Attractive V Sexually Attractive

[Wheels]

Afternoon fellow SS users,

I have been thinking of this for a while so I thought I would throw it out there.... I may be alone in this however for me if I find someone attractive doesn't necessarily mean I find them sexually attractive yes I think they can intertwine but essentially they are two different qualities. Am I alone here? discuss

 

[Vanezza]

Can't really say i get that because in this lifestyle its a no no if they are not sexually attractive

Vxxx

 

[DiamondJoe]

Afternoon fellow SS users,

I have been thinking of this for a while so I thought I would throw it out there.... I may be alone in this however for me if I find someone attractive doesn't necessarily mean I find them sexually attractive yes I think they can intertwine but essentially they are two different qualities. Am I alone here? discuss

Spell out the difference for me, OP

 

[Lovernotfighter]

Honestly for me they both go hand in hand, yes I may notice that someone's attractive because I feel sexually attracted to them, perhaps that's wrong perhaps what I mean is just because I find someone attractive doesn't mean I want to have sex (or even consider it) with them right away.

 

[Wheels]

Spell out the difference for me, OP

A lot of women are attractive however I may not want to be sexual with them I find them attractive but that's it

 

[Sammy]

I agree I can look at at man or woman and acknowledge and think yes very attractive person ... but doesn't necessarily float my boat

While others I look at and think
Wow I wanna know you in a whole other way ...

Sx

 

[DiamondJoe]

A lot of women are attractive however I may not want to be sexual with them I find them attractive but that's it

Attraction is a personal thing, no?

A person may be 'objectively' attractive and still not quite do it for you. Or they may not have 'classical' good looks but there's something about the way they move, speak or act that is exciting.

?

 

[Wheels]

Attraction is a personal thing, no?

A person may be 'objectively' attractive and still not quite do it for you. Or they may not have 'classical' good looks but there's something about the way they move, speak or act that is exciting.

?

Exactly my friend there is no right or wrong here I am just asking really if attraction and sexual attraction are the same for some people or two different qualities.

 

[DiamondJoe]

Exactly my friend there is no right or wrong here I am just asking really if attraction and sexual attraction are the same for some people or two different qualities.

Then we have our answer: beauty is in the eye of the beholder

 

[DiamondJoe]

Then we have our answer: beauty is in the eye of the beholder

* it's subjective

 

[Baldrick]

My simple answer is yes you can find somebody attractive without being sexually attracted to them.

For example purposes only, I could say @Wheels I think you are a very attractive man, but this doesn't mean that I want to get jiggy with you

B x

 

[Wheels]

@Baldricknkaz thank you for the compliment even if it is for example purposes x

 

[Baldrick]

@Baldricknkaz thank you for the compliment even if it is for example purposes x

Lol I felt like I don't know you well enough to write you are an attractive man .
You are very welcome

B x

 

[Wheels]

Lol I felt like I don't know you well enough to write you are an attractive man .
You are very welcome

B x

Blushing and thank you again x

 

[RobbieFutuo]

I’d need to think about this more but initial reaction is I’m not sure I’ve ever found a lady attractive where I wouldn’t be happy to get sexual, other than on morale grounds (ie they’re married, work colleague, relative etc).

 

[Scorpiosdoitbest1970]

This is a really good question, for me I think that , I could see someone I think is attractive to me and think you are gorgeous really lovely looking I would love to ask you out for dinner or get to know you , other people I might look at and think God you look so sexy I would love to rip your clothes off and be really filthy with you . Maybe it's just the way I'm feeling at the the time when I look at them . Xx

 

[Antogs]

I find this interesting.
I think I may differ in that the consensus so far seems to be that people can't find someone sexually attractive unless they find them attractive per se. Of course, it depends on the definition of the word attractive but here are my thoughts anyway.
If I find a woman "attractive" then I will certainly find her sexually attractive. Quite simply if I fancy a woman I'll want to pull her panties off
However, if I don't find a woman attractive in the conventional sense (by MY definition) I can still find her sexually attractive because of other attributes. I'm not talking body parts here. More attitude and the way she behaves etc. To clarify, if I find her ugly or repulsive nothing will make me want to have sex with her. However, if she's someone that, initially, I wouldn't have given a second glance she may have "something about her" that will make me want to have sex with her.
I've had a couple of relationships with girls who I wouldn't, for example, make a beeline for at a party, but have enjoyed glorius sex with.
I hope that makes sense.

 

[NotSoFireproof]

Afternoon fellow SS users,

I have been thinking of this for a while so I thought I would throw it out there.... I may be alone in this however for me if I find someone attractive doesn't necessarily mean I find them sexually attractive yes I think they can intertwine but essentially they are two different qualities. Am I alone here? discuss

No! Definitely not. I was trying to explain this to someone I know!

 

[Deleted member 7954]

Yeah i think they are different but also work together too. You need to be attracted to wanna get jiggy with someone but im also capable of looking at a guy and thinking.....you are a beautiful man....bur thats as far as it goes xx

 

[Pearls]

So who is sexually attractive and who is attractive

 

[Antogs]

So who is sexually attractive and who is attractive

And who is neither?

 

[Deleted member 7954]

So who is sexually attractive and who is attractive

Now that would be telling lol xxx

 

[Pearls]

Now that would be telling lol xxx

You go first and I will. X

 

[Deleted member 7954]

You go first and I will. X

@MP386 does it for me xxx

 

[Pearls]

@DiamondJoe