but then we are new to swinging too and haven't yet met anybody from here, tho that will change soon at a social in 2 weeks. Do what is comfortable for you and never be afraid to ask questions is my only advice so far.
Oh and on here always be honest never offend and have fun!
N xxx
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meet_the_fockers
I guess it all depends on the person you are approaching.
I find when you have gotten to know someone.. you can sometimes get away with the direct approach.. but it is definately that gauging of that person/persons..that is key.. and its really difficult just to take a stab in the dark.. unless you have gotten to know them over time..
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I find when you have gotten to know someone.. you can sometimes get away with the direct approach.. but it is definately that gauging of that person/persons..that is key.. and its really difficult just to take a stab in the dark.. unless you have gotten to know them over time..
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meet_the_fockers
see this is EXACTLY IT.. i know you well enough.. and you i..to throw a fancy a fuck message your way.. and you would take in in the context it was meant..I certainly wouldnt do it to someone...i had had very little interaction with.
Its all about reading people.. communication.. xx
N
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Will get back to u on this one !!
I certainly wouldnt do it to someone...i had had very little interaction with.
Its all about reading people.. communication.. xx
N
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You know me well... if certain people I have been interacting said fancy a fuck then no I wouldn't be offended at all
I had never actually made the first move as I like the guy to although I do flirt to show I'm interested
I would like to say you will know which approach to use when the time is right but having got it so wrong lately you best not take advise from me
I had never actually made the first move as I like the guy to although I do flirt to show I'm interested
I would like to say you will know which approach to use when the time is right but having got it so wrong lately you best not take advise from me
MOTM
I think it's down to the individual(s) concerned. For me the first thing I do is to read their profile to try and get some idea of them. If the profile is blank I just move on, why bother.
After that then I love to chat and flirt so that you get an idea if they are at least interested, and move on from there.
The direct "wanna fuck" approach, in my opinion, just shows a lack of respect but then thats me, others may no agree. T
After that then I love to chat and flirt so that you get an idea if they are at least interested, and move on from there.
The direct "wanna fuck" approach, in my opinion, just shows a lack of respect but then thats me, others may no agree. T
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No longer with us
Totally agree.... but if someone I have interacted with for a long while said it I would just take it as banter, yet if someone who I haven't already built a friendship with said it I would take offence xx
MOTM
Exactly that. The direct approach when you have no real idea of who you are chatting to is not a great way to introduce yourself. Having said that, fancy a .......
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Usual placeExactly that. The direct approach when you have no real idea of who you are chatting to is not a great way to introduce yourself. Having said that, fancy a .......
Usual place
Can't we find somewhere else it's a bit draughty behind those bike sheds
Damn you get a car park he drags me to the woodsThat's better than asda car park where you take me
MOTM
That's better than asda car park where you take me
Damn you get a car park he drags me to the woods
What can I say ...... nowt I believe is the best policy at the moment
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We find getting to know people first chat, flirt and then see where it goes! Xxxx
That's better than asda car park where you take me
Shopping trolleys. Now I remember. You wanted to go there, you have a thing about shopping trolleys
For me i would say the same as my lovely OH, make friendships have a laugh and a giggle and be honest and open, to me well both of us we don't like liar's and cheats, the ones that are doing this behind there wives or husbands backs we just don't go there. I will flirt with the people i fancy on here possibly more than Neil does really but he knows about everything as we hide nothing from each other. If after a period of time the flirts are reciprocated i do go for the direct approach as certain guys on here know already I was actually very direct with one on his profile .
I did have a newbie being immediately direct on pm which i didn't answer as i thought hey steady on you just joined what happened to hello. So saying that who fancies a f*** 
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I was actually very direct with one on his profile . I did have a newbie being immediately direct on pm which i didn't answer as i thought hey steady on you just joined what happened to hello
. So saying that who fancies a f*** .Vxxx
Yes it's an avoidance at all costs issue although being there with you made me see them in a whole new lightShopping trolleys. Now I remember. You wanted to go there, you have a thing about shopping trolleys
