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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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During the course of a great chat with another member, I had explained that I/we find the social aspect of swinging, especially when with someone, just as important if not more important than the physical side of things within itself.

I.E Going out for a drink/dinner etc.. or even just being at home, something nice to eat and a good few drinks.
However for some people it's more about being there, a few drinks and then going from there.
Is being social like that, wining and dining etc etc just as important to you too? :) x
 
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Baldrick

Baldrick

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Unknown as of yet but Balders has been known to like his grub however Kaz can get uncomfortable eating infront of others (unless fed alcohol).
We wouldn't be up for a simple hello and dive straight in scenario though. I think we would need the atmosphere to be right first, drinks, conversation, laughs, loosen up and then take it from there if everyone is feeling some sort of chemistry.
This is how it plays out in our heads anyway, that's our fantasy.

Bnk
Xxx
 
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The social aspect of it all is a definate must for me. It sets the atmosphere.
No better way to enjoy an evening than making new friends even if theres no physical attraction there x
 
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.Jophanie.

22 July 2017
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Yes. We are enjoying the social aspect and have enjoyed meeting others for drinks, it's great laying a foundation online, but nothing beats the physical attraction of face to face and the spark of wanting someone! Roll on more social meets! X
 
Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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We did have loads on last year and this year too, but faces and names often change in this lifestyle... which means sometimes the well established ones can slip off the map.
Yes there's more personal socials too, but site or member organised socials are parties as of right now, are lower than usual.
There's nothing stopping a member organising one though.
Mind you that said, I had a discussion about this the other day and I'd like to somehow get an extra one squeezed in either for Christmas or NYE somewhere - for people who may not even be able to make March. But otherwise the only other one coming up is in March. x
 
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For us the social side is so important...good wine, good food and excellent friends. Of course if it leads on to other things then that’s the icing on the cake otherwise it’s fiends for life for us.

For me, T I’ve made so many friends since joining SS and with Miss C as my cariad hopefully we will expand on it...

A Social a month now we’re talking..

Xxxxx to all xxxx :0)) is T&C
 
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Sadly this year we missed all the socials, something to do with weddings or arriving from Brazil just hours before. We did make the fof but strangely ended up elsewhere which although good fun was away from the rest of you.
We joined SS to make friends and contacts, for us it's important to have social interaction as well as erotic sex, in fact that interaction is very important. I've (Ste) been at clubs where an anon has offered me 'access' to his lady and I've not so much as spoken to them, a total turn off. For us that conversation, getting to know them, then developing into sexual action is just SOO needed.
So far things haven't quite gone quite the way we hoped for. Although we've talked to you here and interacted as such so many of you are still just names in a web-site. We were hoping to meet some of you recently but it appears we misread something. There's a number of you here we are very interested in meeting to socialise with AND have fun with, but yes that pleasant conversation and interaction is all part of it.
 
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Wkd n whisky

Wkd n whisky

22 May 2017
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Through a social that I gatecrashed lol lovely owner of the Va put me with you guys we have made some good friends and I like the social side it settles the nerves. Looking forward to March as we like going to a club if we know someone.
Bex
 
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Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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T&C said:
A Social a month now we’re talking..
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I really wish that was possible... We did have things set up for the two huge ones (birthday bash and FoF) plus then quarterly social events organised by a member, but sadly due to various reasons - that's now not happening.
However I genuinely see the need for more and believe more should be organised.
I wanted to squeeze another in before March, but am unsure if people could do it both financially and time-wise this side of Christmas.

FWIW - as mentioned, we truly believe in being socially connected with people who take our interest and it's usually vice versa too. Sometimes of course people just want the end goal and job done. But for us, the social interaction is so so hugely important too. :) x
 
Lips_Pearls

Lips_Pearls

19 March 2015
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Lips_Pearls said:
I really wish that was possible... We did have things set up for the two huge ones (birthday bash and FoF) plus then quarterly social events organised by a member, but sadly due to various reasons - that's now not happening.
However I genuinely see the need for more and believe more should be organised.
I wanted to squeeze another in before March, but am unsure if people could do it both financially and time-wise this side of Christmas.
Click to expand...
I know it's not really related to my OP but take a look here;
Another Possible Social?
 
Therapon

Therapon

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11 August 2015
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Lips_Pearls said:
During the course of a great chat with another member, I had explained that I/we find the social aspect of swinging, especially when with someone, just as important if not more important than the physical side of things within itself.

I.E Going out for a drink/dinner etc.. or even just being at home, something nice to eat and a good few drinks.
However for some people it's more about being there, a few drinks and then going from there.
Is being social like that, wining and dining etc etc just as important to you too? :) x
Click to expand...

I like to get to know people, what do they enjoy, what makes them tick and the only way to really do that is to meet and talk to them. So yes the social aspect is important for me.
 
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Looby&Lew

18 October 2015
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Socials for us are very important. We like to know that there is a bit of chemistry. It also builds anticipation of what might happen further down the line. Not only that we have made some amazing friends that are purely and simply friends. We'll take friends whatever way they come about no pun intended.....x
 
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