My top tip to newbies (more aimed at guys I guys): avoid making your introductory message a cock pic.
My Top Tip To Newbies
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Yes you have to get on with both for things to work out and repect everyone that you meet xx
This is true. When guys approach us, specially new members, its often as if I don't exist... I make myself known though
N xxx
And so you should were all in this togetherThis is true. When guys approach us, specially new members, its often as if I don't exist... I make myself known though
N xxx
So to put the shoe on the other foot if you N get contact from a SF how does V feel is she of the same mindset ?This is true. When guys approach us, specially new members, its often as if I don't exist... I make myself known though
N xxx
Yes it can be quite irritating when I get messages from single guys that don't acknowledge that I'm part of a couple so I always make that clear to them
Vxxx
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That has never happened
If it did V would be mentioned instantly so we could both have a giggle
N xxx
I do involve both when i make contact with a couple best way x
True, I do note purely as there are more guys in any social setting, there's more chance for guys to trip at this hurdle. But that reminds me of my next tip
Top tip 3: Remember, this is swinging - if you've had a successful meet, be gracious and acknowledge it by way of a thank you message or verification. It does go a long way.
Top tip 4: This is swinging (not match dot com), you do not "own" someone you've played with, and neither should they get upset if you play with someone else after them. (One or two rough personal experiences over the years, this is for everyone, including couples).
Yes that's very poignant and something people need to remember indeed.
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This is a great tread though I think newbies and oldbies for that need to just follow these simple rules
1. Have fun it's meant to fun.
2. Respect everyone especially yourself.
3. Understand people's situation and the situation you are in.
Ohh and an extra thing
4. Play safe.
1. Have fun it's meant to fun.
2. Respect everyone especially yourself.
3. Understand people's situation and the situation you are in.
Ohh and an extra thing
4. Play safe.
Girls dont be afraid of asking Guys we come in a shy version too x
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Another tip would be a refustal is always possible however do not take this personally as attraction is not something you can account for just be polite chat have a giggle and you never know what will happen. The social aspect can be as important as the intimacy
Relax and be yourselves
Relax and be yourselves
This! Ladies, not all of us guys are psychic to guess which lady is interested.
(Truth be told am pretty thick and have left ladies waiting for years as did not know they were waiting for me to ask!)
Give us the nudge
Be honest if your not interested say so.
Dont be a soap dodger (get a bath and smell nice)
Personal hygene is a massive game changer.
Check your fingernails as not many women will let you near them with dirty hands.
Dont ever agree to doing anything until after you have met the person socially.
Meet the first time in a busy place and BE ON TIME
Hell this list could be endless
Dont be a soap dodger (get a bath and smell nice)
Personal hygene is a massive game changer.
Check your fingernails as not many women will let you near them with dirty hands.
Dont ever agree to doing anything until after you have met the person socially.
Meet the first time in a busy place and BE ON TIME
Hell this list could be endless
Remember: Swinging is supposed to be fun - its not an avenue to gather "ego rubs". If you're not interested in someone, please PLEASE don't them along (that's for everyone!) - personally I've known a few women who (sadly) were not interested in meeting, but enjoyed the attention. When I sussed them out and backed away, they'd then message every so often to see if I fancied chatting while they were busy meeting others.
Okay, I saw a YouTube video, and had to laugh. Its kinda on par with the above post (don't worry, its perfectly clean) .. if I'm allowed to post links to YouTube videos?