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Tbh I’m started to get a complex as everyone I see that know me always seem shocked at how I look :rofl: I have gone down 4 dress sizes. I was always a size 12 but then my weight sneaked up and I ended up in a tight squeeze of an 18 :eek: I hated it as it wasn’t me at all. I’ve always had curves but not mountains and my health was not good. I would say I’ve dropped 4 stone since last April but it did come off quick. I wouldn’t want to be the size I was again. I just didn’t feel comfortable. Xx

Wow thats amazing hun! I salute you!(y):love:
Same I dropped 5 stone went from a 22/24 to 16/18 (well I think so depending on where I shop!). Mum having a heart attack frightened me so much as she was smaller, healthy (even though she smoked) and we didnt see it coming. Best decision I ever made. Feel much more myself now, but still see the old me in the mirror, I can't quite get me head round it S xxxx
 
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Wow thats amazing hun! I salute you!(y):love:
Same I dropped 5 stone went from a 22/24 to 16/18 (well I think so depending on where I shop!). Mum having a heart attack frightened me so much as she was smaller, healthy (even though she smoked) and we didnt see it coming. Best decision I ever made. Feel much more myself now, but still see the old me in the mirror, I can't quite get me head round it S xxxx
You’ve done amazing and a 16-18 isn’t big. Think Marilyn Monroe was a 16 ;)and beautiful. Being an 18 myself just didn’t suit me. I looked like a whale but I’m not that tall either. Some can carry off different sizes. I’ve been an 8-10 and looked shit and all bones, i much prefer my curves and so does Mr A. He was moaning that my legs were too little and muscular not so long back :rofl: it’s great when you find your happy place though :love: xx
 
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You’ve done amazing and a 16-18 isn’t big. Think Marilyn Monroe was a 16 ;)and beautiful. Being an 18 myself just didn’t suit me. I looked like a whale but I’m not that tall either. Some can carry off different sizes. I’ve been an 8-10 and looked shit and all bones, i much prefer my curves and so does Mr A. He was moaning that my legs were too little and muscular not so long back :rofl: it’s great when you find your happy place though :love: xx

True hun it’s all about how you feel in yourself, and it’s great to find that happy place. I’ll never be small I just couldn’t carry it off wouldn’t suit me, plus I’m a wee bit taller so can carry a bit more roundness and I’m happier now. Plus I like my curves.
Plus beauty shines through from the inside and with you it’s there in abundance xxxx S xxx
 
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True hun it’s all about how you feel in yourself, and it’s great to find that happy place. I’ll never be small I just couldn’t carry it off wouldn’t suit me, plus I’m a wee bit taller so can carry a bit more roundness and I’m happier now. Plus I like my curves.
Plus beauty shines through from the inside and with you it’s there in abundance xxxx S xxx
You look amazing hun. What can I say but thankyou. :love:Xx
 
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Mine... meh... lost a lot of weight, appointment earlier and have gained a little but it’s those Christmas nibbles :lol: working hard too atm, but not At the right times: coming in late and starving = dormant food = fatness.
Work hard, mind the nibbles, eat healthily, keep exercising and all will be good.. xx
 
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Mine... meh... lost a lot of weight, appointment earlier and have gained a little but it’s those Christmas nibbles :lol: working hard too atm, but not At the right times: coming in late and starving = dormant food = fatness.
Work hard, mind the nibbles, eat healthily, keep exercising and all will be good.. xx
No more crackers :D
You look amazing :sneaky:xxx
 
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Ever get fat days?
Let's be honest about this now. I am no slim Jim. Barrel chested, pretty stocky.. and on top of all that - a bloke. (always Mr from here!) As if that matters... But it does, doesn't it? Women get fat days don't they? Men don't! (As in, we're not allowed, not meant to ... Yawn!)
Anyway, aye a little overweight but shifting it pretty well (training etc). but man don't you hate fat days?
I mean, I don't eat like food is going out of fashion and I am sure you don't either.. but yet most of us get these days.
How do you feel then stripping off in front of someone else when you get a shitty fat day? Do you still go ahead or what?
Can play games with you, that's certain. Especially if you've had one of those days where whatever you've eaten or drank - just seems to sit there. x :confused:

It’s reassuring to think that men have those days too. :)

I know it can come across as disingenuous when a ‘slim’ person says they’re ‘having a fat day’ but it really feels like it today. I don’t have great eating habits...bit binge and fast, not deliberately, just the pattern I find myself in when not making conscious choices. I’m grateful I don’t have to strip off in front of anyone this evening and I can have a pity party for one in my duvet.

Curves are the bomb! So feminine and beautiful. Xxx
 
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It’s reassuring to think that men have those days too. :)

I know it can come across as disingenuous when a ‘slim’ person says they’re ‘having a fat day’ but it really feels like it today. I don’t have great eating habits...bit binge and fast, not deliberately, just the pattern I find myself in when not making conscious choices. I’m grateful I don’t have to strip off in front of anyone this evening and I can have a pity party for one in my duvet.

Curves are the bomb! So feminine and beautiful. Xxx
I get them regularly. I used to be very fit and more muscular, then I smashed my knee up very badly. This meant weight gain and so on but I’ve managed to stabilise it over the past year. I get terribly conscious at times tbh.
And yeah! Curves are the bomb. So so feminine. I love it! Xx
Mr A just cooked sausage bacon mushrooms and egg with toast. Fat as two pigs day today :palm:(n)
Omm. It’s not good is it. Where’s the Uber low fat food gone... :( xx
 
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I get them regularly. I used to be very fit and more muscular, then I smashed my knee up very badly. This meant weight gain and so on but I’ve managed to stabilise it over the past year. I get terribly conscious at times tbh.
And yeah! Curves are the bomb. So so feminine. I love it! Xx

Omm. It’s not good is it. Where’s the Uber low fat food gone... :( xx
Gone. Lots of bumps forming. I need to starve for a week :(
 
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Think it's time for me to accept that I'm screwed and stuck like this as I'm constantly trying to lose weight but medication I'm on for the rest of life causes weight gain so it's just a losing battle...w...(n)(n)