Meets- To Plan Or Not To Plan Is The Question.

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So what's your thoughts the question is simple

If you are meeting... do you go with spontaneous attitude and see where things go Or

Do you like to plan e.g. bring certain things with you

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uk2002

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Sorry going to be safe with this
Go with the flow if it's a first meet - HOWEVER boy scout motto of be prepared means you should carry condoms as a minimum for everyone's safety
 
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Guys, just have condoms on you regardless and make sure you're clean and fresh. I see that as normal regardless if you expect anything to happen or not. How else can men prepare???
 
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Kwaka_Rider said:
Guys, just have condoms on you regardless and make sure you're clean and fresh. I see that as normal regardless if you expect anything to happen or not. How else can men prepare???
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Agree

But some might think that is presumptuous and not bother (hoping to get something from a machine later)
 
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Terryg

It would be horrible if it was choreographed but yes talk, plan, build the anticipation with suggestions and hints. Nothing like getting into the mind of the other person before you meet. Yes, pack some toys etc as well.
 
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Terryg said:
It would be horrible if it was choreographed but yes talk, plan, build the anticipation with suggestions and hints. Nothing like getting into the mind of the other person before you meet. Yes, pack some toys etc as well.
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So what toys would you pack???
 
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We always see how things go, but saying that we are always prepared because you never know. N&J xx
 
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Terryg said:
Tell you what ..not subjective.. last meet...and yes with a girl.

A suit for dinner...
A few undies to change into
A vibrator
A cock ring
Lube
The lady bought
Smart dress for dinner
A glass dildo
Blind fold
Ties
And lots of anticipation..

We had a superb time..
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Of course it's subjective, not everyone will like the same things. :palm:
Glad you had a good time.
 
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Of course it's subjective, not everyone will like the same things. :palm:
Glad you had a good time.
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It wasn't subjective in this case.. it was worked out and planned before hand between the two of us.

I never suggested this is what everyone should do, or that it would work with others.

Why do we like to complicate things with words..
 
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Terryg said:
It wasn't subjective in this case.. it was worked out and planned before hand between the two of us.
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I was implying that the this anyone would take is the subjective part. What you took was subjective.
 
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