Meets- To Plan Or Not To Plan Is The Question.

[Deleted member 3657]

So what would you pack if you were meeting a girl?

I've already said.

 

[Sammy]

I've already said.

Where ?
Condoms n a smile ?
Sx

 

[Sammy]

Feck sorry
Me in triplicate not a good idea
Sx

 

[Deleted member 3657]

I seem to be getting multiple alerts for the same thing

 

[Nigel&Julie]

We have things planned BUT will have to cancel due to RL things, but hopefully can go back and start again. N&J xx

 

[Sammy]

We have things planned BUT will have to cancel due to RL things, but hopefully can go back and start again. N&|J| xx

Yep been there done that bought tshirt .... horrible n so disappointing when it happens
Thankfully I've always had a understanding response
Sx

 

[Terryg]

@Sammy ..I'm sorry your thread was hijacked by semantics .. it's rude and unnecessary..sorry Tx

 

[Sammy]

@Sammy ..I'm sorry your thread was hijacked by semantics .. it's rude and unnecessary..sorry Tx

No apologies necessary terry hunni
Sx

 

[Therapon]

If it was a first meet/social and local then the same as I would for any other night out. Shave,shower, dress for the occasion and just in case the unlikely happend some durex. If, as I did when I first went to meet @Miss-Sexy-Legs in Whitby and was staying overnight, I took a couple of complete changes of clothes, all the stuff to the have a shower etc plus durex. And I still do that.

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

Only things we take are the useual stuff and that includes condoms always.

 

[Deleted member 9925]

We don't like to plan other than condoms

 

[DiamondJoe]

So what's your thoughts the question is simple

If you are meeting... do you go with spontaneous attitude and see where things go Or

Do you like to plan e.g. bring certain things with you

Sx

Depends on how elaborate the other person wants to be

 

[Lips_Pearls]

So what's your thoughts the question is simple

If you are meeting... do you go with spontaneous attitude and see where things go Or

Do you like to plan e.g. bring certain things with you

Sx

We definitely go with a spontaneous attitude and take it from there. Also, like @DiamondJoe we kind of sit with this too;

Depends on how elaborate the other person wants to be

So we do go with the flow, never have an expectant attitude, but are happy to see where things go. x

 

[BoltonBiFemCpl]

For this exact reason we always arrange for a no pressure drink first then its OK to walk away and nobody is left feeling bad or we invite back to ours then the others can either say yes or no. Meet early also so if we all don't click we can all go do something else and a precious night out is not lost

 

[Deleted member 9925]

So to the people who plan what kind of level of planning are we talking about?

 

[Pearls]

So to the people who plan what kind of level of planning are we talking about?

Good question